Discovering and Loving You
For so many men in the world self worth comes from the outside. They judge themselves on many physical levels that only make their self worth dwindle. Men compare themselves to other men who are considered "perfect" by societies views and make their own potential perfection inaccessible.
I learn more and more every day and since I am in the penis enlargement business, I meet many men. It seems that men judge themselves on a sexual level before anything else. When seeing themselves naked they truly do not see themselves. They see the pains and disappointments of the past. They see a distorted view of most parts of their body but many see their penis as the biggest problem.
There is millions of inquiries on penis enlargement every week. Men are searching for a way to make themselves more manly and penis enlargement seems like the logical place to start. After all a big penis makes a man the best he can be, doesn't it? I mean, if a man does penis enlargement and creates a massive penis his life, however fucked up it is, will become all better, right? No!
Imagine a woman with serious issues and a low self opinion. She has always had small breasts and she gets the chance to make them bigger, as big as she likes. In her mind every problem she has will be corrected as soon as her breasts are large. Her problems span from losing her job and having her bills become un-payable to an awful, abusive relationship with her current boyfriend and thinking she is fat. So many problems but she really thinks that larger breasts will fix everything. She gets the breasts she has always wanted and she is extremely happy. She goes home and rides this wave of happiness until it starts to break apart. She realizes her breasts will not pay the bills or get her a respectable job. Her abusive boyfriend enjoys her breasts also but the underlying relationship she has with him soon surfaces and becomes bad once again. She thought having bigger breasts would make her body look better. Even though she has a very beautiful body she still sees herself as fat, even with the new breasts. See my point?
It is easier for men to see their own penis issues by using females as an example. With men the same line of thought becomes ever present, especially after they find penis enlargement. I have worked with so many men who have problems with their relationships, confidence, the way their face looks, their lack of muscle, their baldness, almost any outward problem...the penis being at the top of the list. Their hopes, when they speak with me, is that penis enlargement will change all of this. After they see that penis enlargement truly works and they are getting the penis size they have always wanted they become disillusioned because penis enlargement or a larger penis has not cured the rest of their problems.
I am not trying to discourage any man from doing penis enlargement, on the contrary. ONE of their outward problems is their penis and they have found a way to change that. They have found a solution and it really works. I have always told men in penis enlargement that when they start making penis gains to ride that wave of happiness and let it flow into all parts of their lives. Not in the sense that it will cure their other problems but using the wave of happiness to believe they can begin to work on other parts of themselves.
Any outward issue can be changed, it is very easy and seeing the steps they have taken in penis enlargement they can use to change, for the better, their other problems. The steps look something like this:
Asking for a bigger penis, trusting and having faith to the point that they can see themselves with it before it even happens and allowing themselves to manifest it for real. Keeping these steps in mind it becomes evident that problems are really not problems, they are opportunities to learn and better yourself.
Again, making outward changes is incredible and the confidence, happiness and pride they receive from these changes is awesome but the inside needs to change also. When you are able to make positive changes inside while changing outside the result is complete happiness.
I want to get into the topic of this post now. What does "Discovering and Loving You" mean? My description of this is seeing yourself as perfect in all ways and seeing the miracle of the life you have within. Perfection, to most, will seem like something that is not attainable. We are taught that we need to accept the imperfections in our lives because, in many cases, they can't be changed...Is this wise? Does acceptance denote the accompanying negative feelings? When you think of your problems, that seem unchangeable, does acceptance make anything better?
My Son told me that everything is perfect because everything in this moment is a creation of God, therefore it must be perfect. Recognizing that we posses a spiritual life within ourselves one must see this as perfect. With the spirit within you can create anything you want, including your penis. Think about this way, you see a picture in your mind, the picture only exists in your mind, it has taken no physical manifestation yet. You become inspired and grab a sketch pad and draw this picture in your mind...what has just happened? A miracle has happened, you created something out of nothing and it is real, it is now on your wall, see?
Lets say that art is something you are good at and you create many beautiful pictures that you love. This is something that comes from within therefore you love yourself with completeness as the artist within. It feels good and it is real, these pictures started with a thought, a simple vision and you, as an artist, created a reality that is like nothing in the world.
The example above is only one way to love yourself but if you really look deep inside you will see many things that you love about yourself. You will see the perfect life within you and it is easy to see that this is where loving yourself begins. The happiness you feel when you see these qualities you posses is unavoidable.
Make a list of all the good things you are. Maybe you are a great Dad, a loving man, an awesome tennis player, a great auto mechanic, a great writer, and the lists goes on. Sit down and really search yourself only seeing the positive qualities and write them down. Carry this list with you everywhere and add to it as you grow in self love and become happier and happier. Use this list to boost your spirits when you feel that you are judging yourself. Read this list before you sleep and when you awake. You will soon grow INSIDE and with this inside growth your outside will change, it will have no choice.
I was one of the men who got into penis enlargement because of my inner self loathing. When I saw that penis enlargement really worked I was convinced that it would heal so many issues. It did not, as a matter of fact many of my issues became worse. Even after I gained a lot of penis size I still saw my penis as it was before I started. This only confirmed other problems in my life and my discouragement made self-love almost impossible. It was only when I started to see who I truly am inside that I was able to see my penis enlargement changes. The more I loved myself the bigger my penis appeared. This became the backbone of my life. If I could create a bigger penis and truly feel and see it, I could change anything.
From nothing I have created the biggest penis enlargement site in the world. I knew this was going to happen long before it did. I became an awesome artist and I create so many works of art that I love, they hang on my walls and I love to look at them. I make hip hop beats and they are incredible, I start with just a inspirational thought and as I sit there making the beat I see creation in process...pure perfection. I surround myself with the good qualities I have within and the outward manifestation of these qualities, whether they be a painting or helping a man make his penis and mind bigger. It is very hard for me to see myself, physically, as anything more than perfect and completely happy.
I carry a list in my pocket along with a little stone my Son gave me. Every-time I see it I am reminded of the good parts of myself. As I feel happier and happier the bad just disappears. It sounds so simple and that is because it is. Believe me, as you make changes in your life and begin to see your own inner perfection things like penis enlargement become as easy as boiling an egg.
Some may be sitting there thinking that your problems are too big to change and I am here to say that if you believe this they will be too big to change. By the same token, if you are sitting there thinking that you have opportunities and believing you can change or make the most of them, they will become easy to change.
Enter penis enlargement from within. Make your penis bigger before you even start penis enlargement. See your penis as the way you want it. Embrace this vision and allow yourself to feel it, feel it deep from within. The rest of penis enlargement is easy, just do it. I like to tell men that anything they want is on the ground in front of them, they only need to pick it up.
You can not Love Anything Until You Love Yourself!