Bigger is Better...What is Bigger?

When I think of penis enlargement I think about becoming bigger. This is kind of ambiguous because what is big? Should we compare ourselves to huge porn actors, friends, the x's of our girlfriends past, the guys we see at the gym? All of these comparisons do little for finding what "Big" really means. In penis enlargement many of the guys say 8" x 6" is the ideal, "BIG" size. Other guys still buy into the belief that there are 12" cocks walking around everywhere and their goals, in penis enlargement, are very unrealistic.

Before penis enlargement I felt as though my penis was big. I was 6.5" long and had a girth just under 5" but still, I felt huge. Why did I feel so confident about my size? Easy, every woman I have ever been with told me my penis was huge. Some women even said that their ex-boyfriend had a 10" cock but mine was much larger. At the time I accepted the compliment with complete confusion, but today, with all of my penis enlargement knowledge, I realize that these women had no idea about size measurements and I truly had a "BIG" cock.

A large penis is one that goes beyond the average point of 5.5". So a 6" penis, to most women, would seem big. A 7" penis would seem gigantic and finally a 8" penis would BLOW THEIR MINDS. You would have them swearing to their friends that you have 14" of cock. This is where issues arise between man and woman in a relationship. WHo were they with, really, how big were they? Is she being honest? Is she covering up her past to protect our feelings? This is so hard to know. What I do know is women do not care about how big you are as much as you believe.

I really think men project their insecurities on the women they question. We, as men, want to know is ARE WE THE BIGGEST? that is a question that depends on the belief we have in the woman we are with. Sometimes I think men have fantasies about woman and big cocks...I think these men find pleasure in the thoughts of their woman being with a huge cock. Does this turn you one? If you say no you are lying. We have fantasies about our woman but at the same time treating them as though they lived out our fantasy??? Kind of strange.

So, again, what is big? I guess this number depends on the person you are with. A woman who have only been with men who are 5" and below and you have 6", well you are huge to them. If you are with a woman who has been with men who are 7 or 8" and you are 5"...to that woman you are different. Not small...different.

I am not trying to protect your feelings I am only saying that women do not have the thoughts men have. You make assumptions, you believe these assumptions and you project them on your girl. Does size matter?