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BosheR
03-14-05, 06:45 AM
:O

This aint good.

My Frenelum has ripped.

This has happened twice now! Ever since it's happened its been harder to have sex because it seems to hurt going in. Which is about a month ago. I thought it had healed but it has'nt and it ripped again last friday because the skin got pulled back too far. I'm going to see the doc next friday to sort this.

It isn't that the Frenelum is that short. It just seems to get pulled back, and it isn't because my gf isnt wet enough. I've put it in when she's at the same wettness tons of times b4. But ever since the break its been really hard to put it in.

I dont want to get circumsised purely because I wont be able to have sex AT ALL for 6 weeks and then will probabally be out of GOOD action for at least 2 months after.

Which will hinder my sex life and my PE.

What else can I do but have the snip?
Is circumsion really that much loss of sensitivity as you guys are making out?

What would you do?

Thanks

augusts booty
03-14-05, 07:49 AM
mine ripped when i was 12-13 and it healed fine unatched though!it was to tight i think and im glad it did rip on its own cus id probably have to go to the doctors to get it cut anyway!

kong1971
03-14-05, 12:51 PM
Go to your doctor and have a talk with him about your problem. There are several different techniques that can be done to help with this besides having a complete circumcision. Make sure he understands that you do not want to be circed. I forget the name of the procedure, but it is just a couple little incisions. It doesn't have to be all or nothing. Still, I would really think hard about it, and do alot of research on the net before making any decision. It's not a haircut. They'll be cutting on Mr. Happy.

TheExecutioner
03-14-05, 02:08 PM
My advice to you, is to simply leave it well alone for a good few months at least. I personally wouldnt go to see the doctor about it, not after the geniatal terrorisms they perform, I wouldnt let a doc anywhere near my penis with a knife ever in my life.

Dont get fucking circumsized!

BosheR
03-15-05, 08:48 PM
"I personally wouldnt go to see the doctor about it, not after the geniatal terrorisms they perform"


Jesus!!!

calm down calm down.

Fairplay though.
I dont think I'll get circumsized if there's other options.
If it means sex wont hurt then it may be the best.
I'm thinkin this over seriously and not goin 2 rush into anything

RonJLow
03-18-05, 11:15 PM
Hi,
>> I dont think I'll get circumsized if there's other options.
If it means sex wont hurt then it may be the best. <<

There is absolutely no reason to be circumcised for this. The most drastic thing you might consider is a "frenuplasty" to snip the frenulum for less tension. But that should only follow several months of taking it easy and letting it get better.

In England they call it snapping a banjo string and their doctors know how to treat it. Do a Google and read up on this.

Saying that you should fear American doctors is not hyperbole. They don't know shit about the value of intactness if they're not intact. Doctors with Hindu/Indian or Mexican names stand a good chance of being intact.

Best Wishes,
-Ron Low
TLCTugger.com

enkie
03-20-05, 08:07 AM
I ripped mine having anal sex when I was 14 or so. I was stupid as hell and I didnt know ure suposed to use lube. I highly sugest that you use more lubrication. Perhaps theres too much friction and tightness that its causing excess stress on your skin.

doublelongdaddy
03-20-05, 12:56 PM
I tore my frenulum a couple of years ago and it was extremely painful. The therapy I followed, dictated by Bib, worked a charm. I refrained from all penis activities, kept the area completely clean (cleaned it 3 times per day) and I applied a liberal dose of Bacitracin after each cleaning. It took about 2-3 weeks to completely heal but when it did it was a very nice healing.