A true ten incher would be less than 1 in 10000

Question/Comment: Originally Posted by 10inchadvantage
A true ten incher would be less than 1 in 10000 men most likely. So the chances of most women getting a 10 inches, including all women(not club whores), is very, very small(haha). Shit, even getting an 8 incher would be rare. As for girth, 1 in 10000 men in that LifeStyles survey had a 6" midshaft girth. So, while a normal girl might have had an 8 incher or maybe two, if "lucky", the chances of her having a HUGE girth to go with it is even more rare.

Just because a guy is long doesn't mean he is thick, and vice versa.

Answer by DLD: I dare to put a 10 incher closer to 1 in 10,000,000 (or more). Grab a paper towel roll and trim an inch off and look at how insane the length is...it is truly monstrous. It is so easy to drop measurements when it comes to the penis, it is almost exempt from real proportions and I don't think it is the fault of anyone. The penis is so fictitious somehow, so mysterious, illusive, it commands such attention while at the same time remaining ambiguous to any real analyzation. Women drop measurements as if they were hot potatoes...8, 9, 10 fuck it, 14 inches. Men live in complete fear of these exaggerations and the product of all of this fiction is unrealistic measurements. I care so much about this because I never want to see you guys suffer from anxiety that is manifested by way of innuendo. Paul Bunion was 10 feet tall and John Holmes was 14" long.


I wonder what people think when I spend so much time on the psychological impacts of sexuality when I could be spending this time developing exercise. I wonder if anyone ever reads, comprehends, uses my dissemination's. I realize I write these papers because of my own demons but I always do so with complete empathy for those who may feel the same way. Beyond what I publish most would call me obsessive with the text that never makes it to the web. I am so much more interested in the impacts male sexuality than I am of the money I could make in development of my products, exercises or any other monetary advancement.

I wish I could get all of you together in one room where I could express these thoughts directly in a human way, devoid of the technology that separates us. I wish I could literally touch you and relay the understandings that would set you free from this fantasy that our world society has manufactured but I also know I can't. Women are not to blame nor are the men, the blame lies in an illusion of power that is as fallacious as the universe we try to explain. It truly breaks my heart.

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Question/Comment: Originally Posted by Blu
Anyway I hear you, DLD. I especially respect you because you have a very REAL and rational perspective on this issue of penis size, thanks to having been on both sides of the fence. You had an average (maybe slightly above) penis before starting out PE, and you had a very diverse range of sexual experiences, some would argue DESPITE your size (as if having a 6.5 X 5 was some physical deformity or a handicap ). Why? Probably because you were social, knew how to talk to women, and also was in a band - that gives you social status which most women value way more than penis size (within reason). Then you grew a massive penis - during the course of which you developed a psychological addiction to this art, which unfortunately led to a decline in your sex life, and also your relationship. As a person who's LIVED through all the ups-and-downs from every angle I trust your word over any armchair quarterback on this forum who postulates about this and that, claiming that a 10 X 7 creates "maximum pleasure" for women. Truly idiotic gibberish.

Answer by DLD: This is so true. I look back on my life in many places and I understand that it needed to be the way it was or I would not be where I am. In my past, before my love Jennifer, I was free of any negative views of my penis, I just did not think about it. I was with many women and in every occasion, but one, I was complimented on my size. These compliments played a very small part in my confidence as every other part of my self was over-flowing with confidence. I enjoyed a social life that was simply incredible. Everything was in place and progressing as I always wanted it to.

After meeting Jen, the woman who still today owns my heart, I discovered something much different than my past. She was sexually experienced, she had many lovers and had many different sized penis's. One evening she told me that although I was big, there were two man she was with that were bigger. I was crushed and became instantly obsessed. My confusion of self was changing with every moment that proceeded this revelation. I became a different person. As many of you already know from previous submissions on this topic, I would put her through question sessions that no woman should have to deal with. I literally interrogated and would do so until I got the answer I wanted, an answer she was forced to lie about to stop the constant questioning. I knew deep inside that these two men were bigger than me but I could not mentally accept this and I could not live with any answer than the one that would be a lie, I was bigger than them...truly sad and disturbing.

This mental crippling followed me into my quest for a bigger penis although it did not start out that way. But even today I question if I was lying to myself when I said that the reason I got into PE was for better erections.

I did find penis enlargement, I did get involved with it, I did make massive gains, I did become a major teacher in the art...but I also lost much of my happiness in this journey. I know that this work marked a major change in my relationship with Jen (on hindsight) but at the time I was blind to it. I did get bigger and eventually the lie I was telling myself and the same lie I was making Jen believe was no longer a lie, I was actually the biggest she ever had. But, again, this came at a very large price.

I became obsessed with penis enlargement, penis, size, measurement, talking, eating and drinking male sexuality in a capacity that would dwarf the most obsessed man about any issue. This, of course was the reason I discovered all the innovations I have made and without this period in my life I can confidently say that penis enlargement would not be as it is today. Much good came from my mental problems but the part I want to stress is the balance of all of this. Jen and my relationship was balanced, completely and during this period of time that all was perfect we shared the best moments of our lived, I still believe she is out there in the world thinking of me and the incredible magic we shared but the point is balance. I was 25% of the femininity and 25% of the masculinity while she shared the same denominations. When this is present in any relationship things will be incredibly happy and fulfilling for both parties. As time progressed the balance shifted. I became 100% male while she drifted further and further away from me. It is like a magnet with North and South poles, this delicate balance accounts for most of our Universe. If this magnetism shifted from balance things would be over for humanity. The same thing applies to a relationship, fuck the same thing applies to all life, BALANCE!

She started to feel threatened, scared, and needed to separate herself from me because I was too male and this is where disassociation will occur in a male/female relationship. I was a giant walking penis offering nothing but male influence. Sure, every man in the world would no doubt be attracted to me but Jen fell further and further away. I did not even realize much of this until months after she had left me but again, this was a very important realization in the work I do/done. My life has come full circle but now with the ultimate knowledge of self. I can see now that I needed to go through these things. I needed to feel the pain of my errors as I would have not been able to write on it otherwise.

Today I am completely balanced, I am 50/50 and hopefully one day I will be 25/25 with the woman I miss so dearly Math is so pretty sometimes

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Question/Comment: Originally Posted by 10inchadvantage
DLD, btw, I do read your psychological posts, they seem to be better than any exercise you could come up with for the penis.

Answer by DLD: Thank you. The mind needs to grow with the penis or a man will never see it.

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Question/Comment: Originally Posted by 8InchMIKE
Man, your "demons" gave me life, hope, dedication, friends, a hobby, goals, confidence, self-esteem AND a bigger dick. So don't think we're not paying attention cause WE ARE. You're not insane, your membrane is just a litlle fucked up just like mine is.

Answer by DLD: Thank you Mike. I sometimes become confused when I am going through intense pain but eventually I see my past and realize it was always necessary or I would not be the man I am today. In sharing my experience and ultimate change my biggest hope is that it will help a man avoid what I have gone through.

Today I am so proud of my accomplishments. I am so happy with who I have become and the business I have built. I know now that PE is not my life, it is a small part of who I am. I wish Jen could see me now, isn't that always the case?

Peace
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Why is Penis Enlargement so Difficult for some Men?

This question in penis enlargement may baffle many but the answer is much more simple than you might expect. Penis enlargement is easy enough to understand, you either pull or engorge your penis to make it either longer or thicker but some men do not see these results while many more do....what is the deal? Well the answer is a 2 fold explanation and it is something that I will try to explain. Aside from the explanation I will also offer a solution to this problem that will work for anyone doing penis enlargement with no results.

The first reason is intensity. Penis ENlargement depends on extreme intensity to initiate, continue and maintain growth. What is intensity? The dictionary gives many definitions but my favorite is: great energy, strength, concentration. This explanation, in great energy, strength, concentration, explains 2 vital aspects of penis enlargement that divide the successful from the not so successful. First, great energy is something that is difficult to express, especially through typing my answer. The energy used to facilitate great energy, strength, concentration is very powerful, but using this much power scares many men. Pulling too hard or expanding too much could cause injury and this is the reason many men, in penis enlargement, hold back. Fear of injury when it comes to the penis is very prominent over the desire to make gains. After all, who wants a huge penis if it does not work?

Intensity, physically, is a very blurred line between injury and growth. Going too intense results in injury while going too soft results in no growth. How does a man find this sweet spot in penis enlargement? How does he start to understand this penis enlargement necessity that so many embrace and gain with? Easily stated, progression. I suggest that anyone who is new to penis enlargement take things very slow, very progressive, very safely. You would not go to a gym to lift weights and toss 500 pounds on the bench would you? Just like this analogy you would not pull on your penis with the complete stretch you may exert. You need to slowly understand penis enlargement, perhaps watch videos on it's nature (available at my site st www.mattersofsize.com) Seeing the intensity may be the best way to master penis enlargement.

Starting out soft and slowly climbing the progressive latter of intensity is the only ticket to comprehensive penis enlargement. As an example, stretching the penis is an easy, understandable statement but sitting down and pulling on your penis may be something much different. Believe me, I can relate, I was not always an authority on penis enlargement, I had to learn just as any other new person to the penis enlargement art.

Try this, sit down, take your flaccid penis in your hands and stretch it outwardly. Feel the stretch, take note of the feeling you experience with this most basic stretch. After trying this do it again with a little more intensity, again take note of exactly what is going on. Repeat this scenario until you have reached a level that is what you feel to be your intensity, max level. Stick with this level until you feel more able to increase the force you are using. Over time you will be able to go stronger and stronger until you know where your own sweet spot is. The gains will be measurable and obvious. Remember this; anyone who does penis enlargement with the correct, physical intensity will gain. It is a simple mathematical equation and not gaining would go against every physical law.

Again, lets look at girth. Taking the jelq as a typical girth exercise where almost every man starts we will explore intensity in this. We grip our almost erect penis and push the blood upward to the top. The theory that applies is more blood, more girth and this basis has reigned true in every man that has mastered this part of penis enlargement. At first a man should try this with delicacy. Learn the penis enlargement exercise, try it, take your time and be gentle. After giving it a go slowly, but consistently increase the intensity (strength and force) With each stroke increase this intensity until you come to the crossroads of growth and injury. This is a very broad step between the two but there is no rush to find this line. Find your personal intensity and grow from these.

Time is your best friend and rushing any penis enlargement process is a mistake. Slowly, progressively will emerge as victorious.

I mentioned that this understanding was two-fold. Concentration, being a completely internal, mental process deserves as much attention as the physical mechanics. Listen to your body, watch your penis with belief. Believe in what you are doing and be very clear on your future, visual goal. This is the very component that will bring you to the level that will be fruitful and physically safe.

With these simple steps penis enlargement will be an easy proposition.

DLD

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IPR Theory based Penis Enlargement training protocol:

By: Xenolith

IPR Theory based PE training protocol:

Inflammation, Proliferation, Remodeling. All three phases are equally important. Although in the conventional context of IPR Theory, a single injury occurs and then goes through this cycle over the course of many months, in my experience, the concept can be applied in the context of PE effectively at (at least two) different temporal scales: micro-scale (2-3 day cycle) and macro-scale (2-3 months) protocols, during which, the I and P phases are manipulated to a high degree.

Inflammation: can presumably be done with any of the conventional PE training methods: hanging, stretching, jelqing, clamping, pumping. I’ve used it successfully with hanging, jelqing and clamping. The goal is to cause tissue strain in the direction of desired growth. In my experience, which admittedly has been largely length focused, IPR concepts have appeared to be somewhat more conducive to length growth than girth growth, but I use IPR protocols irrespective of the type of gains I’m seeking and have had it work well for girth focused gains campaigns also. For the most part, I’ve employed hanging coupled with wet jelqing as my general IPR based training. In that context, I’ve focused much of my attention on how to most effectively and safely inflame my penile tissues. At this point, I think moderate weight hanging is the most effective and safest means. What constitutes “moderate” will depend on the conditioning level of your tissues.

Proliferation: is done with the aid of an ADS device in the case of length focused work or a cock ring, Thera-P wristband, etc. in the case of girth focused work. The goal of the P phase is to keep the tissues that were strained during the I phase aligned in as close as possible to the same direction that the I phase stressor was aligned. This facilitates cellular growth (mitosis) along the same vectors (of initial strain) by means of distraction histogenesis, a term which basically means preferentially directed mitosis. Therefore, in the case of ADS wearing, one should orient it in the as close to the direction of their I phase stressor as possible.

Remodeling: is rest. Simple. Leave it alone.

Micro-scale IPR: Inflame in the morning (for instance). Proliferate, micro-P phase, with ADS for support of length focused training, or with a cock ring, Thera-P wristband, etc., for support of girth focused training, for the rest of the day. Remodeling, micro-R phase begins at the end of the training day, at which point I rest my tissues for either 36 hrs (overnight + 1 full day) or 60 hrs (overnight + 2 full days). Repeat. Of course, training methods other than hanging can be used.

Macro-scale IPR: can be done in or out of the context of micro-scale IPR. When done in the context of micro-scale IPR, one considers all of their micro-scale work to be the I phase of their macro-scale IPR training, and therefore terminates their micro-scale training cycle after ~2 weeks and initiates the macro-scale P phase, which initially consists of ADS or cock ring use for as much of every day as possible and tapers down in daily usage until an additional 4 weeks of time has elapsed. At which point the macro-scale P phase is terminated and the macro-scale R phase is initiated, with rest for at least 2 months.

In formulating the magnitude of “work”, where work = frequency x volume (or load), of my training within individual gains campaigns, I consider the form of my “characteristic (gains) function”, which is to say, I fit a trendline to my (typically length, although I’ve used girth and volume as well) gains vs. time curve and then, in accordance with concepts described by Fibonacci number sequence theory, I plot the inverse of the reciprocal of that curve, which I then scale to a 3 week time interval, the interval that I’ve empirically determined yields the greatest positive feedback/least negative feedback, and, is consistent with concepts described by IPR tissue healing systematics. By solving for the nth derivative of the nth degree polynomial that defines the work vs. time curve explicitly for the day being considered, one can determine the theoretical optimum work amount for that day.

Of course the scales of the characteristic gains function and the work function are different, but, as described by fractal theory, the shapes can be thought to be manifestations of each other, and therefore, in accordance with cybernetic biofeedback concepts, the use of the (scaled to IPR appropriate scale version of the) inverse of the reciprocal (or, if you prefer, inverse of the mirror image) of the characteristic curve, is well justified. Indeed, when the individual gains campaign curve is plotted on the same axes as the work curve, they almost always form a closed loop, which serves to confirm the veracity and applicability of the method.

In all of my modeling, the point of maximum inflection of the work vs. time curve is located very near the 14 day mark (actually, its almost always at day 12) as is ultimately, of course, defined by the point of maximum inflection of my characteristic gains curve. Therefore, in practice, I generally consider the ~2 week point to be the point where my body’s physiology is beginning to most significantly change from one of positive feedback (i.e. gains) to one of negative feedback (i.e. conditioning, which is really a whole other subject that demands consideration of collagen speciation and fibrosis systematics, but the characteristic gains function incorporates these). As such, its at ~ 2 weeks that I should stop my I phase work. Experience has shown that I typically achieve ~ 75% of the possible gains that I can make in any given gains campaign within the first 2 weeks. Use of a millimeter scale/ruler is a good idea). Sympathetically, it would follow that ~ 25% of the possible conditioning has occurred to that point as well. As such, 2 weeks has shown itself to be something of a break point, beyond which one’s return on investment falls precipitously. Also, as predicted by Fibonacci number theory, one can reasonably expect that the “take off point” with respect to conditioning, of each succeeding gains campaign will be incrementally greater than that of the one before. By pursuing the “expensive” last ~25% of gains, we are deflecting up in conditioning space the “landing point” of our current gains campaign as well as deflecting into higher conditioning space the “take off point” of our subsequent gains campaign. Therefore, IMO, its foolish to chase that last 25% of available gains at the expense of 75% of the available conditioning. Beyond the fact that doing so buys you less and less gains with more and more investment, it also raises the cost of your next “cheap” gains in our next gains campaign.

To do this method rigorously requires that one identify their characteristic gains function, which requires that one has kept track of their gains as a function of time and can plot them. If that can be done, one need not use calculus, one can simply superimpose the two plots graphically, and then re-label the ordinate (y-axis) in simple dimensionless integer units (1,2,3) which represent work multiplier coefficients, by which the starting value of work will be multiplied during the course of the gains campaign. In my experience of solving for work multiplier coefficients quantitatively, the 2 week point typically plots at a work multiplier coefficient of ~1.5, with the 3 week point typically correlating to a work multiplier coefficient of ~2.5.

One can multiply their PE work by increasing frequency and/or load. In the simplest case of jelqing, it makes most sense to simply increase the frequency, which in this context means # of jelq strokes, not duration of time between jelq strokes or duration of time between sessions. I’ll get to a discussion of the latter of these types of frequency in a moment. So what this means is that on day 1 of gains campaign A, one does, say X1 jelqs, then wears ADS for the rest of the day, then rests for the next 2 days and then on day 4, does X1 x (day 4 work multiplier coefficient) jelqs (call it X2), wears ADS for the rest of the day, then rests for the next 2 days and then on day 7, does X2 x (day 7 work multiplier coefficient) jelqs (call it X3), etc, until day 13, upon which (unless one can’t fight the urge to go after those “expensive” 25% gains), one transitions to macro P phase work and wears ADS for ~4weeks, transitioning (linearly) over this time from high wearing time (P-phase) to high not wearing time (R-phase), ultimately transitioning to pure rest (R-phase) after the 4th week of ADS wearing and continues with pure rest for 2 months before initiating gains campaign B. 3 months is recommended in the case of having pushed one’s I-phase work into a third week. Which in and of itself is a good reason to not push one’s gains campaigns into a third week, not to mention those that I’ve mentioned already.

For this (low erection, i.e. length targeting) jelqing example we’ll start with, say 200 jelqs and a work multiplier coefficient of 1.1, which when coupled with a 1 day, 2 days off session frequency to approximate what looks like the “sweetspot” of work progression for the first 2 weeks. So, the first 2 weeks of our example would look like this:

Day 1: 200 jelqs, Day 4: 200 x 1.1 = 220 jelqs, Day 7: 220 jelqs x 1.1 = 242 jelqs, Day 10: 242 jelqs x 1.1 = 266 jelqs, Day 13: 266 jelqs x 1.1 = 293 jelqs.

Notice that at the ~2 week point, our work has increased relative to our starting point, by a factor of ~ 1.5. Because this corresponds well with the work multiplier coefficients that I’ve calculated for and solved for graphically, I think a work multiplier coefficient of 1.1 in the context of a 1 day on/2 days off session frequency is about the sweetspot for the IPR protocol (as based on MY physiological response systematics). So, on Day 14, we would begin our macro-P phase work, using, for this case of a length targeting gains campaign, our ADS for as much time per day as we can muster (at the start of the phase, tapering off usage a little each day until we reach zero usage 4 weeks later). There are two very important aspects of P-phase work. The first applies to all P-phase work: The P-phase work, whether it’s length supporting, as in ADS or girth supporting, as in cock ring, should be done at a relatively low level. The one thing we don’t want to do is have the P-phase work appear to our body as I phase work. That is an extremely counterproductive occurrence. So keep the ADS tension low and the cock ring not too tight. With respect to macro-P phase work, it’s very important that we taper the usage from high-P phase/low R phase at the beginning of the macro-P phase to low-P phase/high-R phase at the end of the macro-P phase. The idea is to have a smooth handoff to the macro-R phase.

If we are to continue to chase gains during this gains campaign (which I don’t recommend) we will have to accelerate the velocity of our work, which means that we’ll have to increase the rate of our increase in work. Again, the magnitude of this increase can be solved for explicitly by means of calculus or graphically, but it requires that one has plotted their gains vs. time. For those that haven’t, using a work multiplier coefficient of 1.15 and increasing the frequency of sessions to every other day will approximate the indicated rate increase that I’ve computed in most of my analyses. So, in this example, the 3rd week’s training would consist of:

Day 15: 293 jelqs x 1.15 = 337 jelqs, Day 17: 337 jelqs x 1.15 = 387 jelqs, Day 19: 387 jelqs x 1.15 = 445 jelqs, Day 21: 445 jelqs x 1.15 = 512 jelqs.

Notice that at the ~3 week point, our work has increased relative to our starting point, by a factor of ~ 2.5. So this regimen corresponds well with the regimens that I’ve calculated (again, based on MY physiological response systematics).

The most fundamental difference that this PE training philosophy has with that of many others that one may find on the Forum is that its truly cybernetic, as the form of one’s training is prescribed by the form of one’s physiological response to one’s training. Another important aspect of this training protocol that is in sharp contrast to many others is the importance of tissue healing. It’s the most important part of the protocol.

I’ll be on Big Dick Island. I wish you all good luck in your efforts to navigate to it. If you’d like to have more than luck on your side, I suggest that you find, formulate or adopt a strategy. Feel free to adopt mine.

I’ll keep an eye out for sails on the horizon. There’s almost always an offshore wind, but if you’re an able sailor with a sound strategy, you’ll find the lee shore.

Godspeed.

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Penis Enlargement Exercise: DLD Sock Stretches

DLD Sock Stretches

These are very cool and extremely powerful, especially for those who struggle for intensity. This exercise, although simple in concept, is extremely intense and will give even the veterans a run for their money. Sorry about the illustration but I had to draw it freehand.

Keep in mind that this exercise can be done at virtually any angle and with a very cool style I invented, you can intensify it 2 fold.

What you will need is a long sock (I prefer the sports socks, but use what you have.) Take your flaccid penis in one hand while wrapping the sock around your penis with the sock, grabbing both ends of the sock after it is wrapped (see illustration) The first time you do this exercise you can try the Y-Stretch but you will see the potential and the limitless styles you can use after trying it. While stretching in one direction with the sock you will stretch in the opposite direction with the other hand. This is a basic DLD Sock Stretch but we can take it to another level, giving you optimum intensity.

Once you penis is wrapped in the sock (this is why I use a LONG sock) put both ends of the sock in your mouth and clamp down with your teeth. This leaves both hands to stretch the penis in the opposing angle. It will also allow for a continued stretch by alternating hands. Either way it is incredible.

A typical workout, using this method, would look like this;

Downward stretches:
While pulling, or biting, the sock downward pull your penis upward...hold for 30 seconds (or more if you like)

Side Stretches:
While pulling the sock to the right, stretch your penis to the left.
Again, while stretching the sock to the left, stretch the penis to the right. This can't be done with biting. Hold stretch for 30-60 seconds.

Upward Stretches:
While pulling the sock upward pull your penis downward...hold for 30-60 seconds as biting cannot be used in this position.

1/2 Rotaries:
Since the sock is wrapped around your penis it would be impossible to do a full 360° but 180° is possible. While stretching the penis, in a circular motion to the right and down, stretch the sock holding hand in a circular motion to the left and up. Then While stretching the penis, in a circular motion to the left and up, stretch the sock holding hand in a circular motion to the right and down.

I suggest doing 3 sets of each stretch but more or less can be added for convenience.

Peace! DLD




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Penis Enlargement: So Hard To Believe?

Penis enlargement has been around for a very long time. There are records dating back to ancient Greece where men are depicted doing some type of penis enlargement. This race for having the biggest most powerful penis is very old. Only for a short period of time, in Asia, was the penis valued for being small.

Every since the ancient times penis enlargement has grown to enormous proportions. Penis enlargement is now a multi million dollar business. You can find penis enlargement in almost every corner of the internet and everywhere in between. It is now on TV, in magazines and other media outlets. Most of these businesses sell the same type of penis enlargement gear. From penis enlargement pills to penis enlargement equipment. You will also find some penis enlargement exercise sites, the thing that works the best.

In penis enlargement exercise there are 2 categories of sites. 1.) Original and modern with concepts and penis enlargement exercises and 2.) A handful of old exercises that millions of carbon copy sites use. In both cases you will make penis enlargement gains but the more advanced site will give you the best chances. At my penis enlargement site, www.mattersofsize.com there are 5 phases of hundreds of original exercises. The site is clean, organized and made to be fool proof. If you need additional help you can always reach me, personally at any of my forums or BLOGs. Having a real person to get help by in penis enlargement is invaluable. These are the type of things you want when buying a penis enlargement membership.

How does it work? So simple, so basic so easily understood that most men think it is too simple to really work. Natural penis enlargement is very simply put, stretching and expanding the penis. The penis, having no bone or muscle tissue, is extremely elastic and can easily be stretched longer and longer. I have done it and so have thousands of other men. Look around at other types of body modification and penis enlargement becomes more and more easy to believe. People are stretching their earlobes to ridiculous proportions for larger and larger jewelry. Tribes have stretched their lips and necks for ages (not to mention their penis's). It is around you everyday but when you think about the penis it becomes too good to be true. It truly isn't, get a membership to my site, look at the video exercises and see for yourself. penis enlargement is soooo easy and soooo real.


DLD (Mike Salvini)

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What's the problem with penis enlargement?

What's the problem with penis enlargement? For the man penis enlargement is the greatest thing in the world, think about it, a man finds a method of making his penis bigger...it is incredible. Penis enlargement, to a man, is the most incredible find in the world. Where does the problems come in? Well this is all about balance. Balance is so important wether it be alcohol, food or any other pleasure in life. A little bit is fine but once we go over board we end up in addiction. In penis enlargement me can literally become addicted to their penis. This is fine when the man is single, as a matter of fact it increases the chances of penis enlargement working faster. The problem is when a balance in the relationship between a man and a women becomes out of balance.

I experienced just this problem and it does go through a distinctive progression. When I found out about penis enlargement and realized the shit was legit I was blown away. For the first few months I kept it secret, I wanted to know, without bias influence, if penis enlargement really worked. What better way than to wait for my lover to tell me that my penis felt/looked bigger? When this started happening I was ecstatic. I could measure an increase and my girl could feel and see an increase. At this point I decided to tell her about penis enlargement. This is where things became tricky. When I told her about penis enlargement she initially was turned on. She was so impressed that I cared so much about our sex life that I wanted to make my penis larger. Not to mention her dismay that penis enlargement was ever possible.

This sexual intensity lasted a few months. I continued to do penis enlargement and she continued to enjoy the product of my penis enlargement. Somewhere along the way something happened that started to cause a steady decline in my penis enlargement efforts on a purely psychological level. My penis became the focus of my life. In a relationship the penis is only an extension of the love we feel for the woman in our lives. I began to believe just the opposite. I became egotistical about my penis and started to believe it was the very thing that would keep her with me.

Everything became penis oriented and penis enlargement started to look very different to her. I saw no problem in my penis enlargement, I really believed it was the most important thing in my life. The huge imbalance that proceeded cause irreversible damage. By the time I realized how much more important my penis was to my girlfriend, she was gone.

Woman are interested in the whole man, not just the penis. When we start concentrating too much on the penis the woman will feel jealous, envious. She wants us to appreciate the feminine things while we want her to appreciate the masculine things. When a man appreciates the masculine too much the balance becomes fucked up and the relationship is doomed.

Remember, penis enlargement is a gift..in affect a beautiful thing. Use it, gain with it but keep it in perspective. Woman are much more interested in our appreciation of them than they are in the size of our penis.

What's the problem with penis enlargement?

What's the problem with penis enlargement? For the man penis enlargement is the greatest thing in the world, think about it, a man finds a method of making his penis bigger...it is incredible. Penis enlargement, to a man, is the most incredible find in the world. Where does the problems come in? Well this is all about balance. Balance is so important wether it be alcohol, food or any other pleasure in life. A little bit is fine but once we go over board we end up in addiction. In penis enlargement me can literally become addicted to their penis. This is fine when the man is single, as a matter of fact it increases the chances of penis enlargement working faster. The problem is when a balance in the relationship between a man and a women becomes out of balance.

I experienced just this problem and it does go through a distinctive progression. When I found out about penis enlargement and realized the shit was legit I was blown away. For the first few months I kept it secret, I wanted to know, without bias influence, if penis enlargement really worked. What better way than to wait for my lover to tell me that my penis felt/looked bigger? When this started happening I was ecstatic. I could measure an increase and my girl could feel and see an increase. At this point I decided to tell her about penis enlargement. This is where things became tricky. When I told her about penis enlargement she initially was turned on. She was so impressed that I cared so much about our sex life that I wanted to make my penis larger. Not to mention her dismay that penis enlargement was ever possible.

This sexual intensity lasted a few months. I continued to do penis enlargement and she continued to enjoy the product of my penis enlargement. Somewhere along the way something happened that started to cause a steady decline in my penis enlargement efforts on a purely psychological level. My penis became the focus of my life. In a relationship the penis is only an extension of the love we feel for the woman in our lives. I began to believe just the opposite. I became egotistical about my penis and started to believe it was the very thing that would keep her with me.

Everything became penis oriented and penis enlargement started to look very different to her. I saw no problem in my penis enlargement, I really believed it was the most important thing in my life. The huge imbalance that proceeded cause irreversible damage. By the time I realized how much more important my penis was to my girlfriend, she was gone.

Woman are interested in the whole man, not just the penis. When we start concentrating too much on the penis the woman will feel jealous, envious. She wants us to appreciate the feminine things while we want her to appreciate the masculine things. When a man appreciates the masculine too much the balance becomes fucked up and the relationship is doomed.

Remember, penis enlargement is a gift..in affect a beautiful thing. Use it, gain with it but keep it in perspective. Woman are much more interested in our appreciation of them than they are in the size of our penis.

Be Careful With Penis Enlargement

What's the problem with penis enlargement? For the man penis enlargement is the greatest thing in the world, think about it, a man finds a method of making his penis bigger...it is incredible. Penis enlargement, to a man, is the most incredible find in the world. Where does the problems come in? Well this is all about balance. Balance is so important wether it be alcohol, food or any other pleasure in life. A little bit is fine but once we go over board we end up in addiction. In penis enlargement me can literally become addicted to their penis. This is fine when the man is single, as a matter of fact it increases the chances of penis enlargement working faster. The problem is when a balance in the relationship between a man and a women becomes out of balance.

I experienced just this problem and it does go through a distinctive progression. When I found out about penis enlargement and realized the shit was legit I was blown away. For the first few months I kept it secret, I wanted to know, without bias influence, if penis enlargement really worked. What better way than to wait for my lover to tell me that my penis felt/looked bigger? When this started happening I was ecstatic. I could measure an increase and my girl could feel and see an increase. At this point I decided to tell her about penis enlargement. This is where things became tricky. When I told her about penis enlargement she initially was turned on. She was so impressed that I cared so much about our sex life that I wanted to make my penis larger. Not to mention her dismay that penis enlargement was ever possible.

This sexual intensity lasted a few months. I continued to do penis enlargement and she continued to enjoy the product of my penis enlargement. Somewhere along the way something happened that started to cause a steady decline in my penis enlargement efforts on a purely psychological level. My penis became the focus of my life. In a relationship the penis is only an extension of the love we feel for the woman in our lives. I began to believe just the opposite. I became egotistical about my penis and started to believe it was the very thing that would keep her with me.

Everything became penis oriented and penis enlargement started to look very different to her. I saw no problem in my penis enlargement, I really believed it was the most important thing in my life. The huge imbalance that proceeded cause irreversible damage. By the time I realized how much more important my penis was to my girlfriend, she was gone.

Woman are interested in the whole man, not just the penis. When we start concentrating too much on the penis the woman will feel jealous, envious. She wants us to appreciate the feminine things while we want her to appreciate the masculine things. When a man appreciates the masculine too much the balance becomes fucked up and the relationship is doomed.

Remember, penis enlargement is a gift..in affect a beautiful thing. Use it, gain with it but keep it in perspective. Woman are much more interested in our appreciation of them than they are in the size of our penis.

Sexual World Records

Phalli

Largest Penis
Naturally we begin with the topic foremost on men’s minds. The average penis size for white males is about 6.2 inches, so if you don't quite measure up, don’t worry: penis size has relatively little to do with one’s capacity to pleasure. Remember: it ain’t the meat, it’s the motion.

The largest erect member in medical literature would be the 14-inch organ mentioned by Dr. David Reuben in his book Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Sex (1969). Reuben didn’t divulge any source for this figure, and there was no independent verification, so you may question his accuracy. The largest medically verified penis on record is 13.5 inches long and 6.25 inches around, documented in the early twentieth century by Dr. Robert L. Dickinson. Other sources (Alfred Kinsey, Masters and Johnson, etc.) mention specimens ranging from 9.5 to 12 inches.

Then there are the dubious claims of immense penis size by various personages operating within the sex industry (read: porn actors). These claims are almost invariably false, the result of exaggeration and hype by unscrupulous dealers hoping to hawk more products. Take the legendary Long Dong Silver, for instance. Made famous by the Clarence Thomas-Anita Hill hearings, his one enduring trait was his supposedly 18-inch penis. Totally fraudulent, as it turns out; in fact, there are videos in which he appears only normal sized.

Incidentally, if you wish to pursue this matter on your own (anticipating a slow weekend, perhaps?) you measure along the top.

Largest Penis by Race
"It is generally said that the penis of the Negro is very large," so wrote German anthropologist Johann Friedrich Blumenbach in 1795. "And this assertion is so far borne out by the remarkable genitory apparatus of an Ethiopian which I have in my anatomical collection." Louis Jacolliet, a 19th century French writer who spent three decades investigating penis size, had this to say: "In no branch of the human race are the male organs more developed than in the African Negro." Certainly, the belief in the well-endowment of the African race has an extensive history. But is it justified by the facts?

Going strictly by the Kinsey data, which still remains one of the most exhaustive studies on penis size to date, the average white male has a penis measuring 6.2 inches long and 3.7 inches around, whereas the average black male has a penis 6.3 by 3.8 inches, for a difference of 0.1 inches--not what you'd call statistically significant. When it came to flaccid length, however, blacks fared a little better: 4.3 inches long, versus 4.0 inches for white males. So it may be, therefore, that while those of African heritage appear larger initially, under actual working conditions things tend to even out. You should consider this a tentative hypothesis rather than a scientific fact, as there were only 59 black respondents to the survey, versus 2,500 for whites.

Smallest Penis
There are several instances in medical literature of penises that do not exceed 1 cm when fully erect, which doctors call an (ahem) "micropenis." Those unfortunate enough to be equipped with these diminutive organs can undergo reconstructive surgery to extend it to about 3 inches, which I guess is an improvement.

Smallest Penis by Race
Inhabiting the low end of the penile spectrum are those of the Asian persuasion, specifically those of Chinese, Japanese, Korean, or Vietnamese descent. Hard data supporting this claim comes from The Definitive Penis Size Survey, a website maintained by Richard Edwards and dedicated to answering the imponderable mysteries surrounding man's most cherished appendage (the mysteries related to size, anyway). Among the interesting tidbits we gleam from his work, now in its sixth edition, is a graph correlating different erect sizes with race. The final tally: Caucasians on average measure 6.5 inches (16.5 cm), whereas the average Asian measures--5.5 inches (14 cm).

Most Phalli
Those who have more than one penis have a condition called diphallasparatus (yes, there are medical names for everything). An extremely rare disorder (fewer than 80 cases have been reported), it has nonetheless been exhaustively investigated by the medically bent. The results of such studies can be summed by the following snappy observations:

Those in possession of a diphallus tend to be sterile, due to either congenital defects or difficulties in application.

Urine may be passed by both penises, by only one, or, incredibly, through some other aperture in the perineum.

All manner of duplications have been met, ranging from organs that fissure into two to the presence of two distinct penises positioned at some distance from each other.

Most diphalluses lay side by side and are of equal size, but they can be seated atop one another, with one distinctly larger than the other.
Finally, I should note that double the meat doesn’t necessarily mean double the fun. Most sufferers are unable to perform sexually, which must be one of the all-time bummers. Still, for those able to function it certainly lends itself to some interesting diversity of technique.

Greatest Extension
Dr. Jørn Ege Siana, a Danish plastic surgeon who's been in the penis lengthening biz for quite some time (he's performed over 1,100 operations), claims to have set a world record by surgically extending a penis by a full 14.5 cm (5.7 inches). The patient was an unidentified 42-year-old originally outfitted with 1.8-inch tool. After the successful operation he issued a press release and backed up his claim with lurid "before" and "after" pictures, which you may peruse on his website. Jørn credits his achievement to new surgical techniques and later stretching the penis with the JES-Extender, a rack-like device of his own invention that looks more like something the KGB would use to extract a confession than an instrument of post-operative recovery. Siana said, "Admittedly this case is unique, as penis enlargement is typically in the range of five to seven centimeters (2 to 2.7 inches)."

Largest Phalli Collection
No, the holder of this record is not Lorena Bobbit. In ancient times a passel of penises taken from your vanquished enemies was considered the ultimate post-battle war trophy, displayed with such grisly prominence as you would today the head of an antelope. When Egyptian troops invaded Libya in thirteenth century BC they took home a total of 13,230 penises, and a stone relief in Thebes depicts a band of victors amassing a pile of 3000 phalli before the king. Egyptians weren't the only ones to emasculate their foes. Nebuchadnezzar, king of Babylon, conquered Jerusalem in the sixth century BC and cut from thousands of Jewish prisoners what the rabbis had left behind.

Testes

Largest Testes
The ideal testicle, which we are clearly not talking about here, should measure about 4 cm long and 2 cm broad. Victims of elephantiasis, a disease caused by the obstruction of lymph vessels due to parasitic filarial worms, may find their gonads swelling to the size of a watermelon and beyond. The largest on record is an African whose scrotum weighed 154 lbs. and measured almost 2 ft. in diameter. Fortunately, an available drug called diethylcarbamazine is effective in killing the worm larvae and reducing the swelling.

Most Testes
The presence of more than two testicles--called polyorchidism by urology buffs--is rare but not unheard of. About 75 cases have been reported to date, most of which possessed three testes. On occasion, however, a mutant is born with four or even five testicles.

Breasts

Largest Breasts
Large breasts are another subject that appeals to MD’s prurient interests, so cases are bountiful in sex literature. After reviewing a number of photos (hey, it’s all for science), I’ve seen mammaries ranging from huge to unimaginably colossal. "The Sexual Anatomy of Woman" by W. F. Benedict tells the cases of one 14-year-old who had breasts weighing 16 lbs. and of a woman of thirty who had knockers weighing 21 pounds each. Another book, Human Oddities by Martin Monestier, thoughtfully encloses a topless photo of a woman with 44-pound breasts measuring 33 inches in circumference.

Now it seems China wants in on the act. In 1995 their official news agency Xinhua ran the headline, "Twelve-year-old Sprouts Gargantuan Breasts." Sounds like our kind of journalism. "Each breast of Ting Jiafen, of Changba village, Gudong Township, Pingtang County, has grown to dimensions of 48 cm long and 30 cm high, weighing about 10 kg," it reported (meaning Ting would wear a size S bra, assuming they made them that big). Her mother, Chen Guoxia, elaborated, "Her breasts began to grow last February, and they were as large as fists by May, getting bigger and bigger afterwards."

Whatever might be said about her breasts from an aesthetic standpoint, they've been nothing but trouble for Ting, who's been plagued with health problems. In early 1993 she became ill and lost the ability to walk. She recovered, but then suffered blindness and now has to quit school to undergo hospital treatment

Most Breasts
Extra breasts is called polymastia. In 1886, one Professor Neugenbauer presented to the French Academy of Medicine a woman with ten individual lactating breasts. Three months later, Dr. P. J. Stoyanoff exhibited a 23-year-old Polish woman who also had eight additional hooters, all of which secreted milk. Men sometimes develop enlarged pectorals too, an anomaly called gynecomastia. In 1894, Dr. Damon examined a male patient who possessed six extra pectoral breasts, for a total of eight.

The Vagina

Largest Vagina
Most likely belonged to Scottish giantess Anna Swan (1846-1888), a remarkable woman who set a number of records relating to her bulk. Born normally sized, she began growing at a prodigious rate in childhood, finally reaching a maximum height of 7' 8" at age 19. Capitalizing on her huge size, she joined a side show and toured the country, where she met and fell in love with Captain Martin Bates, another giant who measured over 7 feet tall. They wed in 1872, making them the tallest married couple in the world, a record that still stands today. The couple settled down into married life, built a mansion filled with enormous furniture, including an 11' by 7' bed where they consummated their union. On June 18, 1879, she gave birth to the largest baby in history, weighing 26 lbs. and 34 inches in length—so large, in fact, that it became tightly wedged in her capacious tract, only extricated by the use of forceps and belts. The child did not survive the rigors of birth, but a cast was made, still on display at the Cleveland Museum of Health.

Generally the largest part of an infant is the head. We know that the tyke's cranium measured about 19 inches in circumference, hence we compute the minimum dilation of Swan's passage as 6 inches, or just over 15 cm. That's pretty wide—the normal dilation for childbirth is 10 cm.

Smallest Vagina
The smallest vaginas are almost too little to be measured, being a mere depression in the pubic area. Structurally complete vaginas, i.e. mucous linings and uterine connections are all in place, can be as small as 2 or 3 centimeters. Various measures can be taken to correct this condition, from surgical construction of a vaginal passage to the use of perineal dilators. Then again, maybe they could just hook up with guys similarly endowed.

Most Vaginas
In extremely rare cases women are born with two vaginas, though, oddly enough, the condition goes unnoticed until she reaches sexual maturity. Various degrees of "doubling up" can occur: two vaginal tracts but only one external orifice, two orifices that fuse into a single tract, or two complete separate openings with two uteruses and four ovaries. Corrective surgery is available, and if treated shortly after birth the prognosis for long-term recovery is excellent.

Largest Clitoris
Odd that an organ that has been largely ignored for most of history (by male anatomists, anyway) should suddenly see a flurry of research and speculation in the last 500 years. But you know what they say about men paying attention to their wives. Here's one account by John Davenport in Aphrodisiacs and Love Stimulants (Lyle Stuart, 1966):

A remarkable instance is given by [Sir Edward] Home. It occurred in a negress who was purchased by General Melville, in the island of Dominica, in the West Indies, about the year 1744. She was of the Mandango nation, twenty-four years of age, her breasts were very flat, she had a rough voice and a masculine countenance. The clitoris was two inches long [5 cm], and in some instances resembled a common-sized thumb. When viewed at some distance the end appeared round and of a red color, but upon closer examination was found to be more pointed than that of a penis, and having neither prepuce nor perforation; when handled it became erected, and was in that state fully 3 inches long and much thicker than before…The other parts of the female organs were found to be in a natural state.

One wonders who was doing the "handling" here, but the passage doesn't say. In 1824 another doctor, identified as "Otto at Breslau," reported seeing an African women with a clitoris 4½ inches long and 1½ inches diameter (11.4 by 3.8 cm), said to form a complete covering of the vaginal orifice. Another doctor, Bainbridge, related the case of enlarged clitoris in a woman of thirty-two whose organ was five inches in length (13 cm) and "about the diameter of a quiescent penis." In what may be the ultimate expression of medial one-uppance, an 1813 French medical encyclopedia even goes as far as to claim existence of a monstrous twelve-inch specimen (31 cm!), said to be like "the neck of a goose." This seems preposterous: come on, most guys aren't even that hung. A more credible claim would be from the 18th century Swiss biologist Albrecht von Haller, who is said to have come across a woman with a monstrous clitoris measuring no less than seven inches long (18 cm).

As an aside, it's kind of interesting to read the sort of goofy speculation some male chroniclers make on large clitorises. One claim, shared by Robert L. Dickinson, he of the largest penis fame, and Alfred Kinsey, is that they were strictly "utilized as [a] copulator by lesbians." Well, maybe. But don't you think you'd have to own the equipment before you make any claims on how to operate it?

Longest Labia Minora
Women of several African tribes artificially enlarge their labia to remarkable lengths. Beginning as young lasses, females of the Venda and Benin tribes (located in southern and western Africa, respectively) tug constantly on their labia to elongate them. Sometimes the girls will band together and assist one another. Sort of like a kinky version of a knitting circle, I guess. The labia can hang as much as 7 inches in length, much to the delight of the menfolk, who find women with lengthened lips very desirable. In case you're wondering how the manage with such ponderous equipment, they often push the long labia into the vaginal orifice to protect them during normal household chores.

Largest Buttocks
Excessive buttock tissue, called steatopygous, or "fat-arsed" (as opposed to callipygous: "possessing beautiful buttocks"; adds that certain mellifluous touch to your locker-room conversations) is rare but not unheard of. The largest examples can be found in the Hottentot tribe of Africa, who possess moons that would make Sir Mix-A-Lot envious. In their most developed state, each buttock can be two or three feet across.

Mental Penis Enlargement part 2

Keeping the strength of thought at the forefront of your problem I think the next step is to examine "the word". The word is the most powerful tool we have as intelligent, emotional beings. We use the word to communicate with one another for good and bad. The word, being such a simple thing, effects us in monumental ways. Consider this analogy, a father comes home from work after a terrible day at work, he is frustrated, upset, short of temper. His son was running about the house singing songs (the child aspired to be a singer and he was very talented.) His father, out of anger with himself says, shut up, your voice is ugly. The child hears this and never sings again, he suffers with confidence and the rest of his life he is plagued by insecurities, all because of the word. The word holds infinite power. Another man who used the strength of his word to destroy millions of people was Hitler. So you can see how powerful this is.

Now consider the word used on yourself. This happens everyday in many ways. It might be morning and your think to yourself, "I am happy, today will be great" and this comes to pass. The same thing can happen against ourselves in many ways but we will explore sexual issues. In your case the word(s) is "For the life of me,i can not shake the idea of the next chick thinking i'm small when it comes to my dick" In turn this mental poison festers, it grows and becomes more and more believable as the thought is repeated. So much so that you have already decided that every new girl that comes along is going to think what you think. You believe your word and because of this you have unwarranted fear. It makes no difference what the woman is really thinking because you are making yourself suffer because of a thought process that you have created somewhere in your past. Does she think you are small? Of course not, you are huge. And if you really think about this, you know you are huge but the conflict lays in a debate of reality and fantasy in your mind.

This debate will go on until you use the same word that got you thinking in such a negative way to take you out of it. I know I preach allot about mental penis enlargement and these lessons I give are not just for the men who PE they are for all men. As human beings we are addicted to suffering, we are the only species that punishes ourselves over and over for the same mistake. Animals in the wild make a mistake, learn from it and never suffer anymore for it. But we, through our addiction to suffering, punish ourselves over and over. We are literally in Hell on earth and to make it worse we are surrounded by people who do the same thing.

You need to change the thought, the word, the very thing that put you in this position. Realizing we are suffering for something that is not true is the first step. In your case it is the thoughts that every woman is going to think as you do. As I write this I am sure you see how silly the thought really is. It has no basis in reality, it is only a self-degrading fantasy...admit this to yourself. Next you need to replace the poisoned word with a new thought "I am a good man, I am confident, my mind is healthy, my body is beautiful. My penis is huge, I love my penis" This statement excludes the need to push our thinking on others, it erases the irrational texture of the infected word. It may feel strange at first and it will take time to de-root the old and plant the new but it will happen. Live my these two rules and you will be living in Heaven on earth:

1.) The word is the most powerful tool available to the human race

2.) Never make assumptions.

These two simple rules will eliminate everything you have ever made yourself suffer for.

DLD (Mike Salvini)

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How Does Mental Penis Enlargement Work? PART 1

Many people may wonder what Mental Penis Enlargement is and for good reason. Penis Enlargement to most people is a physical thing, do exercise, take pills, use a Penis Enlargement device, Penis Enlargement surgery, etc. but Mental Penis Enlargement has nothing to do with physical Penis Enlargement, at least not in it's original theory. Penis size is relative to the person who is looking at their penis, or someone else's. For instance, you may look at my penis and think it is huge but to me it may be small. The same thing applies in opposite, you may look at my penis and think it's small while I believe it to be huge. What is penis relativity? It is more than the way we see a penis, it is a issue that is at the root of sexual psychology.

Since my time in Penis Enlargement I have met many men who's perspective on penis size varies as much as the very finger prints they may leave behind. Relativity, in definition, means the view from the observer. This view may disagree from viewer to viewer but in every case the independent view is correct. My penis looks small to you but large to me, we are both right. The beautiful thing about individual relativity is it is not a constant as seen in the physics model of light:) The mind is very powerful and the influence it has on the way we view ourselves sexually and this can be devastating or miraculous. Lets think about this in easier terms. Lets say you have been in a relationship for 5 years. During this 5 years you were with a woman who had numerous partners. The partners she had were big in size. You, who previous to this relationship felt confident about your size, now feel small and inadequate. At some point this relationship she ends it due to your size and you are left with the inadequate feeling in her wake. You now see yourself as small when in your past you saw yourself as average or even large. Now, one evening you go out to a bar and meet another woman. Events lead to you taking this woman home and having sex. Immediately after you take your pants off her mouth drops to the ground and she says that you have the biggest penis she has ever seen. She is in awe and she can't stop complimenting you. Her relative view is completely different than that of your x. This reaction leads to a change in your own relative view and now your confidence is through the roof. Who was right, your X or the new woman? Both.

How does this effect you? Well as most human beings you base you own self image on that of those around you. This, although completely irrational, is a reality. We judge ourselves from the views of those around us. Our entire life is built on the human interactions we encounter. Whether this leads to a positive self view or a negative one depends on the interactions we have. It also is extremely vulnerable, it can change with the wind. As quickly as we build an opinion on ourselves based on outside influence we can change it by the same type of influence...kind of fucked up, huh?

I was talking with my Mother at dinner one evening and we were discussing physics (a popular topic between my Mother and myself). Relativity became the highlight of the evenings discussing and we expanded this physics term to a more human level. Aside from a individual perspective on any particular view of an event I took it a step further. I asked her to ponder the view from self and it's possible difference from that of the we. For instance, you may see the color red as black while I see it as what I believe to be red but you see this as yellow. Taking it a step further, you may see big as being average in my concept while I see small as average in your concept of large. More so, her being female while I am male may have an even more distorted comparison to the 2 individual lines of vision and thought. Who is right? The answer, once again, is both from the observers view. Another beautiful way to see the equation E=MC2.

Wit men and their penis it becomes difficult to forge a self-opinion, a visual view of the penis in your own deep self view. A view that is free from influence from others. Relativity is the view of the observer. If we can change the way we see ourselves as quickly as a new opinion from another person the is our view truly that of self relativity? This is somewhat of a paradox...our view is based on that of your view.