Penis Enlargement and your relationship
What are the psychological impacts of penis enlargement and a relationship. This is assuming penis enlargement is working for you as these scenarios are based on the prerequisite that you believe penis enlargement works. With this established a man will encounter many new emotions which may lead to an unhealthy balance in perceived power. The penis and the ability to make it larger gives us a very powerful feeling, one that is an anomaly of sorts as penis enlargement is miraculous to say the least. Particularly when you consider that we stopped growing around 20 years of age. It is sort of like, on a sexual level, figuring out how to make the brain grow, imagine the power one would feel. This same power is translatable to sexuality as the same mental and physical fundamentals apply. With the realization of a bigger penis at our our hands comes a instilled power akin to the fountain of youth.
A troubled relationship may be crushed under this realization as many men see a bigger penis as a way to change their female selections and the predisposition to anchor the deal with a larger cock. The problem here is a bigger penis is like a Porsche, even if you own it it is hard to let someone know about it when you can't have it hanging out of your zipper on display. Not unlike the penis the Porsche, too, is hard to convey when you can't wear it on your sleeve.
I used the Porsche as the example as I once had a brand new Porsche and I found it almost impossible to let women know. Without seeing arrogant or lying, it was impossible to let them know. I had to depend on luck that I would be getting in the car while she saw me. It happened a few times but it was rare. Having a nice car that is not used it kind of pointless so if you have a current relationship, don't become delusional with this power, work on your brain too. Work on your relationship, making it closer and more equal. People are like eggshells, very fragile, walk with gentleness and great care.
Some view a bigger penis as the saving grace of their current relationship thinking if they could only attain another inch their relationship would be saved. If a woman is basing the entire relationship on an extra inch of cock then beware of the woman. A bigger penis does equate to more confidence, pride, hope and power, as discussed, so these all lend to the betterment of the entire self but they too are only a fractional piece in a broad subject of relationships.
The daily regiment, with the penis and self, also instills a new appreciation for the penis and sexuality as a whole, if we are in a sexual relationship. This new hope can give us all time highs in bed and in the office but again the reality sometimes supersedes the mental belief. A realization of a bigger penis may not stay in sync with deeper beliefs in the way we see it. A perfect example of this was I went into a slump in self view in and around my 2nd year in penis enlargement. This period was ugly as my head was filled with self doubt and negativity, that like Adam, I often hid myself which put a strain on my relationship with Jen, my girlfriend at the time. Even though these doubts were silly and unfounded in reality they still burdened me which stemmed to another irrational thought pattern where I believed other thought this way too. This mental lapse in reality and perceived reality created tension in my sexual relationship and lend itself to compulsions and ridiculous rituals around the same.
So it is vital to keep penis enlargement out of the bedroom, in a mental way, as it will become intertwined with other parts of our lives that it best stay away from. A 'don't take it so seriously' attitude is best exercised in the visual realities of penis enlargement. Perhaps a snapshot when you begin and one a year later is the best place to instill hopes in visual change. The progression of penis enlargement is visually slow, like watching a pot boil but even more complex because penis enlargement is a monthly effort, sometimes years. Measurements should be enough to satisfy the mental belief system. If it measures longer and thicker, then it is. Again, exercise restraint in the measuring process as obsession can too manifest this portion of penis enlargement and turn a good thing bad.
A good system of measuring is this:
Once per day: measure bone pressed, flaccid stretched. This will give you something to see at least once per week as these gains come before other ones. One could feasibly see change here every couple days if he attacks penis enlargement with a strong enthusiasm. A obsession will be fed in a healthy way in this case as measuring daily is wise in a situation where a change would be visible at least weekly. Keep a journal and look back on it when in doubt.
Measure monthly: Erect bone pressed length, erect girth and erect non bone pressed length if you are on a diet (or gaining weight) This is a good place to watch the entire process. See Alphablade.com.
Take pictures every 6 months, if you are brave enough. This will allow you to see the difference, visually, as long as you have not gained weight as fat pad at the pelvic region can be responsible for allow of would be penis. Stay in shape or lose weight, and take these pictures for inspiration. Many men get so inspired about this part of their personal record that they post it, online, see www.mattersofsize.com/forum
To tell her or not to tell her. Again this is as purely personal as it is individual. If you have the type of relationship that would show understanding to this practice then telling her could be a source of support. With that said it could also create some awkwardness in other portions of the relationship. For myself, when all things were in balance, having Jen know was a blessing. It kept me inspired and motivated but it also gave me another set of eyes. But with all good things there is a dark side and my dark side of this was when I became obsessive in asking her if she saw or felt changes. A very difficult position to be in when change is so slow, visually and sex can be so frequent. Keep things relaxed here, wait for the complements, take them and move on. They will happen without a protagonist.
Keeping it a secret also serves for plenty of excitement as an unknowing spouse may think she was going crazy if her husbands 40 year old cock kept growing. I never got to experience this, with exception to my first few months, but I can imagine how intense it would feel to keep this little nugget tucked away, FYEO Actually I find it difficult to see a bad side to this, other then the stress one would have to carry through the difficult times in penis enlargement, which can be numerous. Hiding emotions does have it's negative impact in a relationship.
Perhaps the best method of disclosure is for one to set a goal for final size and when he becomes very close to this goal then and only then tell his mate of his travels. This would give you the best of both worlds. Whatever the perfect formula is for you travel lightly and keep things in balance. Penis enlargement does work and this is the reason I spend so much time advocating the mental process in male sexuality.