Insecurities and the Reasons Men Seek Out Penis Enlargement

Why do men seek out penis enlargement? There are many obvious reasons like a small penis, poor erections, negative comments from sexual partners, personal pleasure, etc. but are there deeper, darker reasons that lay beneath these obvious reasons? I really believe so.


I have seen thousands upon thousands of men on the various penis enlargement sites I own or frequent share their reasons for penis enlargement. The main reason is fear that they have a small penis. Many of these men do not have a small penis but they still believe it to be so. Are they small? This is something we have explored many times but I really believe it is something we need to remind ourselves of. What is small? What is big? What is normal? How many guys are huge? How many are average? Can we tell by other physical traits? Does race play a role? Damn, the questions can really pile up but for the most part the men who join my penis enlargement sites are not small. They join believing they are and once they read some of my work on penis enlargement and penis size they are quickly relieved to see that they have always been average or even big. So what are some of the answers to the questions above?



A below average penis for a grown man would be anything below 5" in erect state (this is measured while erect with the ruler pushed hard against the pubic bone, along the top of the penis to the tip. this is called a bone pressed, erect measurement). This does not mean a man is small only that he falls below the average size. Small is such a nasty word when thinking about penis enlargement or penis size. I also find large offensive in the same respect but the world does view the penis this way. What is above average? Anything that measures beyond the 5.5" mark. Again, to most men, they will find this hard to believe. When I think of a large or big penis I consider 6.5" and beyond in this category. Huge? These are men who go beyond the 8" mark. Most men fall into the 5-6" category while less that 5% fall below this and about the same amount beyond it. This puts about 90% of the world into the average category. How do I know these things? Because I have been involved with penis enlargement and dealing with men and these questions for more than 7 years. On my penis enlargement forums I have men from every race and it will also surprise you that race plays no part in penis size.


I know many of you wonder about girlfriends and their past lovers. Most men think about this and penis size is the question they obsess about. Again, I have learned these things through my extensive experience in penis enlargement. So what are the chances your girl have had a huge penis in her past. Asking her will do little to calm your fears as she will either a.) estimate the size of the penis through "women measurements" (5" is 7", 7" is 10", etc.) b.) Lie, to protect your feelings. c.) Tell the truth but you will not accept it and always wonder if it is true. There may be some of you who are confident and never think of these things so this article is not for you. I would say that the average number of men a woman has slept with by the time they are 25-30 would be somewhere in the 4-8 men range. I have had women who have slept with more than a hundred and others who have slept with only me but these are very uncommon. So lets take the number 6 as a good average. If .5 men in 100 have a large penis than it is safe to assume that the chances of her being with a man of this size is about 1 in 200. Feel any better? I think so. The odds that her ex's were average are 90 in 100. Small falls under the same odds as large. I know, I know, you are thinking "well, what if she slept with that .5% of men that were large? I would not bet on it.

I think that black men have a different fear than most races. I think that with all of the myths about huge, black, penis size that not only Whites, Asian or any other race suffers the insecurities but Black men themselves. If they are expected to be huge and they do not live up to this then I think it causes a particularly different fear. I met a black fellow on my penis enlargement forum. He started penis enlargement with a large penis (about 9") and with this massive of a size he still believed he was small by black standards! This blew my mind and when I let him know that average penis size was 5.5" (even for black men) he was floored. He still pursued penis enlargement but I really think his confidence went through the roof.

Asian men also carry a different burden of myths in penis size. In my penis enlargement forums there are many Asian men and invariably each one wonders if there is truth to the small myth concerning Asians. This one always made me laugh as I have not yet found one of my Asian, penis enlargement clients to have a below average penis. I have seen a few black and white ones but never an Asian penis. Penis size seems to be relatively consistent across the races and nationalities.


Now none of this should matter as penis enlargement is available and it works. In my time working with men in penis enlargement I have seen thousands of men add inches to their penis. With the right penis enlargement exercises and a proper attitude and determination penis enlargement happens.

Whether you are average and want to be big, small and want to be average or big and want to be huge, penis enlargement will give you your dreams of growth. The fears you may have about your penis are more than likely false but just hearing this may not be enough. You may have to put a conscious effort into mental penis enlargement while you practice physical penis enlargement. Making the penis larger needs to be part of expanding the mind. Understanding true penis size in the world population will help allivate much of your fear but daily affirmations of your real size, free of cluttered hearsay and myths will enlarge your mind as quickly as you enlarge your penis.