LambdaCalc
02-06-04, 06:00 PM
I've been dating a girl for a little over a month now and we're both falling for each other. We met last year, after she had broken up with a guy she had been dating for about three years. We dated for about month last year, then she got reeled back into the ex. That didn't last very long, maybe a couple of weeks, but I didn't want to have anything to do with her. I would see her out, but I wouldn't speak to her.
The summer rolls by...
I start hearing from every direction that she regrets what she did. Still not interested. I get cornered by some of her friends and they beg me to just talk to her, they tell how much she regrets ditching me blah, blah, blah...I get drunk one night and decide to talk to her. I'm being an asshole to her, and she is appologetic...but the two of us just seem to click and I go home with her. I'm still bitter and won't let go of my pride, so I don't call her. A couple months go by and I do the same thing. Then ,once again, I hear from everywhere that she really likes me, would do anything to make it up to me...she corners my best friend one night and the next day he corners me, and he is like 'Dude, you really need to call her, I talked to her for a long time and...'
So, I swallow my pride and take her out. Everything is great, we click like magic...She's a very straight forward, honest girl, so she fills me in on a few things because she wanted me to find out from her and not from someone else. During the time I was being a dick to her, not speaking to her..., she had been sleeping with one of my friends. Which really pissed me off at first, but in reality I wan't giving her the time of day and nothing was going to happen between us. I looked over that.
Which brings us to now. We went out last night, had a few drinks and were having a really good time. Go back to her place, and somehow the conversation leads to me asking if she had slept with anyone else, which leads to me finding out that she had slept with two other guys that I know(not friends but would speak to them at the bar for a minute).
This is bothering the hell out of me. If I had known this before I wouldn't have thought about trying things out with her again. But, the situation is that she really hasn't done anything wrong, and we are really good together.
I could go on a little bit more, but I think I've rambled long enough. As it stands, what she's done would have never had happened if I hadn't messed with her head. Am I being silly for stressing about this?
The summer rolls by...
I start hearing from every direction that she regrets what she did. Still not interested. I get cornered by some of her friends and they beg me to just talk to her, they tell how much she regrets ditching me blah, blah, blah...I get drunk one night and decide to talk to her. I'm being an asshole to her, and she is appologetic...but the two of us just seem to click and I go home with her. I'm still bitter and won't let go of my pride, so I don't call her. A couple months go by and I do the same thing. Then ,once again, I hear from everywhere that she really likes me, would do anything to make it up to me...she corners my best friend one night and the next day he corners me, and he is like 'Dude, you really need to call her, I talked to her for a long time and...'
So, I swallow my pride and take her out. Everything is great, we click like magic...She's a very straight forward, honest girl, so she fills me in on a few things because she wanted me to find out from her and not from someone else. During the time I was being a dick to her, not speaking to her..., she had been sleeping with one of my friends. Which really pissed me off at first, but in reality I wan't giving her the time of day and nothing was going to happen between us. I looked over that.
Which brings us to now. We went out last night, had a few drinks and were having a really good time. Go back to her place, and somehow the conversation leads to me asking if she had slept with anyone else, which leads to me finding out that she had slept with two other guys that I know(not friends but would speak to them at the bar for a minute).
This is bothering the hell out of me. If I had known this before I wouldn't have thought about trying things out with her again. But, the situation is that she really hasn't done anything wrong, and we are really good together.
I could go on a little bit more, but I think I've rambled long enough. As it stands, what she's done would have never had happened if I hadn't messed with her head. Am I being silly for stressing about this?