A true ten incher would be less than 1 in 10000
Question/Comment: Originally Posted by 10inchadvantage
A true ten incher would be less than 1 in 10000 men most likely. So the chances of most women getting a 10 inches, including all women(not club whores), is very, very small(haha). Shit, even getting an 8 incher would be rare. As for girth, 1 in 10000 men in that LifeStyles survey had a 6" midshaft girth. So, while a normal girl might have had an 8 incher or maybe two, if "lucky", the chances of her having a HUGE girth to go with it is even more rare.
Just because a guy is long doesn't mean he is thick, and vice versa.
Answer by DLD: I dare to put a 10 incher closer to 1 in 10,000,000 (or more). Grab a paper towel roll and trim an inch off and look at how insane the length is...it is truly monstrous. It is so easy to drop measurements when it comes to the penis, it is almost exempt from real proportions and I don't think it is the fault of anyone. The penis is so fictitious somehow, so mysterious, illusive, it commands such attention while at the same time remaining ambiguous to any real analyzation. Women drop measurements as if they were hot potatoes...8, 9, 10 fuck it, 14 inches. Men live in complete fear of these exaggerations and the product of all of this fiction is unrealistic measurements. I care so much about this because I never want to see you guys suffer from anxiety that is manifested by way of innuendo. Paul Bunion was 10 feet tall and John Holmes was 14" long.
I wonder what people think when I spend so much time on the psychological impacts of sexuality when I could be spending this time developing exercise. I wonder if anyone ever reads, comprehends, uses my dissemination's. I realize I write these papers because of my own demons but I always do so with complete empathy for those who may feel the same way. Beyond what I publish most would call me obsessive with the text that never makes it to the web. I am so much more interested in the impacts male sexuality than I am of the money I could make in development of my products, exercises or any other monetary advancement.
I wish I could get all of you together in one room where I could express these thoughts directly in a human way, devoid of the technology that separates us. I wish I could literally touch you and relay the understandings that would set you free from this fantasy that our world society has manufactured but I also know I can't. Women are not to blame nor are the men, the blame lies in an illusion of power that is as fallacious as the universe we try to explain. It truly breaks my heart.
Question/Comment: Originally Posted by Blu
Anyway I hear you, DLD. I especially respect you because you have a very REAL and rational perspective on this issue of penis size, thanks to having been on both sides of the fence. You had an average (maybe slightly above) penis before starting out PE, and you had a very diverse range of sexual experiences, some would argue DESPITE your size (as if having a 6.5 X 5 was some physical deformity or a handicap ). Why? Probably because you were social, knew how to talk to women, and also was in a band - that gives you social status which most women value way more than penis size (within reason). Then you grew a massive penis - during the course of which you developed a psychological addiction to this art, which unfortunately led to a decline in your sex life, and also your relationship. As a person who's LIVED through all the ups-and-downs from every angle I trust your word over any armchair quarterback on this forum who postulates about this and that, claiming that a 10 X 7 creates "maximum pleasure" for women. Truly idiotic gibberish.
Answer by DLD: This is so true. I look back on my life in many places and I understand that it needed to be the way it was or I would not be where I am. In my past, before my love Jennifer, I was free of any negative views of my penis, I just did not think about it. I was with many women and in every occasion, but one, I was complimented on my size. These compliments played a very small part in my confidence as every other part of my self was over-flowing with confidence. I enjoyed a social life that was simply incredible. Everything was in place and progressing as I always wanted it to.
After meeting Jen, the woman who still today owns my heart, I discovered something much different than my past. She was sexually experienced, she had many lovers and had many different sized penis's. One evening she told me that although I was big, there were two man she was with that were bigger. I was crushed and became instantly obsessed. My confusion of self was changing with every moment that proceeded this revelation. I became a different person. As many of you already know from previous submissions on this topic, I would put her through question sessions that no woman should have to deal with. I literally interrogated and would do so until I got the answer I wanted, an answer she was forced to lie about to stop the constant questioning. I knew deep inside that these two men were bigger than me but I could not mentally accept this and I could not live with any answer than the one that would be a lie, I was bigger than them...truly sad and disturbing.
This mental crippling followed me into my quest for a bigger penis although it did not start out that way. But even today I question if I was lying to myself when I said that the reason I got into PE was for better erections.
I did find penis enlargement, I did get involved with it, I did make massive gains, I did become a major teacher in the art...but I also lost much of my happiness in this journey. I know that this work marked a major change in my relationship with Jen (on hindsight) but at the time I was blind to it. I did get bigger and eventually the lie I was telling myself and the same lie I was making Jen believe was no longer a lie, I was actually the biggest she ever had. But, again, this came at a very large price.
I became obsessed with penis enlargement, penis, size, measurement, talking, eating and drinking male sexuality in a capacity that would dwarf the most obsessed man about any issue. This, of course was the reason I discovered all the innovations I have made and without this period in my life I can confidently say that penis enlargement would not be as it is today. Much good came from my mental problems but the part I want to stress is the balance of all of this. Jen and my relationship was balanced, completely and during this period of time that all was perfect we shared the best moments of our lived, I still believe she is out there in the world thinking of me and the incredible magic we shared but the point is balance. I was 25% of the femininity and 25% of the masculinity while she shared the same denominations. When this is present in any relationship things will be incredibly happy and fulfilling for both parties. As time progressed the balance shifted. I became 100% male while she drifted further and further away from me. It is like a magnet with North and South poles, this delicate balance accounts for most of our Universe. If this magnetism shifted from balance things would be over for humanity. The same thing applies to a relationship, fuck the same thing applies to all life, BALANCE!
She started to feel threatened, scared, and needed to separate herself from me because I was too male and this is where disassociation will occur in a male/female relationship. I was a giant walking penis offering nothing but male influence. Sure, every man in the world would no doubt be attracted to me but Jen fell further and further away. I did not even realize much of this until months after she had left me but again, this was a very important realization in the work I do/done. My life has come full circle but now with the ultimate knowledge of self. I can see now that I needed to go through these things. I needed to feel the pain of my errors as I would have not been able to write on it otherwise.
Today I am completely balanced, I am 50/50 and hopefully one day I will be 25/25 with the woman I miss so dearly Math is so pretty sometimes
Question/Comment: Originally Posted by 10inchadvantage
DLD, btw, I do read your psychological posts, they seem to be better than any exercise you could come up with for the penis.
Answer by DLD: Thank you. The mind needs to grow with the penis or a man will never see it.
Question/Comment: Originally Posted by 8InchMIKE
Man, your "demons" gave me life, hope, dedication, friends, a hobby, goals, confidence, self-esteem AND a bigger dick. So don't think we're not paying attention cause WE ARE. You're not insane, your membrane is just a litlle fucked up just like mine is.
Answer by DLD: Thank you Mike. I sometimes become confused when I am going through intense pain but eventually I see my past and realize it was always necessary or I would not be the man I am today. In sharing my experience and ultimate change my biggest hope is that it will help a man avoid what I have gone through.
Today I am so proud of my accomplishments. I am so happy with who I have become and the business I have built. I know now that PE is not my life, it is a small part of who I am. I wish Jen could see me now, isn't that always the case?