Does Size Matter and Who Does it Matter to?

Penis size is prevalent everywhere. No matter where you look there is some kind of reference to fallacies or the like. I was watching an episode of the Family Guy and the entire episode was dedicated to Peter Griffen's son's penis size. Everyone watching the show laughed and saw the irony in the shows production. I see these penis analogies everywhere. I just did a television show in the UK that was dedicated to penis size. The show was a multi episode program and spent 3 days on penis. Truly amazing.

I have been the topic of countless articles, magazine interviews and TV shows and I am always baffled at how much the general public is amazed at penis size. I know I am submerged in the topic but this is what I do. My forum has thousands of men with the same interest (obsession as some would call it) but still, with my vast experience with "the public" they are as obsessed with penis size as myself or any of my clients.

Ultimately the answer to the question of, does penis size matter and who does it matter to? is a multi-level response answer. To the man in a sexual situation with a huge penis and a virginal conquest, size certainly matters. On the flip side of that coin, a size queen who has had miles of massive cock and a small penis man, well size certainly is an issue there too. In both cases size matters to both parties.

Now, what is the actual thought process? To the woman involved with a big penis I think the thoughts center around fear and curiosity. I think many men see this as a bigger deal than it really is as the woman may have a brief experience with these thoughts but ultimately she is more concerned with the intimacy and the expression of affection. Again, when a woman experiences a smaller penis after she has been with a bigger man may have a brief comparison or even have the thought, "well thats smaller" but this again is brief and soon replaced by the man's ability to prove other important qualities to her. Food for thought, if a woman is only concerned with size than buy her a 14" dildo and send her on her way, this relationship will never work. But it is important, that if you care for the woman you are with that you do not hold her uncontrollable thoughts against her. When you see a tall building you think, "wow, that is tall" and if there is a building next to it that is smaller you may make a mental comparison that is brief and without lingering emotion. Yes, I know sex is much more involved than a building but the comparison, to the way woman view penis size is comparable.

Having a naturally large penis may even be a handicap for many men and they may ignore so many vital parts of their personality depending solely on their size to compensate. This is not always the case but a naturally huge penis is rarely the case. I myself have a very large penis, most likely one of the biggest in the world but I know for certainty this does not make me a better man than the next guy. I spent many years with a woman who was with me when my penis was 6.5" x 4.75" and she remained with me as I grew to my current size of 10.5" x 6.5" and aside from the forced "look at my big penis and praise me for it" she spent little mental energy on the topic. During sex it was pleasurable and for good reason but sex was also pleasurable for us when I was smaller.

Being very available to the world you would think 1000's of woman would be knocking down my door for sex but again this is not the case. This kind of proves that size is only a small part of what woman look for in a man as a mate. So am I condemning the large penis or somehow saying that pursuing a larger penis is a waste of time? Not at all, I am simply saying that size is not as big of an issue as the world may think.

To the man though, size is a whole other animal. Many men become obsessed with their mates past, lovers she may have enjoyed, penis' she may have seen, what she thinks, if her thoughts are all about our penis. We can really consume ourselves into a depressive corner by convincing ourselves that she is having the same thoughts as us. It is a very real stigma to allot of men and an easy solution is not available.

Fact are you can change your size, I gained 4" in length and 2" in girth. This, if it was the entirety of why my girl was with me, would have secured my relationship for ever but today my girl is my ex-girl. So I think I have established that size is not a rule all. But still, if we are small, we are left with the reality that is our penis. Don't fret, you too can do what I did but be sure to make it only a part of your life. Expect the miracle to happen, as it will, expect a reaction from your girl, it will, but do not become consumed with only your penis.