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Smallguy44
09-02-04, 10:25 PM
So here's a little background info. Been dating this girl since early august. Went out twice in the 2nd and 3rd weeks in august, then she went to school earlier than me. I got to college, and this week we've hung out twice already (i've slept over her dorm, but just studying and lil making out. I live far off campus and late at night she offered for me to stay, but we were both dead tired so I knew neither of us was looking for intimacy that night).

My question is whether I should step up the romance and intimacy. I havent really told her seriously how beautiful she is, or how great of a person she is. We've just been talking a lot and hanging out, making out, stuff like that. I'm thinking about getting her a rose tomorrow with a little card. We both definitely like each other, and I think this would be a good step up for the relationship.

WHat do you guys think ? Im not very experienced in the dating center, and I dont want just a fuck buddy. I like her a lot, and know we will get that step up in the relationship, I just need help in getting it there.

duanesbabygirll
09-03-04, 09:06 AM
get her the rose and take it step by step. there's no hurry :) Good luck !

derringer57
09-03-04, 11:53 AM
Anything but a rose. Try Gerber Daisy or something. Girls expect roses. Getting her one will still make her go awwww, but she will like it even more if it is something different.

jakb
09-03-04, 05:11 PM
Agree wth Sephin on this one. Plus for some girls a rose can freak them out. Preferably something she has pointed out or barely mentioned. Shows you are paying attention.

From the sounds of things you two are already dating and you just dont realize it yet.

Good luck. :)

Smallguy44
09-04-04, 11:32 AM
Thanks guys. Things are going very well now. She loved the two roses I ended up getting.