Locker Room Anxiety: Penis Enlargement Help

I recently, as I have on many occasions, heard a man talking about anxiety over his flaccid penis size in the changing room. This is something that most men, who are into bodybuilding, swimming, gym class, etc. have to deal with quite often. I remember way before penis enlargement I attended school in a mostly black school (I guess this is why I have so much knowledge on black and white penis size being not much different.) but after daily gym we all shared a large shower room and locker room. Of course, just like most men, I was curious to the penis size of other men. When I would compare myself I was quite normal....as a matter of fact I never really noticed anyone that was noticeably larger. I bring up the black/white thing because a.) it is what I grew up with and b.) it is the biggest sexual misconception in race difference. It wasn't until years later when I owned a gym in a predominately white area that I saw white men nude. Again, the difference was not too noticeable. Actually in all my experience in these situations I remember 5 penis's that stick out (figuratively) to me. One was an old white dude that had a very long flaccid penis. two were noticeably smaller than any I have seen but since I learned about growers (men who have a small flaccid size but a big erect size) and growers (being the opposite) I never paid that too much mine. And finally one black or spanish (can't remember) that was as long as I am flaccid. The rest I only remember as normal, the same.

In penis enlargement I have seen many men in flaccid state. Some bigger than others but I always take the fluffing factor into the whole deal. Fluffing is when a man gets himself semi-erect before taking a picture or even entering the changing room. I always thought how wonderful it would be to be in that state always:) Again, in penis enlargement, I have seen many erect penis's with very little variation in size. SOme thicker some longer but only by small increments. Of course their are many men who are larger or smaller at the high and low end of the average spectrum but, predominately, most are equal.

Being in a situation where you are surrounded by other naked men can play some serious tricks on a guy. Most men, by nature, when seeing other naked men, immediately compare themselves and see the other man as larger. Recently my Son came to me saying how he saw one of his friends penis's and it was huge. After we had a long discussion siting many of the things in this BLOG he had a new perspective. One day weeks later he was out with this friend, a girl and another boy. Kids do this thing called "pantsing" where when the unsuspecting boy has his pants pulled down. In this case they were shorts and it was the girl who did the pantsing. When he saw the boy, who he thought was huge, again he was amazed to see that he was not as big as he thought. As a matter of fact he was similar if not smaller them him. All this came about with some simple shifts in self perspective.

In my many years in penis enlargement I have taught men how to optimize their penis size and and lessen the "turtling" effect. See any of my posts on this BLOG or other sites (www.mattersofsize.com, www.mattersofsize.com/forum) concerning penis enlargement and increasing flaccid size. I am more interested in the mental perspective men may have.

The fact is, you are more than likely, very normal and similar to 90% of the men out there. Actually encountering the other 10% is unlikely. The ones that have I can hear sighing right now:) Something my Mother always taught me that has stuck is that people are more concerned with their own insecurities than looking at mine. Be assured that even if men may poke fun it is purely out of their own fears and insecurities. My advice is to learn to fluff:)

And if you are below average does it really matter? I mean, does it really matter now that you have found penis enlargement? With penis enlargement you can make your penios as large as you want, with your mind you can make it as small as you want. The trick is getting both on a positive track. Change your thoughts and become a big man inside and out.

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