i got a problem

[samzman]

lately when my woman and i are having sex i'm not getting into it as much as i used to. it's like when i'm away at college all i can think about is just ramming her pussy and makin her cum all over me and eat her til she explodes on my face. but yet when the time comes for me to do it....it's like i just loose spirit.

i'm taking some medicaiton...and i believe that one of the side affects is the loss of labido. i mean i am a really REALLY sexual guy and when i get started with her it's like i lack the motivation. she also put on some weight too.......so i don't know if that's also doin it. i don't know if it's my meds or if it's just the basic fact that she gained some weight and i just don't find her so erotic anymore.

she always enjoys the sex and i LOVE the fact that i satisfy her so much. afterwards she just collapses and just lays there in complete silence, sometimes boken with some giggles and moans of satisfaction. then we cuddle and she starts me up again by suckin my dick and then rides me again.

but the thing that gets to me is that when we began the relationship i was an ANIMAL i was pinning her every where in every way........so is it her or me?? it sounds more like my fault...........i love sex and i love my girlfriend to no end, i just don't hae the same old feeling.

any helps, hints or suggestions would be GREATLY appreciated

(oh yeah..and she's now jogging and running around in her classes at school and she's aiming to loose some weight...and i KNOW that turns me on. nothin better than a girl with a tight ass)

[doublelongdaddy]

What meds are you taking? This is more than likely the culprit so don't read too much into it. It is not a lack of attraction it is simply a lack of libido. I am on 2 medications that are notorious for loss of libido so I can relate to your problem. I am extremely sexual but when it comes time to put up or shut up I usually lose interest. I started a thread about this. Read the advice I was given and I think you will get some help. http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=1971

DLD

[samzman]

thanks a lot dld.

i'm taking lamictal for my epilepsy

[PirateSteve]

Hey sazman,
I am epileptic too, and can tell you that some of the drugs I have taken over the years for the epilepsy have had very serious side effects. That said, Lamictal is one of those new ones that is supposed to be pretty side-effect-free, though I have not taken this one so do not know firsthand.

Since you mentioned it, I will tell you that when my last girlfriend started getting out of shape, my libido died. I didn't mind so much, but my willie just didn't want to have anything to do with her. I tactfully told her to lose the weight. She cried, then there was a big fight, then she did it, and surprise - I got randy again.

One trick I use with less than perfect girls and can pass on is candlelight. Candles only show hints of surface features, and if used carefully, will show only a girl's (or yours if you are seducing a chick) best parts. A dark room, lit only with a few candles can fool your penis into thinking it is with something a lot better looking than it is. If that doesn't work, there is always the fetish world...

Good luck fellow flopper. I do hope you get this worked out!

[samzman]

Originally posted by PirateSteve
Hey sazman,
I am epileptic too, and can tell you that some of the drugs I have taken over the years for the epilepsy have had very serious side effects. That said, Lamictal is one of those new ones that is supposed to be pretty side-effect-free, though I have not taken this one so do not know firsthand.

Since you mentioned it, I will tell you that when my last girlfriend started getting out of shape, my libido died. I didn't mind so much, but my willie just didn't want to have anything to do with her. I tactfully told her to lose the weight. She cried, then there was a big fight, then she did it, and surprise - I got randy again.

One trick I use with less than perfect girls and can pass on is candlelight. Candles only show hints of surface features, and if used carefully, will show only a girl's (or yours if you are seducing a chick) best parts. A dark room, lit only with a few candles can fool your penis into thinking it is with something a lot better looking than it is. If that doesn't work, there is always the fetish world...

Good luck fellow flopper. I do hope you get this worked out!


hehe. i'm a flopper. lol. :D

thanks man i'll remember that tip. but now she's starting to walk around, and the last time i saw her i was as horny as fuck just kindda seein her. it's all in that erotic story thingie section