female opinion on length gains

[Pharaoh]

hey guys,
didn't know any better title for this thread.
I found an interesting discussion on a board where a male member asks if girls can actually feel the difference of an inch in length. most answers are "no". another reason to focus on girth I guess:

http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/board/about22912.html

[bluenun]

Thanks, interesting read.

Hitting the cervix yes but hitting the ovaries :) is she sure?

[doublelongdaddy]

Shit, I guess my hopes of fucking Florida1 are out the window:D

[against_odds21]

Well even if they can't feel the extra inch on the inside, its an extra inch to slide in and out, so that would be more pleasureable for both.

[Straight8]

Well even if they can't feel the extra inch on the inside, its an extra inch to slide in and out, so that would be more pleasureable for both.
exactly what I was thinking. also visually they would be more turned-on by the sight of it.

[Priapologist]

Hmm. Perhaps these ladies were, ahem, underfilled? Since I bottom out most times, I'm certain that my wife will notice the extra length. :)

[Snap]

I guess it depends how deep their cervix is when they are aroused. I think they can tell, but how many really experiment with two guys simultaneously (same girth, but one inch difference in length), or two dildos (same girth, but one inch difference in length)?

I bet if you really conducted an experiment, they would all be able to tell. Probably not if size comparison was between 3" and 4", but definetely between greater sizes differing in an inch.

[sikdogg]

I agree with Snap... if the size difference is from 3" to 4" then they won't notice the difference, but from 7" to 8" they would most definitely notice the difference. That's the difference between hitting bottom or not...

My wife has noticed length and girth differences when we've been to swinger parties and when i use different sized "toys" on her.

Also, there's no way in hell anyone is gonna hit a chick's ovaries... clearly whoever claims that doesn't know much about the female anatomy.

[Priapologist]

...but if you're too big, you can go too deep and hit the ovaries or cervix and that hurts like hell (it's supposed to feel like getting kicked in the balls), trust me, that REALLY kills the mood for the female VERY quickly!

LOL!
"it's supposed to feel like..."
This chick has never had it happen, but she's talking about how horrible it is ("Bad penis! No more pussy for you!"). How can anyone "trust" her if she's never felt it? lol

I've hit cervix plenty of times and I've never seen a flutter of concern, consternation, or pain on any of my lover's faces. It either didn't register or they liked it.

Oh yes, florida1, I trust you sooooo much :moon:

[GOMER_PYLE]

LOL, did you guys notice this?

"I agree with florida in this particular instance. Very well put.

However, i only have a 3 inch erect penis, and although it is the source of much ridicule, aint no bitches be complaining whilst im all up in em. But when I bust my nut baby, im raising up out the cot. Dont get upset girl, thats just how it goes, cos all my niggas know i dont love them hoes."

God I hope that was a joke.

[DiGenius]

LOL, did you guys notice this?

"I agree with florida in this particular instance. Very well put.

However, i only have a 3 inch erect penis, and although it is the source of much ridicule, aint no bitches be complaining whilst im all up in em. But when I bust my nut baby, im raising up out the cot. Dont get upset girl, thats just how it goes, cos all my niggas know i dont love them hoes."

God I hope that was a joke.


Its tough for someone to sound hard and brag about their 3" penis at the same time.

[kong1971]

:D You should PM him and send him a link to MOS.

About being able to tell size...well, my wife used to know before I did if I had made a gain. We'd get done and she'd ask me if I was doing my "exercises". I'd check a day or two later and be .25" longer or thicker and think, wow, that pussy is sensitive. I bottom out on my wife, too-- at times-- and this is what she says about that: "It hurts but it's a good hurt."

[doublelongdaddy]

LOL, did you guys notice this?

"I agree with florida in this particular instance. Very well put.

However, i only have a 3 inch erect penis, and although it is the source of much ridicule, aint no bitches be complaining whilst im all up in em. But when I bust my nut baby, im raising up out the cot. Dont get upset girl, thats just how it goes, cos all my niggas know i dont love them hoes."

God I hope that was a joke.

http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B00006HAYW.01.LZZZZZZZ.jpg

[Alternate]

My opinion in this regard is:

Just because they claim they cannot feel it, does not mean that it isn't actually making a difference in feel and or result.

Example: Are you constantly judging the feel and accurate size of the different types of food you eat and the different sizes that you pick up with your fork or spoon?

Also, I agree that the longer "stroke" of entrance and exit is going to be more stimulating. It just is as matter of fact IMO. There is going to be a bit more of consistant stroke in and out. The difference is arguable, but it is a difference. Sometimes the slightest changes in sex make a big difference whether people realize it or not IMO.

And, of course, the look is definitely a turn on for the male and female. One may also say that the male gets that extra performance enhancement of perceived "domination" where as the woman gets that extra performance enhancement of perceived "submission".

Thickness definitely need not be ignored or underestimated though.

[Asanon]

It might seem absurd for the first sentence or two, but who knows more about what women can take and what women like, ... a woman with her own opinion expanded to be the opinion of every woman on Earth, or a man who's had a bit more than one woman to judge by?

Florida1 may not be on drugs, but neither does her opinion represent all of womankind. Believe me.

(I recall one in particular, once really warmed up, who -liked- her cervix 'pierced'. And most like pressure at the end/bottom, in front of it. Even if the inside walls can't read braille, they can still sense stretch and fullness, the cervix can tell when it's being grazed and jostled ....or not ....)

Probably many of us here could give this same story, but let me say as someone who has been 6.5 and 8+, ... 8+ is way more stick than 6.5.

A woman can take 10-15 minutes to first orgasm, or she can take like 3 minutes, (vaginally, thank you very much) ... skill otherwise the same. "Er, it doesn't matter".

... ummm, ... right.

Here's a comparison figure between 6.0 and 8.0 for volume, given identical ratios of length to width for each. 8 is four times more volume than the 6-er.

6" dick = 1 dick.
8" dick = 4 dicks.

You could use half of the 8 and still be using twice the entire 6.

Yeah, ... no difference. ;-)

Besides that, you can use the extra length to do all manner of more interesting positions.

Everyone will have a preference for their goals. I'm going to stop at about 9.2

DLD: "Shit, I guess my hopes of fucking Florida1 are out the window"

LMAO! rofl

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[esteban]

I think for the most part, length gains are about visual pleasure...once you're past average. But beyond that, it has definite benefits as well. Say you have a girl with a bigger ass...a longer member will aid you in having intercourse in positions you couldn't do before, with a shorter skin flute. So yes, girls pick up more on more girth, but added length makes things possible that weren't before...depending on your before length. In my opinion.

[doublelongdaddy]

Say you have a girl with a bigger ass...


That gave me wood:)

[poonologist]

It might seem absurd for the first sentence or two, but who knows more about what women can take and what women like, ... a woman with her own opinion expanded to be the opinion of every woman on Earth, or a man who's had a bit more than one woman to judge by?

Florida1 may not be on drugs, but neither does her opinion represent all of womankind. Believe me.

(I recall one in particular, once really warmed up, who -liked- her cervix 'pierced'. And most like pressure at the end/bottom, in front of it. Even if the inside walls can't read braille, they can still sense stretch and fullness, the cervix can tell when it's being grazed and jostled ....or not ....)

Probably many of us here could give this same story, but let me say as someone who has been 6.5 and 8+, ... 8+ is way more stick than 6.5.

A woman can take 10-15 minutes to first orgasm, or she can take like 3 minutes, (vaginally, thank you very much) ... skill otherwise the same. "Er, it doesn't matter".

... ummm, ... right.

Here's a comparison figure between 6.0 and 8.0 for volume, given identical ratios of length to width for each. 8 is four times more volume than the 6-er.

6" dick = 1 dick.
8" dick = 4 dicks.

You could use half of the 8 and still be using twice the entire 6.

Yeah, ... no difference. ;-)

Besides that, you can use the extra length to do all manner of more interesting positions.

Everyone will have a preference for their goals. I'm going to stop at about 9.2

DLD: "Shit, I guess my hopes of fucking Florida1 are out the window"

LMAO! rofl

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Maybe its because i just woke up but i didnt understand half of what you said rofl

[poonologist]

That gave me wood:)

Its offtopic but DLD,have you gotten some p.m's from me with the last couple days?Its about the extender

[Priapologist]

Here's a comparison figure between 6.0 and 8.0 for volume, given identical ratios of length to width for each. 8 is four times more volume than the 6-er.

6" dick = 1 dick.
8" dick = 4 dicks.

You could use half of the 8 and still be using twice the entire 6.

I'm not sure how you got these results. Here's my math:

8x6 = 1.333 ratio
6x4.5 = 1.333 ratio

circumference = 2*pi*radius

6/2 = 3
3/pi = 0.955" radius

4.5/2 = 2.25
2.25 = 0.716" radius

area = pi*radius squared

0.955^2 = 0.912
0.912*pi = 2.86

0.716^2 = 0.513
0.513*pi = 1.61

2.86*8 = 22.9 cubic inches
1.61*6 = 9.67 cubic inches

22.9/9.67 = 2.37

Ratio is 2.37:1, not 4:1

Of course, this doesn't invalidate your point, since the ratiometrically equivalent eight inch penis is still nearly 2.5 times the volume of the six inch penis.

[Stuff_]

^ That's only considering that the 6" has 4.5" girth, and that the 8" has 6" girth. The 6" could have 6" girth and the 8" could have 4.5". Soo.. there are many possibilities. :P

[Gimme9]

LOL! I understood the math better BEFORE he explained the math!!

[Priapologist]

^ That's only considering that the 6" has 4.5" girth, and that the 8" has 6" girth. The 6" could have 6" girth and the 8" could have 4.5". Soo.. there are many possibilities. :P

Yes, well, Asanon set the ground rule of having equal ratios, so I just picked two numbers that are equal and reasonable.


LOL! I understood the math better BEFORE he explained the math!!

rofl :P

[Aimingforthetop]

Shit, I guess my hopes of fucking Florida1 are out the window:D

Lol that made me laugh RL!

actually i found a anonymous test made on girls on a sexdating webside in my country, and there the most popular size was 8x6 and it was also important that the penis was shaped like a mushroom (head bigger than the shaft) because then it would stimulate the vagina alot more.

this thing with asking a girl what size they like should be taken into consideration, i mean how many chicks have actually had an 10 incher? and also i do have the feeling that girls don't wan't to say out loud that they just LOVE a big one. its like an tabu.

by the way if anybody is interested i could translate the article, they also had a female sex expert (i don't know what that is really) to comment on the statistics they got, and it was actually kind of fun to read.

[newbie09]

dont ruin my targets :(

[z06vet2003]

Hey.. don't anyone ever talk to the ladies.. I'ave ask my wife the question " Can you feel how deep I am.. Her answer was NOT REALLY... why because the ladies don't have as many nerves back there.. ITS ALL UP Front, But they certainly can feel it when it hits bottom.. OUCH !.... Now the real answer you may want to hear is this. Can a girl, when properly aroused handle a 9 to 12" dick... the answer is yes !,, can they feel all of that meat.. NO ! .. does seeing ( EYE CANDY) all that length turn them on.. for my wife the answer is yes... and the desire to try and handle it... but they CAN feel every inch of your girth at the opening,, where it counts pushing out their clit.. So with my + 7 inch girth , its a real battle to get it in. and she says it hurts for a second or two.. but after that its pure pleasure.

[Riven650]

.... i found a anonymous test made on girls on a sexdating webside in my country, and there the most popular size was 8x6 ......
..... i mean how many chicks have actually had an 10 incher? .....

My wife and I were reading this thread and we think that the numbers thrown around on here (and other big cock sites) can make you extremely blase about large numbers. But in the real world, very, very few women, other than hookers and porn stars, have had a cock much longer than 7" whatever they might brag about.

As for women wishing for an 8"x6": I think most of those 'what women want' sites have been discredited as having been written by guys, and/or the respondents to their 'surveys' have not be authenticated - ie. anyone can post a response and bend the figures.

My wife and I had both 'been around the block' some before we met and settled down. She did a lot of swinging in her previous marriage (as did I) and she really can't remember being fucked by a bigger cock than mine, and I was 'only' a shade over 6" when we met. Since I got into pe I've increased my length to 6.5" -7" (depending upon erection quality). I bottom out in her every time we fuck these days, which is a new experience for BOTH of us. Once she really gets going her vagina tents (changes texture and opens up a lot) and we can both feel she could easily take more length because I can bash it in to the hilt without it making her gasp too much. She maintains that 7.5" will be more than enough length as far as she's concerned. However, she agrees that 8" seems to be the magic figure that sets the huge cocks apart from the 'merely' very big, so she's recently agreed that if it makes me feel more motivated I should re-fix my goal at 8"x6". With all that extra girth (if I can achieve it) we are talking about a lot more cock bulk (as discussed elsewhere on this thread), but she's pretty sure that she'll learn to cope with it. Anyway, she's game for it ;)

[redbear52]

I have banged a cervix from time to time, and in my experience, most women do not find it pleasurable. Yet some don't find it uncomfortable and some may even be stimulated by it, so I don't think you can apply a rule to all women.

And yes, it is possible to traumatize a woman's ovary with vaginal sex. it isn't terribly common, however. If you are long enough to reach past the cervix to the deepest portion of the vagina at the posterior fornix, you are very close to the so-called cul-de-sac of the peritoneal cavity or "pouch of Douglas". There is very little tissue between the cul-de-sac and the inside of the vaginal canal at the posterior fornix.

The ovaries are in the peritoneal cavity, not the vagina, of course. But the ovaries are suspended on the ovarian ligaments and they can move around a bit, just like a guy's testes move around. If an ovary happens to be sitting in the cul-de-sac when a glans penis makes vigorous contact with the wall of the vagina at the posterior fornix, it can be equivalent to getting whacked in a nut.

And I agree with the last post. I am about 7.6 inches BPEL with an "insertable" or fuctional length of about 7.2 inches. I have been able to bottom out in some, but not all of the female partners I have had, but usually only in positions that allowed for maximal penetration. Very roughly, I would guess the average depth of the aroused vaginal canal is in the 7 to 7.5 inch range (obviously, many are shallower or deeper). I'm not certain that all women find it desirable to have a partner that bottoms out, though, but I suspect most guys with a fiunctional length of 8 inches would do so in most women.

[94exa2]

i say those girls are lying. i used to be shy or 7" and my wife used to love my size, but now that i gained, what, maybe .25" in length i hurt her and can def feel my penis hitting sumthing. girls before my wife all said my almost 7 was def noticable over their usual 6 or w/e.....they can def feel an inch....half inch, idk, inch...who couldnt feel an inch?

[REDZULU2003]

1/4 inch is going to make a difference, even smaller when you think about the volume with regards to the girth ... its not just an extra piece of length but whole penis volume that goes inside her. It limits me in using my whole length, being girthy but I find it works the pussy better than going balls deep.

[rakas]

I personally would love to know why some girls love having the cirvix hit and some do not.

Is it a pleasure/pain thing so that you need a 'type' of girl for them to like it or is it a case of the first few hits hurt but then pleasure kicks in.

[Riven650]

I personally would love to know why some girls love having the cirvix hit and some do not.

Is it a pleasure/pain thing so that you need a 'type' of girl for them to like it or is it a case of the first few hits hurt but then pleasure kicks in.

The idea that some girls love having the cervix hit is daft. This idea comes from sexually inexperienced guys who obsess about penis size. I tend to think that 'hitting the cervix' is a very general euphemism for the pain a woman can experience if she's fucked when she isn't turned on. The average penis easily reaches the cervix and pushes it aside at full penetration. The woman is not aware of this because she doesn't have any nerve endings high in the vagina. The cervix is not necessarily a tender spot. The cervix is simply a slightly projecting area on the vaginal wall behind which lies the uterus. It all moves about during intercourse and feels great for both partners. If a woman has tenderness in her internal organs for any reason, then she might experience pain from a jabbing cock during intercourse, in which case you should take it easy. This is not really a penis size issue, although at the extreme (and terribly unusual) ends of the spectrum (ie. micropenis compared to the hugely endowed) the size of the guy's penis might be an issue. But I stress again, the sensation often referred to as 'hitting the cervix' says more about a woman's readiness for intercourse, or maybe indicates a problem (for instance, a pelvic inflammation) than saying anything about cock size.

[kitfisto]

If a woman has a deep vagina and providing that she has not had many long dicks and that your dick is of reasonable girth, your lengthy cock could stretch out parts of her pussy that have not been given a proper dicking yet. You dig?

[doublelongdaddy]

The idea that some girls love having the cervix hit is daft.


Very true. When the cervix is hit it causes pain to the woman, men think they are going deep and causing damage when really all they are doing is hitting the cervix which could be as close as 3"! Some women have a cervix that is much deep and some much more shallow but in any case, it is not pleasurable to hit the cervix. Learn to go around the cervix and hit the special spot just beyond the cervix, the Cul de Sak...This will bring the ultimate pleases of multiple orgasms and gushing, squirting orgasms....and belive me, these are a much better thing to hear than "Ouch, you just banged my cervix!"