Horrible realisations

[Virgin_age_29]

I'm 29. I started fantasizing about naked ladies at the age of 12 in 1994. I remember exactly where I was when I started thinking like this- the back of my parent's car on a hot summer day. I naively thought that some day soon I might actually get to see one up close in reality. :s

It's now 2011. I still haven't come into close proximity with a naked woman. There must be people out there conceived by people younger than me that have already had sex. <:(

[bapify2]

Hey man don't let it get you down. My advice and one thing my friend did was get an escort. Once he got that out of the way, he felt more confident. You need to do whatever you can to just make physical contact with women ie: strip clubs, escorts, massage parlors, dance clubs. That way when you meet the girl of your dreams, you'll be ready. You won't even be thinking "but I'm still a virgin." I know what you're saying dude I wanna lose it to the right girl, what if it makes me look like a loser, but trust me that's not the way to go. The only way people get over their phobia is by exposing themselves to their fears. Just think of it this way in the good ole days, fathers used to take their sons to go lose their virginity, as a coming of age gift.

[doublelongdaddy]

We are most attracted to what we first perceived as erotic. At 12 years old most boys are finding attraction in other 12 year olds. We never really lose this attraction and that is completely normal.

[Zukini]

Hey man don't let it get you down. My advice and one thing my friend did was get an escort. Once he got that out of the way, he felt more confident. You need to do whatever you can to just make physical contact with women ie: strip clubs, escorts, massage parlors, dance clubs. That way when you meet the girl of your dreams, you'll be ready. You won't even be thinking "but I'm still a virgin." I know what you're saying dude I wanna lose it to the right girl, what if it makes me look like a loser, but trust me that's not the way to go. The only way people get over their phobia is by exposing themselves to their fears. Just think of it this way in the good ole days, fathers used to take their sons to go lose their virginity, as a coming of age gift.


I gotta say I disagree with this completley just cos the person you share sex with is special. You can also save yourself allot of heartache and not to mention spreading of STD's, you know you can get herpes in your moth and even eyes!? Just by touching someone infected dont forget about countless other diseases people carry you never know what some whoe at a club is carrying around but that could be just me. Besides I really wana know what making love feels like one day.

And DLD I really like your response.

[Crazy Doc]

We are most attracted to what we first perceived as erotic. At 12 years old most boys are finding attraction in other 12 year olds. We never really lose this attraction and that is completely normal.

Mike's shmokin' the good stuff again...

[Crazy Doc]

@ Virgin: Hey, I'm 38 and still a complete moron-we all have our tribulations. At least yours does have a quick fix :)

Perhaps you could expand on the problem-are you just afraid of women? Are you a hermit? What do you think the root of the problem is? Let's discuss it-you'll get better perspectives if you give us more info on who you are, and what your weaknesses and strengths are.