Getting qualities in a woman you want

[craig98366]

Guys, I just got out of a relationship with a woman who well let's say didn't have everything I wanted in a woman. She wasn't very open-minded and the sex got kinda boring. I am not anxious to enter another relationship at this time but when I do, I want to get the woman who has what I really want.

Let me first explain that I'm bisexual and would like my next girlfriend (whenever I might be ready for one) to be accepting of that characteristic about me. In the past, I have never divulged that information for fear, but am committed to it next time. Also, I am interested in a woman who is willing to swing with other couples and participate in anal sex. Am I asking too much here?

Anyways, how should I handle this in the dating process in order to "weed out" those who don't fit the bill? I'm thinking I should get my sexuality out in the open when the subject of sex comes around. But how do I handle the swinging and anal sex?

Please share your thoughts and suggestions and help a guy get what he really wants in a woman.

[Spektrum]

You're definitly not asking too much. You might want to try adult friendfinder or a similar service. These women are usually freaks, but I don't think most are looking for a relationship.

It does kind of suck getting involved with a woman, just to find out she's white sheet. I've always throught every woman was a freak at heart and you've just gotta bring it out in them. good luck!

[philadelph]

In my opinion, most of the women you would find that would be into this kind of thing, along with accepting your bi-sexuality, would not be a stable person that you would really want to have a long-term relationship with.

[Gandolf]

I agree about being open from the get-go about your sexuality and desires, but I don't think you can be in any kind of relationship and "swing" with other couples (this is just MY opinion), but hey, you want what you want. Never settle for less. And I would try the adultservice that was recommended by philadelph, you can weed out people quickly with a tool like that.