1 month anniversary!!

[pyro]

I have been with this amazing girl for 1 month today.. should I do anything? or give her something?

[kong1971]

Yep. Women love when you remember shit like that. Send her some flowers or something.

[pyro]

I dont have enough money to send her flowers..however, I can take her flowers...any other idea maybe something smaller like a card or something?

[kong1971]

Card? No... maybe a poem, written by you. It should be something small and romantic. When I said flowers, I didn't mean 2 dozen roses. That's a little much, probably. Pick her some flowers yourself and put a little poem or note with them.

[pyro]

thanks kong i think thats a good idea

[sikdogg]

It's a cool idea but it's also setting a precedence for what she will most likely expect in the future. Just my 2 cents...

[bcboy]

bingo hit it on the head, then it will be anniversaries since the first time you two slept together and then all that other crap. It is a good jesture and it does show that you have a good memory and such but it will eventually lead to the slow demise of your wallets health.

But I'm single so what do i know (but i do have an extreme memory for things that are memorable).

[finalsight]

Here's my rough guide for the use of roses:

2 dozen - when you've fucked up or on very special occasions.
1 dozen - special occasions eg birthdays and real anniversary
single - spontaneous romantic gestures (strangely in my experience they prefer singles), trivial anniversaries and as a good way for sex.

as i said this is a rough guide as some women don't respond to roses, i recommend asking her friends to see if they know her absolute favorite flower.

Also don't for get that forgotten resource, the florists (especially camp ones) they usually know what flowers go for each occasion and get the best result.

[bigsack]

Some girls can be just as easily scared out of seroius relationships as guys, so I'd be careful with over-celebrating the 1 month anniversary. 6 month, year, etc are big ones because you have some history with the person, but one month isn't all that long. Like some others have suggested just get her some flowers for no reason attatched to it, they eat that stuff up.