Question about my first time... Couldn't get off!

[agot]

well tonight was my first time doing you know what. I had fun, and the girl seemed to have fun too. She knew I was a virgin so any clumsy mistakes on my part were acceptable haha.

but here is what I have a question about. I couldn't cum! She was really tight when I first entered her, and became VERY wet. But after 2 hours of screwing I still hadn't came. and on my first time! I mean it felt good and all in her tight pussy, but I was expecting it to be like where its so good its hard to hold back from cumming good ya know? But instead I pounded her any which way, soft and slow, hard and fast, hard and slow, I just never got to the point where I could cum. anyways, so we ended up having to end it short since people would be coming home soon and we didn't want to be caught with our pants down haha. but we later went to another place in my car where she went down on me. This time I felt close to cumming a few times, since IMO she is really good with her mouth, but I could never get to over that edge. So we did that for a good 20-30 minutes! I felt bad because he mouth must have been hurting big time haha. But I ended up having her suck me off a good amount till I was right below that peak I couldn't reach from the BJ/hand job, then finish it myself quickly to bust a fat ass nut haha.

So yeah, I'm wondering why that is! I feel bad that I didn't cum because of her in the first place. she has a great tight pussy, and I know after 2 hours she was starting to hurt haha. So how might I be able to fix this? Yes I'm asking how can I get it so I can cum sooner. haha. Otherwise I would be going all night and that shit gets tiring. we were even using an extra thin trojan condom for extra sensitivity! So come on guys, I know she wants me to blow a nut all over her face and chest, and right now I can't do that if I can't get off. So any tips would be helpful <:(

[Kassit]

I didn't cum on my first time either.

Well we're you wearin' a condom?

If you we're wich I suppose you did,the next time wear an ultra sensitive condom.

[agot]

I didn't cum on my first time either.

Well we're you wearin' a condom?

If you we're wich I suppose you did,the next time wear an ultra sensitive condom.

yeah I said this in my above post

"we were even using an extra thin trojan condom for extra sensitivity!"

so yeah, it was a thin one.

[hopful]

Can come from Thinking to much ;)
ya know ("God Damn I gotta cum soon... this isn't normal...what is she thinking about me.....does she think i don't like her...") blabla you know what i mean and then the secound time in the car it can be the same ("shit I still ain't cumming....damn..She might think I'm not normal....."). Those can realy be killers. If this is ya Problem calm down, tell her about it and how you're feelings stand. That should realy help there! Did ya drink? Did you wank 3 - 4 times that day befor you fucked her? If you are uncut i got a tipp: hold your forskin back while stabbin her ( should only be done in positions like doggy style or when she's ridding ya ;) ).

Hope i could help

[BeBobBox]

stop masturbating and stuff for a few weeks or however long so you get sensitive

[Kassit]

first time I busted a nut with a girl wasn't from intercourse,I titty fucked her

[agot]

no i didn't drink before hand, I am cut, and I hadn't masturbated for a good 5 to 6 days before we did it last night. My guess is i was probably over thinking. Although all I can remember thinking about was how much she was moaning and how great it was to finally be doing this with her haha.

At least i know it wasn't to bad. She said that night was the wettest she has ever been. :D

[Casey]

sometimes people are use more pressure when they masturbate. try getting close, then just finishing yourself off if she cant get you over the edge. try kegeling when fucking also.

[craigy2004]

i agree about thinknig too much about it...if you dont feel totally confortable then it may be why.

Also try as hard as you can not to masturbate for a few days and build it up for her ;) it works, and it will make the experience better imo.