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goldmember
09-24-06, 11:57 AM
I'm not really sure if this has to do with PE, but everyone can benefit from this technique. I learned it from my grandma. It can cheer you up whenever you get a little down...

It involves pictures; Real, physical pictures (not mental images) of loved ones. Simply find some pictures of loved ones, with YOU in the picture as well, preferably all smiling. Holiday pictures work great. Put one on your fridge. Put one on the dashboard of your car. Fill your wallet with wallet-sized photos. Put one on your desk. And put several up where you spend most of your time.

Whenever you get down, just look at one or more of the pictures and really try to put yourself back in that moment; back with those people. Afterall, a hug from a loved one always works to lift one's spirits, and this is the closest non-physical interaction you can have. I suggest everyone try this out. Not only for those who are depressed. It will strengthen your relationships with friends and family, but not just those in your pictures.

O'RileyColt
09-24-06, 12:11 PM
Nice post Goldmember, i like.

Nelly Gay
09-24-06, 12:54 PM
I'm not really sure if this has to do with PE, but everyone can benefit from this technique. I learned it from my grandma. It can cheer you up whenever you get a little down...

It involves pictures; Real, physical pictures (not mental images) of loved ones. Simply find some pictures of loved ones, with YOU in the picture as well, preferably all smiling. Holiday pictures work great. Put one on your fridge. Put one on the dashboard of your car. Fill your wallet with wallet-sized photos. Put one on your desk. And put several up where you spend most of your time.

Whenever you get down, just look at one or more of the pictures and really try to put yourself back in that moment; back with those people. Afterall, a hug from a loved one always works to lift one's spirits, and this is the closest non-physical interaction you can have. I suggest everyone try this out. Not only for those who are depressed. It will strengthen your relationships with friends and family, but not just those in your pictures.

But what if the people in said pictures died from a terrible illness or by suicide ?

blackice
09-24-06, 12:56 PM
dummy

Painful Pleasur
09-25-06, 01:13 AM
how to be happy all the time.
pop pills?rofl

Nelly Gay
09-25-06, 02:11 AM
pop pills?rofl


Are you being ironic as most of the people on this forum with mental illness issues can attribute many of the symptoms to prescription meds ?

goldmember
09-25-06, 08:11 AM
Nice post Goldmember, i like.
Thank you colt45. At least one person can make a positive contribution to this thread.

MAXAMEYES
09-25-06, 02:41 PM
Hey Gold,
That's exactly how I got through Desert Storm and the Rest of The Gulf War. Had a photo of my wife (which was a good thing...at that time) and my two small kids right there on my control panel. Kept me sane, focused, positive and ATTENTIVE; 'cuz I sure as hell wanted to get back in one big, healthy piece!
Good advice, good advice.

Juggers
09-25-06, 03:19 PM
I used to do that when I was in basic and AIT...take out a picture of my niece and look at it...thought to myself I was doing it for her future. It really took the edge off of being away.

goldmember
09-25-06, 08:19 PM
I like the way you military type function. I'm glad it worked for you, and I'm glad you served my country.

Painful Pleasur
09-26-06, 03:17 AM
Are you being ironic as most of the people on this forum with mental illness issues can attribute many of the symptoms to prescription meds ?
ironic? you mean sarcastic? buy a dictionary plz

REDZULU2003
09-26-06, 04:47 PM
Great idea but it never works for me unless I'm in the picture with my partner [single now].

I would for certain in the future have pix of my kids and partner with me at all times.

kdogg101
09-26-06, 07:27 PM
I don't if it's just me, but looking at this happy dog (american eskimo dog) kills my depression or sadness in an instant and makes me happy. I'm not sure if that sounds silly or not...

goldmember
09-26-06, 08:11 PM
Great idea but it never works for me unless I'm in the picture with my partner [single now].

I would for certain in the future have pix of my kids and partner with me at all times.
You've got the right idea.

Nelly Gay
09-27-06, 11:35 AM
ironic? you mean sarcastic? buy a dictionary plz



Why not look up "micropenis" in any dictionary ...

goldmember
09-27-06, 05:40 PM
Why not look up "micropenis" in any dictionary ...
Hey, how about not memorizing what everyone's cock looks like on this forum? Do you even PE at all, or do you just look at cock pics all day?

Nelly Gay
09-28-06, 03:02 AM
Hey, how about not memorizing what everyone's cock looks like on this forum? Do you even PE at all, or do you just look at cock pics all day?


No, I don't feel the need to PE as I am happy with my genitalia and have never had any complaints ....
Don't flatter yourself that many of the cocks on this web-site are worth staring at "all day".
Do you "just look at cock pics all day" then ?
Why not look up "insecure" in the same dictionary ........
Or indeed the meaning of "obsessed"?

goldmember
09-28-06, 08:04 AM
No, I don't feel the need to PE as I am happy with my genitalia and have never had any complaints ....
Then you have no business even being here.

Don't flatter yourself that many of the cocks on this web-site are worth staring at "all day".
I wouldn't be flattered by you adoring anyone's cock anyway.

Do you "just look at cock pics all day" then ?
Sounds like a juvenile retailiation.

Why not look up "insecure" in the same dictionary ........
Or indeed the meaning of "obsessed"?
Who said I was insecure? "Obsessed" is just a word invented by the lazy man to describe someone who is dedicated.

Nelly Gay
09-29-06, 03:35 AM
Goldmember

I have added you to my ignore list ....
It is best to ignore naughty children who have tantrums !
BORING !

goldmember
09-29-06, 08:24 AM
Goldmember

I have added you to my ignore list ....
It is best to ignore naughty children who have tantrums !
BORING !
lol
and if the technique I described doesn't work, just think of strangling Gay Nelly...it works every time:D

SAGE
10-06-06, 04:49 AM
to be happy is to cry
when crying stops one will laugh
it take s a load off
then have sex it takes load off
then get gun and blow hole in ceiling take load off
next rape princess in mind
then write letter of apology to princess

SAGE
10-06-06, 04:50 AM
yes you got it takes load off