View Full Version : How To Ejaculate With Force AND Distance...and not just Dribble.
stillwantmore
12-26-03, 11:01 PM
I recently posted on this in another thread and I know it helped several guys who were having a "challenge" in this area.
You kegel, kegel, kegel and kegel some more. Your PC muscles are no doubt much stronger than they used to be. BUT, when you ejaculate, your distance and the force with which your 'cum' exits is no more impressive than before...or if it is, barely so. Like most guys, myself included (until I discovered this on my own), youre missing the boat so to speak.
I could care less about doing kegels until I'm "multi-orgasmic". Supposedly this is a point you reach once you have done so many kegels and developed such a strong PC muscle that you can supposedly completely hold back your ejaculation and stay erect after an orgasm. BIG DEAL...in my book anyway. Besides, if I wanna be multi-orgasmic, I'll just pop 50mg of generic Viagra 30 minutes before.
So, onto the gravy. Like I've said above, simply doing Kegels is NOT enough to increase your ejaculation force and distance. Does not matter how many you do or, how often you do them. What you need to do is learn to practice deliberately flexing your PC muscles IN SYNC with your normal ejaculatory 'spasms'. In other words, instead of just letting your ejaculation happen, you are taking control over the process. I learned to do this with masturbation. When I felt an orgasm approaching, I would begin flexing my PC muscles. Trying to sort of "catch" each spasm with a deliberate flex of my PC. Over the course of a few days to a week you should get the hang of this. Like I said, make it a part of your masturbation ritual. Soon, it will become habit and your ejaculation will no longer just run out or have a couple squirts at the beginning with the rest just running out.
I can now ejaculate literally, several FEET. For a mental visual, imagine pulling out of your partner when you reach orgasm and being able to cum on their face or, past their head from that position without moving .....I can do that!
To add to this method that I also do is when I am Cumming I hold back for about 2 seconds then I release the load and while releasing I punch my PC muscle as hard as I can, during each shot and they fly out like a bat out of hell.
PEkwarg1
12-27-03, 06:47 AM
Yeah like Supra says.
I'm tiring out to fast if you begin to flex when you feel your ejaculation coming. Just wait a second or 2 or when the first load is out.
I was doing this for some time now and i'm very happy with the results. But still i'm quite dissapointed :( I still have to flex that muscle in order to shoot further. It takes quite a great part of my orgasm and joy away :/
REDZULU2003
01-16-04, 08:05 PM
I do summut else.
Build up pressure inside the sperm tubes, kinda like water rushing to get out of a whole in a hose.
The RedZu cannon: ;)
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When you near orgasm, kinda on level 9 of 10 REAL close indeed but not quite; ya know what I mean, just simply perform 2 or 1 HARD quick normal PC flex ''Kegel'' and than torniquet/constrict straight-away with your hand at the base/mid-shaft of your penis, grip TIGHT and reverse kegel repeatadly as fast and hard as you can till you feel that URGE that you have to let go and fire.
Than just perfrom a normal kegel ''PC flex'' HARD and QUICK - as you do this release the grip on the shaft [penis] and ahoy the ammo is fired, goes FUCKING fast and hard too, if you have a weak PC muscle this still goes quick, if ya got a strong one make sure ya dont take the sluts eyes and teeth out ;) you will be AMAZED how poweful this is; but DON'T expect to master it right that, in one session.
Keep practising and you will see its a great tool to know - I always aim for the bitches eyes and blind her rofl
PEkwarg1
01-17-04, 07:39 AM
i hate those reverse kegels :p
i just can't master them, it'll make me piss.
FaTmonkey
01-24-04, 02:36 PM
"...I always aim for the bitches eyes and blind her rofl " lol
horny_boi
02-13-04, 05:35 AM
aim for her eyes.. HAHAHA
DHGroove
03-07-04, 10:57 PM
"...I always aim for the bitches eyes and blind her rofl " lol
ROFL!!!
Thanks for the tip Still, I'll work it in and try it. It still flys good but you can always do better.
howdy guys i hold my breathe at the time of Ejaculation and then inside i push at the sametime to squirt !!!!!!!
BeBobBox
04-19-04, 01:02 AM
try jizzing in their ear itll be an interesting experience
Jamician Joe
04-21-04, 07:44 PM
Hey me Mon's, let me tell ya all, how we in Jamaica shoot our load. Myrtle Jean, has a very loose pussy with lots of power in her thigh muscles, so she squeeze's her pussy and lifts her arse as I push me 8.5" dick all the way in to her wet and warm pussy. I don't cum until she starts to cum. Giving those strong pushups in arse and my thrusting into her depth of her love cavern, I tells her to pump and squeeze me bollocks, real tight then I does a couple of what ya calls kegels, and force me cup full of cum into her love nest.
Now Ya going to ask, How do I know it's a cup full? course I measured it, Me brover and me we had a Cum competition and he won, he can cum about a cup and half.
I tell ya me Mon when ya shoot a cupful into a birds mouth it runs out of her gob and down her jaw and into her neck. Nice sight, turns me on.
BeBobBox
04-21-04, 09:48 PM
damn thats alot - nice job lol
Im2mackin
05-07-04, 12:35 AM
Yep thats alot....ALOT OF BULLSHIT 1 cup come on who do you think you are the Black version of Peter North...lol
crunkin247
05-07-04, 12:45 AM
Actually orgasming without ejaculating is the shit! If you are in a meditative state of mind you can experience an entirely different kind of orgasm- you can feel it through your whole body and in your brain, and it can last for minutes...and you never lose your erection afterwards, not to mention the fact you never have to waste your sexual energy ejaculating- it just gets cycled through your body.
ReddFreakman
05-10-04, 08:09 PM
Hello, I just read this article,and it was very informative; however...What are the PC muscles? So I have an idea of what I am doing. THX
ReddFreakman
05-10-04, 08:11 PM
What are the PC muscles? Reddfreakman
I recently posted on this in another thread and I know it helped several guys who were having a "challenge" in this area.
You kegel, kegel, kegel and kegel some more. Your PC muscles are no doubt much stronger than they used to be. BUT, when you ejaculate, your distance and the force with which your 'cum' exits is no more impressive than before...or if it is, barely so. Like most guys, myself included (until I discovered this on my own), youre missing the boat so to speak.
I could care less about doing kegels until I'm "multi-orgasmic". Supposedly this is a point you reach once you have done so many kegels and developed such a strong PC muscle that you can supposedly completely hold back your ejaculation and stay erect after an orgasm. BIG DEAL...in my book anyway. Besides, if I wanna be multi-orgasmic, I'll just pop 50mg of generic Viagra 30 minutes before.
So, onto the gravy. Like I've said above, simply doing Kegels is NOT enough to increase your ejaculation force and distance. Does not matter how many you do or, how often you do them. What you need to do is learn to practice deliberately flexing your PC muscles IN SYNC with your normal ejaculatory 'spasms'. In other words, instead of just letting your ejaculation happen, you are taking control over the process. I learned to do this with masturbation. When I felt an orgasm approaching, I would begin flexing my PC muscles. Trying to sort of "catch" each spasm with a deliberate flex of my PC. Over the course of a few days to a week you should get the hang of this. Like I said, make it a part of your masturbation ritual. Soon, it will become habit and your ejaculation will no longer just run out or have a couple squirts at the beginning with the rest just running out.
I can now ejaculate literally, several FEET. For a mental visual, imagine pulling out of your partner when you reach orgasm and being able to cum on their face or, past their head from that position without moving .....I can do that!
FleshJoe
05-18-04, 12:51 PM
I think I have pretty good control over my PC muscle, I am able to stop ejaculations if I *really* want to, but still that does not help me shoot harder. One thing I found is that ejaculation during intercourse or during using a sleeve or other intercourse simulator such as FleshLight is a lot harder than ejaculation "by hand". Anyone else found this?
FleshJoe
The Flesh Files (http://www.fleshjoe.com/fleshfiles/)
bigman808
06-03-04, 10:28 PM
A cup, Jamaican Joe? Dear god man, thats nuts...do you mean like a drinking cup or like a cup of tea? lol
Ulcasterdropout
06-04-04, 02:27 AM
Yeah, now I hit my keyboard. No more PC's for me.
oopapercutoo
06-12-04, 12:02 PM
Wow...that is perhaps the most disturbing post I've read in quite some time...
dopefish
06-12-04, 03:23 PM
Wow...that is perhaps the most disturbing post I've read in quite some time...
I'm with papercut... That's just off!!!
stiff4ever4u
06-12-04, 04:18 PM
Holy crazy sick shit, Batman!!!!!!!!!
georginho
07-09-04, 12:44 PM
Yeah like that cum would be grose after about 2 weeks of being in there, lol
integrity
08-13-04, 12:43 AM
I just wanted to add that being able to stop your ejaculation doesn't automatically make you multi-orgasmic. I've been doing PC exercises for a long time now and my muscles are strong enough that I can completely hold back my ejaculation (it's pretty hard and I have to concentrate, but I can do it). However, my erection still goes down a little and if I continue to stimulate myself, I'll start to have another orgasm within ten seconds or so. Again, I can stop myself from ejaculating, but every time it happens, my erection gets weaker. As it stands (no pun intended), I can't hold back my ejaculation and still retain my erection strength. I think the key is learning to differentiate between ejaculation and orgasm; they don't necessarily have to happen at the same time.
kc_showman
08-14-04, 02:04 PM
Kind of an off-topic question, but I've noticed something related to this. I have to be careful -not- to kegel or squeeze or whatever, because sure as I do, my cock does this *throb* thing once, then quickly begins to wilt, just like if the blood supply was suddenly rerouted or cut off completely. It doesn't have any effect on distance or amount, either. Seems the only way I can build up a good 'shot' is if I hold off any ejaculation for at least three days. I think I'm out of shape. Anyone with similar problems or solutions? Thanks.
aqua8lung
09-24-04, 12:31 AM
Hey, you want to push out a big load, try MACA .....you will be comming like a champ...just try it for 2 weeks...you will never give it up...trust me...
a true MACA LOVER.....
tradeguy
10-17-04, 11:27 PM
i usually have to wait a couple days before i can get off a good shot. sometimes my first one will be a decent shot but after that it just kinda dribbles, but if i wait a couple days i'll get a real good shot off, and then dribble for all subsequent shots.
pinprick
11-02-04, 11:13 PM
Sorry.... what's MACA? did I miss something?
All good info guys. Thanks.
mrdstone
02-14-05, 10:24 AM
Ups, sorry for this post. Finally, it has happened to me - there is something that I am really good at: shooting !!!! You guys got bigger dicks, better PC's, better everything. But I can shoot out a candle from 6 Feet away. This really gets me motivated since I finally don't score last place in everything :-).
Once again, sorry for this post.
Captain Kirk
02-23-05, 01:39 PM
Um, what's a *REVERSE* Kegel? I know what a kegel is but what's a reverse kegel?
Been doing kegels for 6 motnhs and don't quite know how the "shoot" it out with the PC muscle, so thanks for the posts guys, I'll try some of this out.
twins172_up
02-23-05, 01:45 PM
Ups, sorry for this post. Finally, it has happened to me - there is something that I am really good at: shooting !!!! You guys got bigger dicks, better PC's, better everything. But I can shoot out a candle from 6 Feet away. This really gets me motivated since I finally don't score last place in everything :-).
Once again, sorry for this post.
why are you apologizing....that is good for you...i wish i could shoot 6 feet..hell i'll take 3...
Um, what's a *REVERSE* Kegel? I know what a kegel is but what's a reverse kegel?
well i guess like the name says it is the opposite of a kegel...instead of pulling in...you are pushing out...like when you push your pee flow to come out faster and harder...that is a reverse kegel...do a search and put in reverse kegel....you find a lot of info on it
Captain Kirk
02-23-05, 01:53 PM
Thanks Twin. :)
Simply Amazing
02-23-05, 04:55 PM
Kegels are very important.
I didn't really use to ejaculate real far or anything.
Read this thread yesterday evening and decided to try this after all of my exercises.
Right when you know that you are about to ejaculate squeeze your pc muscle, basically doing a kegel and you should go a nice distance.
I was amazed because i went close to 2.5 - 3 feet a few times.
If you don't go this far just keep on doing kegel exercises and you will be there trust me. Good luck to everyone with gains on this board!
stillwantmore
02-23-05, 10:42 PM
Its not just about the kegels though. Guys are still not really getting the gist of this. It's all about learning to get your kegels in sync with your natural ejaculatory spasms.
twins172_up
03-02-05, 11:41 AM
i tried to reverse kegel during sex...to prolong my ejacualtion...but i can't get the hang of it...when i reverse kegel...i push out and stop breathing...i can't hold it for long at all...do anyone have any advice
dfurs660
11-01-05, 08:03 PM
Well, as the other guy before me, sorry for a huge bump, but it's relevant.
I've never shot far at all - in fact, I've always dribbled, no exceptions. Basically, the trick is holding it in with a PC flex and then releasing? I've tried to hold with a Kegel, and it just comes out faster and just as dribbly... am I doing something wrong? I think I've got a pretty strong PC muscle, I can do about three hundred kegels without getting tired but... just can't get it right. I'm really getting sick of my lack of distance. :(
joey_styles
11-29-05, 10:37 AM
integrity
Whats up I had the same problem so what i did was bought a "kegelmaster2000"
its intence see you insert this thing in your butt, (get use to it) kegel on its spring tention. i do about 300 a night and I can shoot 4 or 5 feet plus it really helps me delay cummin. until i want to, then i feel about 6 to 9 contractons more sperm produced and my balls are bigger. ** tip it giave me hell of girth with power jelqing***
p.s. not selling it just trying to help the young players
joey_styles : erect:8.75 girth:6.5 i have been PEing for a year!
www.kegelmaster2000.com
goldmember
11-29-05, 01:21 PM
integrity
Whats up I had the same problem so what i did was bought a "kegelmaster2000"
its intence see you insert this thing in your butt, (get use to it) kegel on its spring tention. i do about 300 a night and I can shoot 4 or 5 feet plus it really helps me delay cummin. until i want to, then i feel about 6 to 9 contractons more sperm produced and my balls are bigger. ** tip it giave me hell of girth with power jelqing***
p.s. not selling it just trying to help the young players
joey_styles : erect:8.75 girth:6.5 i have been PEing for a year!
www.kegelmaster2000.com
Isn't there a much easier way of adding resitance, without having to insert a device in your arse and pay $100 to do so? Try this: get a washcloth, handtowel or (if you are really advanced) a bath towel. Get a full erection, unless you stand completely upright, then go about 90%. Drape the cloth over your erection, and VOILA! Instant resistance to the KEGEL. I also agree with SWM about in sync spurts...it worked for me, just not to the same extent. I am gonna give the REDZU CANNON technique a try as well.
dfurs660
11-29-05, 02:33 PM
Is it bad that I can literally do an unlimited amount of Kegels? I mean, I still weakly shoot, so something is telling me that I do it wrong. I can hold it basically until I get bored, and I can do pretty much an unlimited amount. Perhaps I'm simply not doing the right thing?
going4nine
11-29-05, 02:42 PM
Is it bad that I can literally do an unlimited amount of Kegels? I mean, I still weakly shoot, so something is telling me that I do it wrong. I can hold it basically until I get bored, and I can do pretty much an unlimited amount. Perhaps I'm simply not doing the right thing?
Are you sure you're flexing your PC muscle and not your anal sphincter?
dfurs660
11-29-05, 04:16 PM
Positive. I see the penis go down every time I do it, and it's the exact same muscle I use to stop urine flow. I try to take care not to flex the anal sphincter.
dfurs660
11-29-05, 05:01 PM
Hmmm, I seem to get tired after about five hundred very hard Kegels, but I still can't see why I can't shoot it. Am I just not timing it right?
This is so complex for something that seems to come so easily to so many men. :(
going4nine
11-29-05, 05:22 PM
Hmmm, I seem to get tired after about five hundred very hard Kegels, but I still can't see why I can't shoot it. Am I just not timing it right?
This is so complex for something that seems to come so easily to so many men. :(
If I were you, I'd try two things. First, do fewer repetitions, but have each repetition last longer. In other words, hold each kegal for, say, five or ten seconds and clench as hard as you can.
Second, add resistance. Get a damp hand towel, now lay on your back and work up an erection. Now, with your penis pointed toward your face, put the towel on it. Do a kegal to lift the towel as far as you can, and for as long as you can.
dfurs660
11-29-05, 06:48 PM
Wow. The workout I had today (as I said above) left a slight burning for about fifteen minutes. I took a nap and when I woke up, the burning was gone. I tried some hard PC squeezes and that I could do them much harder than before, and it literally only took a few Kegels to make me fully hard, which doesn't happen, period. Was it just me Kegeling too soft before? I was actually so hard that I had to reverse Kegel for about ten seconds because it slightly hurt.
Any chance of atrophy in the PC, by the way?
I apologize for being so graphic in this thread.
Let me tell you a story about a woman I know.. when it comes to lovin ooh she steals the show...
Okay, about last night and the week before:
Last night I had sex with the wife of 21 years. (I'm crazy about her and she's seriously good looking still) After we were done and she came back from the bathroom, she said that I came an unbelievable amount. And then she commented how much was in the bed versus the amount in the toilet. Next, the comment of how she felt me throbbing as I was cumming inside her.
Well, most of you know I've been jelqing twice per day for about a week, following Uli's old routine. I've also been doing daily kegels but holding them for 5 sets of 2 minutes each, then a couple sets of 3 minutes, then 1 set of 4 minutes...this has been going on for a week. Before that my kegel workouts were hit and miss at best. And yesterday I jeld one kegel for 6 minutes straight.
But 2 nights ago I desided to mix it up a little and did numerous sets of 25 reps for 1 second pumps, then 2 second pumps, then 3 second pyramid pumps, then 25 reverse kegel pyramid pumps.
Here's the funny part. I have had sex 3 times in four nights this week which is freaky for me since I'm 42 and quit doing that stuff about 3 years ago. Well, the first two times we had sex this week my orgasms were weird...when I was cumming nothing would physically come out and then after a noticeable delay, I would ejaculate a very nice volume. But last night was the motherload of cum sessions the night after I had performed all of those pumping style kegels.
I personally think there's a moral to this story and I shall seek further clarification.
dfurs660
12-03-05, 11:24 AM
Okay, guys... half of the time that I masturbate, the spasm that sends out the ejaculation is so weak that it hardly even happens at all, and I definitely don't feel it much.
How can I make this spasm stronger? Sometimes it's stronger, sometimes it's really weak... what's up with that? Just another case of needing Kegels?
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