My problem with lasting.

[MultiMan]

My story is.. the first time I had sex I lasted 4 hours (I was drunk). THen got a gf and I always had huge pre ejac problems, but not always... sometimes I could last as long as I wanted and do whatever I want. Over break did another girl as we broke up and I lasted awesomely once and the other 2 times lasted pretty shitty.

Get back from xmas break, do the girl and last 4 hours (drunk). After this we have sex for like 3 months and I have no problems lasting. Now I am having problems again.


My problem is that the area below my head facing away from my body seems to get ultra sensitive sometimes and makes me pre ejac. I am wondering how to desensitize it. When it is not sensitive I can fuck hard and fast for as long as I want and not cum. To make myself cum I have to concentrate and fuck hard and fast to do it. This is my goal and what I have already done before.

This random sensitivity problem on the area (once again) below the head and facing away from my body seems to turn on and off at random intervals.

When I am drunk I always last.. but one time I had the same problem.


Maybe a lot of this is in my mind but I am not sure. I have lasted when both drunk and sober perfectly with 110% control. But sometimes I just get ultra sensitive. Please help me out.

[kong1971]

I can last as long as I want if I stroke slow and deep, but the jackhammer fucking makes me spurt in minutes. Foreskin Restoration is helping with it, though you would think the extra sensitivity would make it worse.

[MultiMan]

I have found that doing horse 440's takes away the sensitivity and puts me in my mode where I can last forever and fuck as long and hard as I want.

[MCTFB]

DLD mentioned how he deals with this in another thread (forget which) that talked about edging if I remember correctly.

So, he said to reverse kegel as you are about to cum and then you can stop from cumming and I didn't understand what he meant because once I hit the point of no return all reverse-kegeling seemed to do was shoot all my cum out like an open faucet. Usually, you shoot it out, but when I reverse kegel it comes out like piss which is weird.

Anyways, for whatever reason I figured his method didn't work for me until I read a few other threads here about just relaxing your PC muscle and when you reverse kegel you cannot tense you PC muscle so I put two and two together and figured I must have misunderstood what DLD was saying.

So now, if I reverse kegel before the point of no return, I can last as long as I want and then if I want to cum fast I kegel lightly but rapidly, or if I go past the point of no return I can try kegeling really hard to dry cum but I am still no expert at that even after 7 months of PE.

But yah being able to hold a reverse kegel while thrusting BEFORE YOU HIT THE POINT OF NO RETURN seems to do the job for me. Maybe DLD can chime in here, but in 20/20 hindsight I think I just misunderstood what he was saying and if you reverse kegel before the point of no return then you should be OK.

[MultiMan]

I appreciate it. Also.. it seems any PE that results in some "trauma" to the head of the penis takes away all ultrasensitivity so u can fuck hard and fast and not cum. I get to the point where I find it almost impossible to cum.. but when it finally happens its awesome.