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Bigd5903
04-02-04, 01:14 PM
My girlfriend didnt want to have sex anymore and it's been 8 months and now she says shes been thinkin about it a lot. I havent told her about Penis Enlargement and I'll let you guys know what she thinks of my 1.5 inch gains hehehehehehe. I'm excited!!! I can't beleive it's been 8 freaking months.

Dario
04-02-04, 01:23 PM
Awesome man...yeah, let us know what she says!

levista
04-02-04, 03:17 PM
Holy crap! Can you elaborate on that "didnt want sex" comment? What was she thinking? Thats pretty unusual....

Anyway man, if she's thinking about it a lot, being a chick she's likely missing the intimacy twice as much as the cock thrusting, so go slow and tender for a while before you let her climb on top of your flagpole :)

Bigd5903
04-02-04, 03:45 PM
haha yea i know she's missing the intimacy. I am too more than anything. It's been kinda dull for a while and I think she finally realized how much it killed me inside when she wanted to stop. She wanted to stop cuz of religious reasons but i guess shes had enough.

levista
04-02-04, 04:12 PM
ah religious reasons that certainly explains it!

philadelph
04-02-04, 08:06 PM
I have been in your situation before. Exact same deal. But if I had been doing Penis Enlargement it would have been easier to abstain.

levista
04-02-04, 08:32 PM
I have been in your situation before. Exact same deal. But if I had been doing Penis Enlargement it would have been easier to abstain.

Can i ask how the relationship worked out in the end? And i'm the opposite i am finding Penis Enlargement makes me want to "get some", all that time focusing on my penis increases my own desire.

Unknown_One__
04-02-04, 08:43 PM
8 months? pshaw... I've gone 3 years.

Bigd5903
04-02-04, 11:20 PM
It wouldnt be as bad if I didnt see her every day!

MValley70
04-03-04, 12:25 AM
8 months?.....3 years?......try 20 years beotch!!!

MultiMan
04-03-04, 08:57 AM
Jesus I'm in the same situation. My gf wanted to stop about 3 weeks ago. I am dying. I don't get it. I hope this doesn't last 8 months haha. I can live and I love her alot but this sucks. And yesturday she was like I want your dick inside me. And I was like are you gonna get on bc? And she was like I don't know

Bigd5903
04-03-04, 09:12 AM
Jesus I'm in the same situation. My gf wanted to stop about 3 weeks ago. I am dying. I don't get it. I hope this doesn't last 8 months haha. I can live and I love her alot but this sucks. And yesturday she was like I want your dick inside me. And I was like are you gonna get on bc? And she was like I don't know
Well you're situation sounds better than mine cuz she stopped cold and didnt even talk about it til recently.

And to everyone else, I'm not trying to compare with how long everyone has gone without it. This was mainly to see what she thinks of my gains that she doesn't know about and tell everyone the results. It make be a week or two before we finally get together because her aunt and uncle are living at her house until they move into their new house in a week or 2 and my mom works nights and dad works days so I always got someone home here. I think shes gettin ancy too so we may just got park at the beach or somethin and do it in the car haha. We've done that before. Ah memories...

philadelph
04-03-04, 10:08 AM
Well my girlfriend was feeling self-conscious about herself and has a very poor self image. I don't know why because she was beautiful and everyone thinks so. She thought that if we stopped sex she would be able to get a better image of herself so I agreed. She also wanted to stop because of religious reasons. But every once in a while we would be fooling around and she would really want it in her so we would end up just doing it, also with no protection or birth control. She stopped birth control when she thought she wanted to stop, and she thinks she is allergic to condoms (virgin before I met her so not worried in that department). We never really could give it up. Now I am back with her and she wants to abstain again but I am more ok with it because of Penis Enlargement and I want to surprise her when we have sex again.

Bigd5903
04-03-04, 07:05 PM
I never got to fool aorund <:( When she said no sex that mean nothing sexual at all. She wouldnt even let me see her naked. I forgot what she looks like. That's why I'm so anxious right now.

levista
04-03-04, 07:17 PM
She stopped birth control when she thought she wanted to stop, and she thinks she is allergic to condoms

Some chicks are. Just use a different type of condom, damned if i can remember the details but one of my exe's thought she was. I *think* you need the non-lubricated ones or something like that.

With chicks though, they get yeast infections very easy, its a warm, damp and moist place, a veritable breeding ground. Really common, but chicks dont rush to get looked at by a doc so they assume they are allergic.

Anyway, be safe man!

philadelph
04-03-04, 07:17 PM
Well its going to be so awesome when you finally get to do it! I would love to surprise my girlfriend with big gains. Even though we don't have sex she insists on giving me head once every couple days, so she may not notice the gains.

levista
04-03-04, 07:19 PM
I never got to fool aorund <:( When she said no sex that mean nothing sexual at all. She wouldnt even let me see her naked. I forgot what she looks like. That's why I'm so anxious right now.

Rock and Roll man, this is going to be like all your birthdays come at once then :) :) :) Nothing to be anxious about mate, she is your girl and you are in a stable relationship, i'm sure there's nothing that can't be worked out!

levista
04-03-04, 07:20 PM
she insists on giving me head once every couple days,

Marry that girl quick! LOL

MultiMan
04-03-04, 07:52 PM
hey phila she is probably gonna notice. giving head is the main way girls compare sizes of their boyfriends. has to do with comparing how much penis sticks out of the hadn and where their fingers meet around the penis. they are real accurate. sick. lol

Bigd5903
04-03-04, 09:03 PM
By anxious I meant i can't wait, I'm goin nuts over here!

Hey Philadeph have you tried polyurethane condoms like trojan supra(supra's special condom lol) there are some other brands too but i cant think of em

www.ripnroll.com has condoms for cheap and discrete free shipping. thats where i get em well used to anyways.

levista
04-03-04, 09:22 PM
By anxious I meant i can't wait, I'm goin nuts over here!



Ah, then we have to ask the question, do you want to take the approach from "theres something about mary" and blow your load yourself beforehand to ensure when it comes down to it you can manage a respectable time after a loooong layoff? =p

Bigd5903
04-03-04, 09:32 PM
I don't have any problems with time. I never did really. Actually the first few times I couldnt cum. I've been practicing the reverse kegal thing while wackin off and now I have almost complete control if i wanted postpone having an orgasm.

Bigd5903
04-05-04, 08:09 PM
DAMMIT!!!!!!!! She doesn't think she wants to anymore. I sick of getting midn fucked. ahhhhhhhh . im in a bad mood now. Ill probably get my freakin mood swings abck again. Ill get back to ya guys if anything changes.

kc_showman
04-09-04, 12:38 PM
What a situation.

If she keeps waffling, remind her that you've got no problem respecting her wishes, as long as she respects the fact that you don't like being told one thing then getting your hopes casually dashed. And that you're entitled to change your mind as fast and as often as she is. Teasing is one thing, but psychological cruelty's another altogether.

levista
04-09-04, 01:11 PM
What a situation.

If she keeps waffling, remind her that you've got no problem respecting her wishes, as long as she respects the fact that you don't like being told one thing then getting your hopes casually dashed. And that you're entitled to change your mind as fast and as often as she is. Teasing is one thing, but psychological cruelty's another altogether.

EXCELLENT point by showman!

Bigd5903
04-09-04, 01:56 PM
Hey thanx man. I was tryin to think of something to say along those lines but I coudlnt think of how to put it. I'm gonna see her tonight so Ill bring it up. Our relationship hasn't been the same since we stopped. She's afraid that I might leave some day and it would have all been for nothing. I've been seriously thinking about breaking up if this doesn't get worked out because I can't feel for her at the level I did before we stopped. Whenever I'm alone with her I get depressed because all I can think about was how it used to be. I feel ashamed that I've been thinking like this but I dunno. I'll see what happens.

levista
04-09-04, 02:02 PM
She's afraid that I might leave some day and it would have all been for nothing.

A) Shes about to loose you because of this anyway

and

B) Check out the flipside of that coin man. You abstain from sex with her for say another year, then maybe you two fall out, or she meets another guy. Thats a long time of sexual activity to waste.

I'm not trying to bum you out, just trying to help you see you need to get this sorted. If in doubt, talk about all this with her, maybe she doesnt see your side...?

Bigd5903
04-11-04, 11:49 AM
I didnt get a chance to talk to her alone yet. The sad thing is, I don't think I want to have sex with ehr anymore now. She just totally killed my drive. I think I need to get out of this. I'll give it a month, then school will be out. She's in a few of my classes so that wouldnt be too good to end it now. I'll see if anythign changes although I doubt it will. Thanks guys for helpin me out.

BeBobBox
04-12-04, 02:16 AM
8 years?! 20 years?!?! HOLY SHIT - how can you go that long without sex??????

levista
04-12-04, 08:30 AM
8 years?! 20 years?!?! HOLY SHIT - how can you go that long without sex??????

I cant speak for anyone else but I've often strangely felt that after a lengthy period without sex my sex drive diminishes a lot (though it never goes away totally and still tortures the living shit out of me sometimes) whereas when I am dating someone my sex drive increases steadily through the first few months.
Dunno, maybe the body just adapts?