Is something wrong with me?

[BIGPimpin]

a while ago this girl and i got together and for me it was love at first sight. We were together for about 9 months and she took my virginity. Well a while later we broke up due to me finding out that she cheated on me while away in college. I was hurt extremely bad and was one of those guys that let her pull my strings. She would call me saying she loved me but needed time and the whole while i was a pussy and telling her i could forgive. Finally i grew a sack and told her to leave me alone and fuck off. I wouldnt answer her calls or anything. about 4 months later she gets a new cell and constantly calls me saying she really needed to takl and knew she fucked up. Well she then moved home and started showing up where i would be at on the weekends. Finally i talked to her and couple months later we were back together after she kept begging for a chance to show me she changed. Well this time i wouldnt have sex with her because i wanted to see how much i meant to her. We did oral but no penetration. Anyway9 months later she goes to a bar and cheats on me. I was pissed told her what i thought of her and havent talked to her since although i did have classes with her. Well we broke up in Jan. and now i keep thinking of her. At first i was fine and knew i was better off and didnt give a rats ass about her. now i have actually been wanting to call her and talk and see if we cant work this out. What the hell is my deal?

[sawyer]

sounds like shes got problems in her own head herself,,loads of girls i know are off there cakes,,dunno mate you can never tell with women they all suck,,,,just get a 10 incher get with her for a week abuse her with it and then throw her out so she knows what shes missing out on give her a bit of her own medicinerofl

[Ironkettle]

Funny how a big dick solves everything.... Well, all I can say is love is purely obsession. You might not realize it but when you think of someone constantly it is like exponential growth for "love" the more you think about them the more you think about them. Make sense? As easy as it may be time is the what it takes. You should also realize that of the many girls out there you can find better. Women go by this rule all the time they see better and jump on that dick as quick as possible. Just look at other women. Not like you benefited from her other than sex (just a generalization)... other women offer the exact same shit but maybe actually will see you as their best fit. Why settle for someone who is always looking for better when you can find someone who thinks you are best?

[Threak-X]

BIGPimpin you already learned the curriculum & instruction for Girls 201 and passed the class. Don't retake the class, over and over again. Step outside your comfort zone and advance yourself on to the Girls 202 class.

Sounds like you don't want an open-relationship and you are having Trust issues with her. If the girl is cheating it's apparent she has issues that needs to be worked out. Cheating is a form of being selfish and it's "All about Me." She isn't giving you a chance to make a good healthy choice for yourself in the matter. Whether you care if she lays down with another person or not. Don't deny yourself and her happiness and let it go, if she loved you she would respect your wishes. Part of life is "Letting Go" of things to make room for something better to move in.

The following is a check list for a good basic foundation in any type of relationship. If any one or combination of the following 3-C's isn't met, you really don't have a good healthy relationship and have a lot of work ahead for yourself to get it back on track.


Commitment
Communication
Confidence (trust)


Her Commitment isn't enough to Communicate her true intentions and give you the Confidence in her. It takes two to make a relationship, but only one to screw it all up.

"Love is not disrespectful"

We all go through it ... hope this help to put things perspective for you.

[painekillah]

get over her and find new women she is obviously a ho and doesnt care about you if she cheats on you.

[penguinsfan]

Dude, she has done you wrong, bigtime. IF you want to contact her again, the only thought on your mind should be settling this score, so the idea is to give her something to remember you by. Make her play the rusty trombone, shoot it in her eye, dick whip her and leave her for good at that point.

[Threak-X]

Dude, ... the only thought on your mind should be settling this score, so the idea is to give her something to remember you by. Make her play the rusty trombone, shoot it in her eye, dick whip her ... And while you're at it ... TAKE A PISS IN HER ASS.
penquinsfan, you're a true Hockey Fan :D

Seriously, you should take it as a lesson and just "LET IT GO" and move on. Use your time and energy on more positive constructive things for yourself.

[BazookaJoe]

I think you're lucky because after 4months from you'se guys first falling out she was still pursuing you . Sound to me like you have a fuckbuddy something to use from time to time but nothing you should ever commit too or care for. She sounds absolutely evil in my opinion.