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    HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    ok here is my situation

    just turned 31 years old, in otherwise excellent health

    a few months ago, in May of 2004, i decided to try a dry jelqing session in my bathtub

    my penis was large, goodlooking and healthy but i just wanted to make a good thing better

    so i did one session for about 10 minutes in the bath - grasping the base of the shaft between index finger and thumb, and strecthing upwards to underneath the glans while it was soft / tumescent. it was never erect

    so the whole shaft was being stretched

    anyway about 2 weeks later i noticed to my horror that my penis had changed

    it now looked very turtled and wrinkly as though it had shrunk a bit under the skin

    it hung loose and limp with no bend in it, and the glan was smaller than normal

    now it was difficult to get erect, and the erection was smaller and skinnier than before, especially the upper shaft and glans

    and it could lose blood easily in a way it didnt before, becoming skinny fast

    it seems to have lost it's throb and the blood does not fillll it up to the tip like it used to, even though it is still a good sized erection

    in August i actually developed pain in the area under the glans, and then the uppershaft and glans developed a slight turn to the left where the pain was

    i have been takin vitamin e for that

    i still get some irritation and pain, especially when i try to make my erection throb or after i have a strong ejaculation

    i take Cialis, which helps a bit, but even then i can be very slow to get hard when my girl touches me

    so ya all these months later and not much ahs changed, though i have good days and bad days

    i have been to the best urologists in the city and they could not tell me what i had done

    they just gave me common sense advice of "if you hurt it, you just have to wait and see"

    but what did i do?????

    when i googled jelqing injury i found that actionlove site - regardless of the site itself, i saw a lot of people writing in with similar or identical injuries from jelqing

    so i need to know

    what do you guys think i did to the penis?

    has anyone been through what i going through, did you get better, and how long did it take?

    and what can i do to help myself heal??

    i am at the end of my rope and i am very depressed about what i have done

    any advice is badly needed

    thanks

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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    I think you can start by making actual paragraphs.

    Just sounds to me like you have been doing too much jelqing to early and your penis wasn't ready for it. Lay off your Penis Enlargement and give it a little while, if you ask me.
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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    Yes, try not to do ANYTHING with it for a little while, besides piss of course. Do some hot wraps for about 10 minutes or so whenever you get time, maybe 1-2 times a day if you can. Not too hot, just get more circulation going.

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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    Quote Originally Posted by esteban
    Yes, try not to do ANYTHING with it for a little while, besides piss of course. Do some hot wraps for about 10 minutes or so whenever you get time, maybe 1-2 times a day if you can. Not too hot, just get more circulation going.
    well i have been having sex abut once a week (all that is permitted with me and my girl's schedule). and of course i sometimes masturbate. but thanks for the feedback but i still want to hear more. i cant be the only one this has happened to so i would love to hear from somone who has been through this too and hear what the outcome was like

    what i am really worried about is that this is permanent. if it is then i am truly the biggest fool on the planet because this has been a nightmare
    btw - i only did penis enlargement exercises that one and only time so that is it it was a one-time thing

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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    I'm sorry, I'm just not buying this story. This sounds like something that was copied off one of those "medical" sites/forums ....a concocted horror story of sorts to scare off guys from doing Penis Enlargement.

    I've done crazy things to my penis over the last 5 yearsish ....hung as much as 30lbs in weight from it for 15 minutes at a time and never once had a bad thing happen to it. I've always used common sense though.

    There is NO way that this one guy could have jelqed ONE time for 10 minutes....not even erect as he says, and suffered some injury that is now causing him erection issues.

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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    Good call, SWM.

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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    Ok, so lets give this guy the benefit of the doubt as they say. Maybe he really did injure his penis somehow.

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    thanks for posting my thread SWM

    let me make something clear. i am in no way attacking jelqing or penis enlargemnet exercises. they seem to have hlped a lot of people and it was the positive feedback that persuaded me to try in the first place. this is not an attack. thi is just one man who is having problems so i thought i could find some advice and support here because we are all here to improve our penis. so please believe me when i say that. i support Penis Enlargement but in my case i need your help. so to anyone who thinks this is concocted, I swear on my mother's life this is real. i am just desperate for help and have been very depressed since this thing happened. the lack of closure is killing me.

    I am in a weird position here. i went to see a man who is one of the best Urologists in the city back in June 2004 and he was such an asshole. he examined me for literally 5 seconds and decided there was nothing wrong with me, and refused to acknowledge that i had done anything to myself. He just gave me some Cialis samples and sent me on my way within 2 or 3 minutes of getting there. he was treating me like i was having performance anxiety. i have had that before when i was young and inexperienced and believe me this is something physical. performance anxiety does not explain the limpness and turtling and the pain and the slight curve i developed. (and no it's not Peyronies thank God - i have had 2 other Urolgists confirm that)

    i feel like maybe my penis was just not designed for doing what i did to it because other people seem to have done so much more without adverse effects. all i know is that it was very healthy before this. about a month before this a girl described it as "the nicest she'd ever seen". Now it seems like the tissue has some kind of general inflammation. it still gets erect but it is not as strong, the glans doesnt get quite as big and there is now a very slight curve to the left.

    the most striking thing is how it feels when it is soft. it use to have a real "pulse" and twang to it. even when i was walking around it would often be semi chubby which was nice. and the glans would be ncie and fat even when taking a pee or whatever. now the glans is much smaller when not erect and the flaccid penis feels very "mushy" . hard to explain but believe me it makes me very sad and wondering if it will ever change. ok that is all for now but if anyone out there has experienced these symptoms or knows someone who has please let me know if you think it will improve. i will try hot wraps.

    thanks again

    Hope

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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    Maybe you should try a light wet jelqing regime. Wet jelqing is easier on the penis than the dry version. I know you said that's what has caused your problem in the first place, but maybe with continued use it will restore your manhood to its prior glory? Just be really sure to do good long warm ups and downs. Also massage the area where the bend is and where there's pain, this will help even out the tissue and also make you aware of any internal problems such as tears or lumps.

    Good luck with it mate.
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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    my injury caused me lots of anxiety, and i was starting to believe that i had permanently injured myself. now i am 100%. after two months of worrying, (my doctor told me he saw nothing wrong?), i decided to get on with my life and realized that i had indeed hurt myself and it would never go away. you know, just live with it. amazingly, a week or so later, my injury had completely healed!! dont fret, if it is not so evident that your doc. did not seem concerned, then i believe that you will be o.k.!

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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    First, I think you should get checked out by another doctor. Get a second opinion, as your dick is too important to ignore if you think there is a problem. Explain exactly what you did and the whole nine yards. Unless he is pretty open-minded, he'll likely explain to you that the only real Penis Enlargement is surgery and that you're wasting your time with exercises. He may is say it's dangerous and will lead to impotence. Whatever. Look at how many guys it's helped here. Just make sure you're cleared and recovered before you proceed with anything else.

    Second, definitely try wet jelqs first. I have Penis Enlargemented for some time now and I can tell you that I still find dry jelqs uncomfortable and I really don't do them, to be honest.

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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    Quote Originally Posted by jackleg
    my injury caused me lots of anxiety, and i was starting to believe that i had permanently injured myself. now i am 100%. after two months of worrying, (my doctor told me he saw nothing wrong?), i decided to get on with my life and realized that i had indeed hurt myself and it would never go away. you know, just live with it. amazingly, a week or so later, my injury had completely healed!! dont fret, if it is not so evident that your doc. did not seem concerned, then i believe that you will be o.k.!
    thanks everybody for the feedback

    ya I guess all I can do is keep on going. If it was a week ago I would be optimistic. but I did this in the first week of May so I am very concerned as to whether it is permanent or not. i just want to find out if there is something i could be doing now that might improve things.

    it seems like the upper part of the shaft and the glans have been somehow traumatized because the "throb" doesnt seem to extend to the tip the way it used to. example - when i pee i cant "flex" my glans and control the flow like i could before. this must sound stupid, I know, but i am just trying to get to the heart of what might be wrong inside. it's not a torn vein, because i went to another Urologist and he told me that only one vein serves the glans. maybe I tore nerves in the upper end of the shaft?? damn i just dont know. and the whole penis when soft has thse folds and wrinkles that werent there before. as though it has lost its tone. I have been to see 4 urologists and none of them were able to tell me what i might have done. they just said -if you've hurt it, only time will tell. and these guys arent sex therapists so they dont think it's a big deal if my penis isnt as fat or strong as it used to be. but to me that seems like a very very big deal.

    anyway thanks again for the feedback and please if anyone has any clue as to what i might have done please let me know because this problem has got me sleepless.

    cheers

    Hope

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    Hydromaxmm

    i got a disturbing PM from someone who feels they injured themselves ina similar way

    this person says it's been over 2 years and little improvement.
    they also feel the damage is related to detroyed erectile tissue. does anyone know if thius ever grows back? or is it like nerves where the damge is permanent? I am afraid that former spongy tissue all over the penis has been turned into collagen scar. blah I am scared. i guess I will try another Urologist but i cant imainge they will tell me anything the last 3 or 4 werent able to

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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    thats soooo fked...i read that story like 3 times and its hard for me to peice together. Honestly i wouldnt be surprised if 60-80%+ of this was in your head. I dont understand how your glads etc could shrink from jelqing. All that extra skin and what not should not have disappeared. That 10 min session has you messed up for 2 months so far!? and that curve thing :( sooo hard to piece together. Could his penis have been soooo newbie that he got a curve from one jelqing session already? thats unbelieveable. Im still confused (>_<; ) sorry i couldnt have been much help cuz i know you can be pretty stressed over something like this.
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    ^^^^

    believe me it's my own private nightmare

    *i still get erections and can have sex but the erection is smaller than before and erect or soft it leans and curves slightly to the left
    *when i ejaculate it sometimes tingles and hurts a little in the area under the glans - after ejaculation i get these faint red spots on the glans which i never ever ever got before
    *the whole flaccid penis hangs straight down with no bend in it, and the skin is loose and the penis feels mushy like it has lost muscle inside
    *it looks tenderized and weak

    it's a nightmare .. my penis used to rock. all girls i was with complimented me on it's size and how nice they thought it looked. it looked great erect or soft - no wrinkles - and i could get hard again and agian after ejaculating. I dont know why i messed with it. vanity i guess. i had no idea this would be a life-changing event but now it is like before and after. my happiness ended in May 2004. now i am thinking about suicide a lot. that may sound extreme but this has been a very cruel turn of events and I dont see any happy endings here. the only thing i can compare it to is if a woman with very nice breasts did some exercise to make them perkier and wound up making them permanently shrivelled and saggy and sore. i aint a happy man

    thanks for reading and if anyone does have some miracle success story or Chinese herbal miracle cure i would love to hear it. otherwise I think i am permanently fucked

    Hope

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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    The mind is a very powerful tool in life. In Penis Enlargement this same powerful tool can work against you or for you. It sounds like it is working against you here. In the starting stages of Penis Enlargement some men report similar problems as you have described. I am one of those people I remember being about 2 months along (this only happened for one day but I am sure you will see the psychological implications) when I noticed my penis was unusually flaccid, soft, retracted and lifeless in a sense. It felt and looked alien and I was scared out of my mind. I went to JEN, my girlfriend with my problem and boy was this psychosomatic fun catchy! We started talking about what could have happened and Penis Enlargement quickly became the culprit. I must have spend 5 hours in the bathroom that night looking at my increasingly alien penis. Feeling it, rubbing it, hoping it, wishing it all to no avail. The next day when I woke up I had a HUGE psychological decision to make. 1.) Blame Penis Enlargement and become reserved to the fact I have fucked my penis up or 2.) Take a roll with the dice and realize I am an extremely obsessive person and this was all in my head. THANK GOD I went with number 2. It was around this time (maybe a few months after) that I started frequenting the forums and I had done quite a bit of my own research on the penis, enlargement, impotence, physical and psychological implications of each subject. This is probably the time in my life where "THE MIND is VERY POWERFUL" meant more to me than any other time. I realized that I not only could bring harm to myself but positive change using my mind. The steps leading up to this event have been a large part of my program, site and life for that matter. I control my destiny, my goals, gains, sexuality all become part of this positive loop.

    The actual action of jelqing, looked at objectively, is a variation of masturbation. Men have injured themselves through masturbation but it is not only rare but extremely difficult to do. Jelqing, in fact, will increase the quality and quantity of your erections. Unless you have a physical problem with impotence or experienced major trauma through sex, exercise or masturbation, this is all in you mind and it will get better. To speed this process cognitive steps can be taken...for starters, take this post to heart. You may want to spend some time in the MENTAL Penis EnlargementNIS ENLARGEMENT forum, there are allot of good threads there that will help you come out of this stronger (and longer)
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    ^^^

    thanks for the kind words

    i try to tell myself that with mind over matter maybe I can reverse the damage but believe me, something physical has happened. i feel like I am trying to be optimistic about having cancer. sure i can try and be upbeat but realistically i think i fucked my penis up.

    It's really hard to believe, and some of you also find it hard to believe. that a penis could change from just a one time only jelqing session. I had forgotten all about my little jelq experiment until 2 weeks later when i realized that it had atrophied. that scares me too. it didnt happen right away. and i was totally happy with my penis until i realized that it had become all weak and wrinkled and turtled.

    don't get me wrong I have my good days where it seems somewhat ok.. and when i am feeling good and it is semi chubby it looks much nicer then when it is limp turtle mode. but when I look down and see it all limp and skinny and the glans is as small as the shaft (it used to be like a nice fat mushroom cap even when not erect) it kills me. God help me it even smells differently now and it used to smell fine.

    i am just dying to know if one day it will return to it's former glory. because it was so nice before. i was actually quite vain about it. girls' were always vbeing like "wow i lucked out with you!" also i am in the entertainment biz and was becoming known as quite a ladie's man. now i hate to say but i have stayed with this same girl partly because my confidence took such a beating and she was so kind to me through it all. she is wonderful about it. she says she is fine with it so i should be too. but as a man i feel so diminished

    blah. i am rambling but the point is as much as i want to be positive about it after 8 1/2 months i still really see not much improvement. it is freaking me out. and i cannot fathom why my glans is not as full. very disturbing. i would feel a bit better if somebody could tell me why then at least i would have some closure because i cn plainly see it physcially changed from whatever i did to it.
    i know sayin i think about suicide seems like i am drama queen, but my sex life was one of the few areas in my life where i was happy and now i am facing harsh realities that might be forever.

    peace

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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    Over the last few weeks I've had troubles maintaining an erection. I can get erect, but only stay that way for a few minutes maybe, then it goes away. I also noticed I have trouble focusing when erect sometimes, and when I realize the erection is subsiding, I try to get it back, but many times it doesn't happen.

    I think I've traced it down to the mental aspect. After my g/f and I broke up I had troubles staying erect. For whatever reason this is, I know its something mental. I was wondering if it was from Penis Enlargement, but I've gained, and sometimes my erections with my ex were so hard I thought my veins would burst...and this was well after I had done a few months of Penis Enlargement. So don't underestimate the mental aspect, like DLD said. When you get erect, you're probably getting also very 'psycho' about your penis. Always monitoring it, wondering if its the right size, wondering if and when the erection will go away. This type of thought is precisely what will make it all go wrong.

    The next time you are erect, and having sex or whatever, just try telling yourself everything is fine. Make yourself relax, and KNOW that this is all in your head. And when you get paranoid...I don't care if you get soft or what, just keep telling yourself its mental and that you're fine. Do this again and again if it doesn't work the first few times. What have you got to lose? I think once you handle the mental side of this problem, the physical side will be easier to tackle...if there even is one. Give it a try.

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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    ^^^

    thanks again for the kind words. you're right. the mental aspect does come into play. sometimes now when my girl is lying with me and touching me i am so in mourning for my old penis that getting hard is pertty much impossible. the way my penis is now i feel really unsexy - even though i'm sure a lot of guys would be happy to have it - it is very slow to arouse.

    it used to be worse though. even when my girl tried to get me going with oral it stayed totally limp. !!! - that was back when it first started. and ya i have had performance anxiety before when i was younger and it was upsetting. that only happened with one girl, one time though. this is different. even with Cialis it can be slow to arouse. though it does get hard if i see a cute girl or if i am flirting with some honey on instant messenger. but the erections are different and that is what scares me. they have improved i think but since that jelq experiment they are skinnier shorter versions of what they were and not as strong. very difficult to describe but since it is my penis i can see and feel exactly what has me worried. the worst part is how the pulse doesnt make the upper part and glans throb. what could i have done? if it was mere performance anxiety and mental i dont see how that could affect blood circulation to the upper region and glans. so ya the worrying is definitely bad and is lethal to getting hard. but believe me soft or hard i sure did something that day and i just hope that there is a way to fix it. .. that is what i try to stay postivie about .. that there is something that i can learn that might undo tissue damage and help it heal. can anyone recommend any tips, or good penis doctor or alt. medicine anywhere in the world?

    thanks

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    Re: HELP! hurt my penis jelqing what can i do?

    I do belive you have somesort of injury to the penis, but from what you have told me I reckon most is in your head...and is a PSYCHOLOGICAL issue.
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