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robjeremy
07-18-07, 05:53 PM
I love to watch my wife suck my cock, she makes the hottest sounds and has the most awesome looking lips when she is sucking my cock, so much soo that I have a fantasy of watching her suck another mans cock. nothing more than that just watching her suck him off while I watch or do her doggy style.

Am I really out there on this one? or is this a fairly comon fantasy for guys to have about thier wives? It's a fantasy for her to to be filled up from both ends but I feel like we are playing with fire. please help if you have had experience with this in your relationship, was it good or bad?

qkeyboard
07-18-07, 09:10 PM
It seems like this is becoming a more and more normal thing in porn, but I've never heard of it firsthand.

You'd be called a cuckhold or something like that.

Like I've said before, I'd kill the other guy. My girls only felt one (mine) and it's my hopes that it stays that way.

I think the playing with fire statement is accurate. I wouldn't do it; I'd advise you not to unless you're more than certain about it.

robjeremy
07-19-07, 02:14 PM
my ideal fantasy would be to watch her suck another mans cock while a fuck another woman, but she is pretty down on that idea<:(

penguinsfan
08-19-07, 11:52 PM
I think this is relatively rare. Most men take the "I'd kill them" attitude towards it and even here on our internet community where we should feel free to open up considerably, very few men have expressed this desire. I think it's propped up by the porn industry, for whatever reason, but I don't think it's truly what most guys want.

WaterNymph
08-20-07, 08:58 AM
I find it kind of funny, with the mental conflict and all. According to every taken guy (and I guess I should include myself since I'm a bi female?), it's like uber masturbation material! But when it actually comes down to the do-or-don't of it, many men get offended and wouldn't let another guy touch her.

I personally hooked up with a close female friend once (and ultimately took her virginity), while she was still dating her boyfriend. It got me hot thinking about her fucking him during the week, but it gave me like an uber confidence boost knowing that during the coming weekend, it was going to be MY arms and MY bed that she came back running back to (and it helped all the more knowing that he barely got moans while I made her SCREAM! lol)

samzman
08-20-07, 09:13 AM
that was one of the hottest posts i ever read.....lol

penguinsfan
08-20-07, 07:52 PM
I find it kind of funny, with the mental conflict and all. According to every taken guy (and I guess I should include myself since I'm a bi female?), it's like uber masturbation material! But when it actually comes down to the do-or-don't of it, many men get offended and wouldn't let another guy touch her.

I personally hooked up with a close female friend once (and ultimately took her virginity), while she was still dating her boyfriend. It got me hot thinking about her fucking him during the week, but it gave me like an uber confidence boost knowing that during the coming weekend, it was going to be MY arms and MY bed that she came back running back to (and it helped all the more knowing that he barely got moans while I made her SCREAM! lol)

I think it's masturbation material because, on a subconscious level, the man really wants to be the one getting sucked off by someone else's wife, not give up his own wife. Another possibility is that a wife that would venture out in such ways may be likely to bring out the wild-side her husband longs for. There are many men out there with women that won't even let their husband come in their mouth, let alone swallow, let alone take it in their ass, let alone lick their husband's ass. The psychology behind it might be helping her bring out the "slutty" side of herself for lack of a better term. Also, though never as great when you're not doing the honors yourself, it's nice just to watch an attractive women get fucked, suck dick, etc.

And...yes...your post was very hot!

robjeremy
08-21-07, 05:59 AM
RobJeremy I never had the experience you fantasize about or know of anyone that had. What would you do if the tables were turned with a slight twist. Your wife thought it be hot to watch you suck on another man's cock and asked if you would do it for her?


I have not and would not ask her to do anything Homosexual so I don't see why she would aske me to do so either. why do you ask?

WaterNymph
08-21-07, 08:11 AM
lol, Thanks for commenting on the hotness, but that's not really what I was trying to express. What the point was is that I thought it incredibly kinky knowing that she was still sleeping with him, and what made it all ok was that I knew it was ME that she really cared for and wanted to be with. In all honesty, we cared so deeply for each other then that we would have been married if civil unions were valid in our state (and if we weren't underage at the time, lol)
Believe it or not though, she left him about halfway through our relationship. She literally wanted nothing to do with him, sexual or otherwise. When we broke up, it was over a stupid mistake I made and was in no way related to our sex life. So I think that if a couple is thinking about it, and is secure and comfortable in their love for each other, then go for it. It can make a bad relationship worse, but it can also make a good relationship a little more exciting!

neondrvr
08-21-07, 09:49 AM
I also have this same fantasy. I would LOVE to watch my wife suck another man off. WHY I don't know but I would. Or at least I think I would. When it came down to it I may freak out and not like it at all.

robjeremy
08-21-07, 03:32 PM
Thanks for the reply.
Usually I tried to view a situation from various perspectives.

Whether or not she would do lesbian-acts doesn't matter. Their are women (straight/gay/bi) out there that think it be hot a turn-on to watch two guys sucking each other off. This I know from hearing it and actually being asked. It's not my thing, and I know your in a straight marriage. It's my curiosity of what brings about someone's mind-set to think as such a sexual open-mind freak. Meaning, why we go outside of the once standard monogamous hetero-sexual life style, what causes these ways of thinking and acceptations. Are we so numb from the shock and bored it's has become the norm not to think this way? It's almost like if we can have it all, way not just over-indulge ourselves and eat every flavor available because I'm bored with just only having vanilla with some sprinkles.

Your intriged with your fantasy and don't really understand why you are thinking it's so hot to yourself.



If the shoe were really on the other foot she would be asking me to lick another womans pussy while she watches. That would be super hot too

Ninja77
08-25-07, 12:52 PM
I don't have that problem. About 1 1/2 years into my relationship with my wife, she finally came out and told me that she is bisexual. The way she did it was we were in the middle of having sex and she straight out asked me if I ever fantasized about fucking her and another woman at the same time. I thought it might be a trap so I didn't really say anything. She kept bugging me about it until I finally told her YES! She got all excited and now wants to find a long-term g/f for us.

I asked her, just out of curiosity if she had any interest in swinging or anything of the sort, she told me that she would NEVER want to touch another man, she already has a penis, now she wants something she's never had before.

Either way, I'd say to try it out sometime, find another couple so that your jealousy isn't going to be as great as if it were a single male that you might possibly worry about her cheating on you with or something. Open her up to the idea of you doing something with another female while she does something with another male or something. Talk about your fantasies with her as you stated she had a fantasy about being filled up in both ends.

Try miniscule things at first, such as watching her kiss a guy or stroke is member and see if it makes you hot or pissed. If you feel ANY amount of anger or jealousy arising, I would simply stop what you are doing and not look back on it. A lot of couples swing (especially in Las Vegas) maybe it is something that ya'll could possibly be into at some point in your relationship, you never know.rofl

Ninja77
08-25-07, 01:50 PM
I've thought about it, watching her suck her cum off of her dildo turns me on quite a bit, but I dunno how I would feel if it were attached to an actual man, lol. The idea of having another man that close to me in the first place is a turn off....what if he looks me in the eye? BLEH. lol.

chucky2blong
09-16-07, 08:46 AM
I've been trying to reply to this thread since it was originally posted weeks ago. I suspect other members have had trouble signing in as well since the new format went into effect. I just kept trying to sign in until my password was accepted.

Regarding Penguinsfan's post, this is to all of you unmarried guys out there. If you find a woman that will let you cum in their mouth; swallow it; take it in their ass; and lick your ass, you should wait not longer. You need to marry that woman!

Two out of three ain't bad. My wife doesn't have a problem with me cumming in her mouth and swallowing it. We've discussed anal sex, but never tried it (although I'm sure she would be willing if I were really interested). Anal sex has never appealed to me. I'm at the age now where I have regular prostate exams. The doctor (lady doctor of course) has to stick her finger in my ass to examine the prostate. My butt hurts for the rest of the day! I can't imagine anyone getting pleasure out of something being inserted in their ass, but I realize some people do. If that's what turns you on, go for it!

penguinsfan
09-17-07, 05:39 PM
Regarding Penguinsfan's post, this is to all of you unmarried guys out there. If you find a woman that will let you cum in their mouth; swallow it; take it in their ass; and lick your ass, you should wait not longer. You need to marry that woman!

Yes, I've actually stated such...and I'm still single. :)