can't get up for sex

[goosefaba]

Ok so I've tried having sex with my GF for the second time (my first time) and when I start to put a condom on I just get flaccid and can't get up after I get it on. Even after she gets me up when we try I just can't stay erect. I tried before with my last GF but I wasn't really into (got forced into the relationship different story) so I thought that was the reason but I really like my GF now and she likes me. More info I haven't been peing this month cuz I've had this thrombose vein for the longest time and been trying to get rid of it, but when I just fool around w/ a girl or see something hot I can't get hard really easy and stay that way, so I'm guessing I'm just nervous but I don't feel nervous.

[goal8*6nick]

when you think about getting it up the penis doesn't response!it is very common.i would advice you to use a larger condom and try to fuck your girlfriend with your rules.take control,seduce her and when you are ready,fuck her.there is no need to rush!for example!:now it's the time to fuck her because she is ready.don't care about her.try to stimulate her as much as you can and try to relax and enjoy it.play it with your rules nd when you are ready put a larger condom on and get inside!try magnum of trojan.they should be fine for your girth!and try to fix that thrombosed vein.furthermore.your girth is already big!!try to stretch only to gain length until this T-vein heals for good.try stretching for 6 months with no girth work.you will gain a little girth as well and the T-vein wil pass.after that you can do whatever you want!

[10inchadvantage]

Hey man this is pretty common. I'm generally not fully aroused when I'm having sex either, but that's because I'm often "squating" with my legs fucking my girlfriend (that is, before summer let out) >:( . However, it did take me a few times before I could achieve an erection with a girl. I was nervous and did not know what to expect. Over time you get over it, the key is having an understandable girl. Also, they'll relax their vaginas more over time too, so it evens out. If you can get hard normally you shouldn't have any problems after you get over mental barriers. As far as the T-vein, you should still be able to get hard. I found that very light pumping helped relieve my T-vein after I had one. I wouldn't pump more than 2" hg and no longer than 10 minutes, and it helped to reduce the pain and thickness of the vein. Also, some massaging (not jelqing) helped to reduce the size. I would also take some ibuprofen regularly to help. Concerning condoms, the two I have used in my life are Trojan Magnum XLs (my favorite) and LifeStyles regulars/lubed/whatever (size is what we're concerned with here). I can use regular-sized condoms just fine, although it only rolls about halfway down my penis and is tighter than normal but nothing I can't work with. With Magnum XLs they go 3/4 of the way down my penis (can't ever go all the way down thanks to tapering). The XLs are nice and lubed. I haven't had a problem with them. You should try them too if you have access.

[goosefaba]

I think given a bit more time this bloody vein will go away, I've been taking time off and it takes a lot longer for it to pop up and it's not so prominent, I've just had it for so long and didn't know what it was that I figure it'll take a while to go away and since I'm seeing improvement I think a few more weeks should do it. And thankfully she's really understanding, though she was worried about my girth so even at the one point where I was mostly erect when I tried to get in it was like hitting a wall and she was wet too. Oh and I do have larger condoms.

[mrcuteblackie]

For the mean time, learn all her erotic zones and bring her to real multipl orgasms without your penis. Then she can be patient and wait for you. ASfter that, leave her go to the shower and forget sex totally. Come back, relax, chat, and even avoid getting a hard-on till you fall asleep. The more you try, the less you get.

[NJGuy]

please everyone, its a hormone problem......get you hormones checked and start taking DHEA...you can buy it at any GNC or place like that....you can get your testosterone checked and it is probably that.....i have been there.....i started taking 50mgs a day of DHEA and my dick responded in about a month...no more weak erections....

[MAXAMEYES]

please everyone, its a hormone problem......get you hormones checked and start taking DHEA...you can buy it at any GNC or place like that....you can get your testosterone checked and it is probably that.....i have been there.....i started taking 50mgs a day of DHEA and my dick responded in about a month...no more weak erections....

I am absolutely amazed at your ability to immediately grasp the situation like no one else could...
AND THEN... conduct a full medical scan, family history, blood screening, psychological profile, lifestyle analysis and dietary assay
AND THEN... produce a full medical diagnosis
AND THEN...proffer a prescription/regimen...all via reading a black & white page on an Internet website.

Stick to Lottery numbers, and tell us when you win.

[NJGuy]

considering i am a physician i think i can comment on such things I have a BS degree in Biology from Rutgers UNiversity and i owned my own Phyisical Rehab clinic for many years, where i worked with many other doctors and other health care professionals...In addition i have taken numerous nutrition classes......SO please i don't mean to be mean here.....But keep your comments to yourself...I was trying to help someone with a very stressful problem for a guy. And i was just speaking from experience....Get your hormones checked......

[MAXAMEYES]

please everyone, its a hormone problem......get you hormones checked and start taking DHEA...you can buy it at any GNC or place like that....you can get your testosterone checked and it is probably that.....i have been there.....i started taking 50mgs a day of DHEA and my dick responded in about a month...no more weak erections....

That sounds pretty much like a diagnosis to me.
And in reading through the rest of your post, my appraisal of your sentence structure and English usage would be: Rudimentary at best. Which puts suspect anything you may try to contribute further.

If this is, in fact, any indication of the educational level needed to be come an M.D. in this day and age then I suggest you really do stick to Lottery prediction.

[Threak-X]

You know women have the same issue as they can't get wet for the same reasons of anxiety, nervousness and fear. This issue is mostly mental, learn to relax your mind by stopping the anticipation that some sort of problem is going to occur during the sexual act whether is be rejection, performance or anything else and take the fear out of it.

[MAXAMEYES]

Anyways, Goose: quite often a guy can condition his sexual response to his-own-hands-only, to the point where you won't respond to other forms of stimulation to the point you once could, or would actually like to see. If your girlfriend is a steady, dedicated kinda gal you both might want to try this.

Don't touch your penis except for urinating and hygiene (scrubbing real fast in the shower don't count either !!) for about
a week. No sex neither ! And then get together with your girlfriend...take things slow...let the passion build, don't force or rush things but focus simply on the mutual pleasure.
When you both think it's about time to explode....then go for the Gold. I'm no Doctor; but I'll betcha this helps.
Let us know how it goes...and...

Good Luck!