Coworker Pussy - Dilemma

[bigcharlie]

Ok here's the deal. Normally I don't mess around witch chicks at work (or at least I don't initiate) only because I know how girls gossip. Gossip isn't a problem if you aren't literally working WITH that girl's group of friends. But such is the case for me, so I usually avoid it.

Well, this black chick at work has me confounded. The black girls in my section know I banged a hot black MILF a few years ago and I have not openly denied that information (plus they see me talking to her in passing now and then). Anyway, this has given me the reputation of liking black girls which I think has given me some edge... the younger black girls flirt.

Especially this one hot bad black chick who has been flirting physically with me lately. She's sweet, sexy, curvy (5'6 maybe 140 but sexy curves, maybe DD tits) and a freak. How do I know? She brags to my buddy about her sexploits.

So, what is the problem? 2 things. First, she talks about her B/Fs in "detail" to my buddy to tease him (she teases both of us but in different ways). Which means she has a big mouth. Secondly, she has essentially confessed to loving huge cock. With her last 2 partners, she complained about the size of the first one, saying he's only "this big" (measuring probably 6 inches, assuming NBP). She cut off that relationship after a month or so. Her 2nd BF was huge according to her. She was always joking that she's in love and he may be "the one". Well, she ended up terminating that deal after a month as well (which surprised me) because he "didn't spend enough time/attention" with her as she wanted (he never invited her to his place either). And yeah, both the guys were black. She's also admitted she's never had a white guy before and wanted to try one (hinting at me).

So there you go. She's hot, but has a big mouth and is obviously impressed with a big dick. I'm not saying I'm small (7" x 5.75" NBP) but I have been purposely avoiding fucking any chicks at work because I know all of them would discuss my size. The only reason I fucked that MILF a few years ago is because she was separated from her husband AND I knew I could trust her to keep her mouth shut.

What should I do? Continue to PE and at least wait until I have 8x6 before I hook up with this girl? Or risk it now (while the window is open) and have everything out in the open at work (ugh). I'm going with the first option, since I won't really be able to explain to these girls that in a few months I'll be bigger anyway.... Oh the humanity! lol

[jubei]

Fuck the bitch.
7" long, ur huge dude!
Nail the shit out of her and have a bloody good time doing it, you only live once.
When ur 8" will you say that you'll just wait till ur 9"? You dont want to kill her!
Just pretent that ur 6" now and that ull fuck her when ur dick reaches the huge figure of 7" long. Bam ur there, now did i say plough the bitch?

[Chi]

you're big enough. She will think you are 8", so the gossip would be no problem. That's just my opinion, but girls always overestimate. your girth is BIG too.

[bigcharlie]

Thanks for the advice. I'll continue the flirting and see if she shows geniune interest beyond teasing. If so, I'll hit it and have no regrets. I'm getting to the point in life where I am gaining confidence in myself, not from any real results in the gym or from PE, but from having a general attitude change. I think if I stop caring what girls are saying/thinking (except the important ones in my life) then I'll be better off.

Cool thing is, I live like .25 miles from our job, so that makes sex very convenient for hooking up coworkers. I think I will give her a little more time though, to tighten up from her last BF.

I don't wanna trip and fall into her love pit and get stuck. :O

[against_odds21]

Yea agree with she will think your 8". Your girth is good. If she's clean hit it man!

[Dashdeming]

Do not shit so close to your house. Avoid it for now. Nail it later when you are not working at the same place in a year or two or whatever.

[samzman]

plow her

[bigcharlie]

Dash - the angel on my right, Sam - the devil on my left.

Oh, the horror!

Actually, I have an update. Good news is she's told my buddy that she can "do without" for a month or two. So I'd say the pressure is off for a short time.

Needless to say, I'm hitting PE with double the intensity now. I'll be measuring again on the 1st to see if I made more gains. I wanna give all us "white boys" a good rep!

Anyway, I need to give her time to "close the gap" after her ex. Don't worry though, I feel good about this anyways. I'm focused like a "DLD laser beam" on both fitness, diet, and PE (and getting results in all 3 areas).


PS anyone know what happened to the sigs? I haven't been able to update mine since Sept and I like to keep my progress listed in my sig...

I'll keep you guys posted... thanks for the encouragement (either way, hah!)

[against_odds21]

Sounds good. Prolly don't get a sig until you reach a certain post count or rep power maybe. Not sure on that.

I passed on hooking up with an ethnic girl one time. Man looking back I say wtf over and over. Slim body and DD tits... pretty little face and fun. Oooh I'm smacking myself. She is the sister of a mediocre NBA player too.

[iwant8inches]

lol odds...you are dumb. I want to slap you now. lol jk jk. I would never pass on a woman with a small waist and DD tittes, let a lone a cute one that has money in the family. lol

[against_odds21]

I do deserve it! lol

..Especially since I'm a big titty kinda guy and haven't really played with any over a B cup. :'(

[Jareth]

Do not shit so close to your house. Avoid it for now. Nail it later when you are not working at the same place in a year or two or whatever.
Man this is tough though.. Girls move on quick when they wanna fuck and u say na. Waiting to long sucks cuz you still wanna hit that pussy. SHit i still want to fuck girls i said no to in H.S. and ive been out for a while LOL... Ive done this to many times, id say if u don't have a GF hit that shit. Who cares if she talks about your size she is a girl she's gonna.. The first guy she was with was probly 5 inches and quite small. THe large guy was probly around 8 at largest, you will be one of the biggest she has had, or the biggest hit that shit

[iwant8inches]

yeah man. You are huge as it is. You think she expects every guy after the biggest she's had to be bigger? That'd get kind of ridiculous if she had those kind of expectations. It sounds like she has a healthy sexual appetite and maybe full of herself a bit too much. If I had a dick as big as yours I'd have fucked her so many times just to shut her up all ready. I can't stand women that flaunt their sexual exploits around like that. It's only nice to hear some times and even then...it's like "you fucking attention whore/actual wannabe whore! STFU!" lol. Hit that shit raw dog and bail...minus the raw dog thing...she sounds like she might be the one to give you something lol.

[bigcharlie]

Today she was flirting again. What's fucked up is that the black milf EX of mine is hitting on me again too (in the fashion that she did the first time we hooked up).

Anyways this girl I been talking about really started talking shit today, she likes to talk rough (has a foul mouth, for sure). Well just before we quit for the day she came over and touched my arm and it kinda of surprised me. I said "WTF do you want" and she goes "Oh nevermind I was gonna tell you something but not now" and grins and walks off.

I tried asking her later before I left what she wanted to say and she just smiled and blew me off. She's not normally one to play coy, so here's the plan: When I run into her again on Thursday (i'm off tomorrow) I'm gonna really press the subject. I'm starting to feel that this "window" is closing so I'm gonna close the deal one way or another and see where she's coming from.

Wish me luck. And by the way, if we do hook up, I'm gonna tear that shit up and make her pay for teasing me so much. Who knows maybe she'll never want another whitey after me, lol!

[Jareth]

Awesome dude give us all the details especially how she says u are the biggest, and best she ever had...

[ctmwm]

"dont shit where you eat!" I have lived by that rule. However hard it might be!!!

[bigcharlie]

Follow up post here.... it's been a couple months... and I'm glad I didn't mess with her. She recently started bragging to my friend that she's got a new "friend with benefits" and wont shut up about how big he is, how she's in love with him, etc etc....

I'm glad I stayed the course and adopted the "don't shit where you eat" philosophy.

It's also good for me since I've made little to no gains in my stats, which really frustrates and pisses me off. I measure no bigger today than when I started this thread. It's really getting to me...

[funkydiscochik]

Big cock or not I'd say it's best to not stick it in that ho!!! LOL! She's probably gotten more than 'benefits' from those friends. Why ruin your rep at work and possibly your health?:P

[bigcharlie]

Good point... however, if I ever to reach 8 NBP or more, I will defiantely go after it then, although she may be married by then, LOL. J/k No STDs for me please.

[ggogeta]

Thanks for the advice. I'll continue the flirting and see if she shows geniune interest beyond teasing. If so, I'll hit it and have no regrets. I'm getting to the point in life where I am gaining confidence in myself, not from any real results in the gym or from PE, but from having a general attitude change. I think if I stop caring what girls are saying/thinking (except the important ones in my life) then I'll be better off.


First of, it really looks like ur an experienced guy in the dating scene. Looks like ur a "natural"

Now second, never say again that a 4 days without gain is frustrating... 4 DAYS man, that so little time, even going to the gym 4 days won't give you any muscle results...

I'm not that much experienced on the dating scene, neither on social relations at job, but i know I'd bang her. Sex is good, and men needs it when he wants it :). That's so simple, I'm surprising myself :P

[WILLBOM]

dontcha think u r been fool chosing the first option???
Fuck her!the more u fuck them, thwe more PE makes sense!or do ya wanna have a dick for afterdeath posing?

[bigcharlie]

Lol... way to bring back the dead. That chick is on a totally different shift in another building now.

But i will say this... I have learned to stop giving a fuck about what other people think. I'm currently persuing a couple different girls (some at work) and I'm not gonna give a flying turd what they think about it when I nail it.

Life is a lot better when you stop validating opinions of people that dont matter.