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UpgradingUnit
05-29-04, 09:25 PM
Ok, recently my gf complains that every time we get down and dirty, I take too long to cum.

She says that its great for her at the evenings (1-2hrs/episode), but in between classes and when schedules are tight, she wants a quickie.

Because of my Penis Enlargement ventures the past 2 years i have been desensitized (not loss of sensitivity) to penile stimulation somewhat.

How can I re-induce pre-ejac or something like it (10 to 20 minute episodes is what I want).

I think its gotta be mental, but may be physical.....i can get off in like 1 or 2 minutes if I masturbate, but with sex.....im in for the long haul.

Help!

cyinisis
05-30-04, 01:54 AM
Masturbate, a lot, and focus on cumming as quickly as possible.

And while you have sex, focus on your own pleasure, and focus on cumming in an instant.

:)

CYiNiSiS

penguinsfan
05-30-04, 02:22 AM
Yeah, the best thing I can tell you is to focus on cumming. Most guys try to think of anything else, in order to avoid pre-mat-ejac, so take the opposite approach. As soon as you're in her shift all thoughts to spunking ASAP.

kong1971
05-30-04, 02:31 AM
Haha! I'm lucky. I just naturally cum too quick....err, hey, wait! You guys tricked me with that one!

penguinsfan
05-30-04, 08:44 PM
Haha! I'm lucky. I just naturally cum too quick....err, hey, wait! You guys tricked me with that one!

You lucky bastard, you! lol

Zurik
05-30-04, 11:37 PM
Hold a Kegel all the time.

9cyclops9
05-30-04, 11:53 PM
I agree. Hold a kegel as hard as you can.

9cyclops9
05-31-04, 12:14 AM
Bah! I forgot to put the disclaimer! Crap! (pun intended)

Nah nah nah. Not reverse kegel. Kegel kegel.

BeBobBox
05-31-04, 02:10 AM
Thanks a lot 9! >:( I just tried that sitting here in my nice leather computer chair with my mesh workout shorts on and I just fucking shit all over the place! I guess I used the wrong muscle, now I have to throw this fucking chair out as it smells like fucking shit and have to stand while I type. I hope you are happy buddy, real happy!

dude im sitting in my nice leather computer chair with mesh workout shorts on too. what a coincidence

Tezta
05-31-04, 08:59 AM
try anal sex?

dopefish
05-31-04, 09:20 AM
Ok, recently my gf complains that every time we get down and dirty, I take too long to cum.

She says that its great for her at the evenings (1-2hrs/episode), but in between classes and when schedules are tight, she wants a quickie.

Because of my Penis Enlargement ventures the past 2 years i have been desensitized (not loss of sensitivity) to penile stimulation somewhat.

How can I re-induce pre-ejac or something like it (10 to 20 minute episodes is what I want).

I think its gotta be mental, but may be physical.....i can get off in like 1 or 2 minutes if I masturbate, but with sex.....im in for the long haul.

Help!
LOL i used to have the same problem! (Although it wasn't between classes, sometimes the GF just wanted a quickie).

Anyway, generally i would just do my best to get her off and then finish the job myself later on if i felt the urge... Wish i'd known about kegals earlier :D

penguinsfan
05-31-04, 05:04 PM
Kegels are supposed to help you last longer, not finish quicker, correct? You have to excuse my ignorance here. I really don't kegel like I should in my routines and have not been sexually active since beginning my Penis Enlargement a few months ago.

fallen_one23
05-31-04, 05:26 PM
I've also always had the "problem" of lasting too long in bed, I just don't know why, I think I might've masturbated too much when i was growing up and lost some sensitivity, but I'll try cumming as quick as i can when masturbating now.

DiGenius
05-31-04, 06:59 PM
I wish I had you guys problems.....

Royce
05-27-06, 06:32 PM
Actually i was never able to cum iside a vagina, i last forever there.

arkie
06-22-06, 10:32 PM
I am glad to see some other guys are having the same "problem". My girl compains sometimes about the same thing. Sometimes she wants a quicky, and sometimes I do too... but, quickie doesnt seem to be in the little guy's vocabulary. I have always wanted to be able to grab her in a room, go at it, and get back to the party or Thanksgiving dinner (lol) or whatever... just doesnt happen...

Royce
06-23-06, 01:23 PM
Ive fucked the other day with water based lub, no condom(shes on pills) and thrusted as fast as i could, so this day i cummed real fast , less then 5 minutes.

So now i know i can cum fast in with these ideal conditions!

German Stallion
06-23-06, 01:33 PM
So, think of her, not yourself. She wants a quickie, give her one. As long as she is happy, you don't have to cum. Just be conscious of her needs and wants and you will be happy. GS

erusnu
06-28-06, 01:57 AM
well i think that ur not being able to cum early is great. i don't think there is a need to bust at all. it also keeps your energy levels up. my advice when she says she had enough, u pull out and thats it.
....my lil 2 cents

pepepe
06-28-06, 09:17 PM
must be real nice to have that problem. hey did you ever think most girls like it to last long. something doesn't seem right to me about your situation.

Mark_8
08-14-06, 12:01 AM
must be real nice to have that problem. hey did you ever think most girls like it to last long. something doesn't seem right to me about your situation.

agree :p

cooldude
12-30-06, 03:46 PM
I wish I had that problem although the longest I have ever went was 2 hours straight. If I had that problem I could probally mutiply that by five and go 10 hours :) whoa.

cooldude
12-30-06, 03:47 PM
must be real nice to have that problem. hey did you ever think most girls like it to last long. something doesn't seem right to me about your situation.
Yeah for real though

boobly
01-07-07, 02:47 PM
the thing is girls get sore after a while and cant handle the continuous sex. I have the same problem I cant cum quick. Any advice on how to cum quicker, it would be nice to have a quickie cum in less than 5 minutes.

MAXAMEYES
01-07-07, 05:25 PM
I think its gotta be mental, but may be physical.....i can get off in like 1 or 2 minutes if I masturbate, but with sex.....im in for the long haul.


Kid, you answered your own question.
Don't touch yer own dick for about two weeks except to exercise and watch how it reacts to yer Ol' Lady's pussy.
What you've done is train your nervous system to only respond quickly to your own hand.
Y'gotta re-train it for a woman.

In short: Never again masturbate.

Slevin
01-15-07, 06:04 PM
Much of it has to do with flexing you butt muscles and maybe your leg muscles. I find that if I want to get off faster doing this helps, and vice-versa.