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    No sensations during sex and orgasm

    Hello,


    I'm a 30 year old male. I belong to theunlucky minority, that self-discovered prone (lying down)masturbation at the age of 5. I remember the process and culminationbeing very pleasurable during first few years that I've done it. Butsomewhere along the way my penis got so desensitized,that I barely got any kick out of it, but continued to do itnonetheless, out of habit and the 'urge' I'd get as a developingyoung man. I continued with this habit until the age of 26. By thattime I had several failed relationships with girls, which fell apartmainly because our sex-life was non-existent, since my penis was soused to extreme pressure and completely different feel that pronemasturbation provides, that I just couldnt get it up/keep it upduring intercourse with a real girl. At the age of 26 realizationthat I have serious issue with my penile health finally sinked in. SoI researched different resources regarding this matter. Itimmediately became apparent how much harm prone masturbation causesto a man, so I stopped it cold-turkey. Excersized no-fap/no-PMO(porn, masturbation, orgasm). Started a natural penisenlargement/health routine (stretching, jelqing, kegels), whichseemed to make things worse (I attribute this to doing kegels, whilehaving an already tight/weak pelvic floor muscles, withoutcounter-balancing it with reverse kegels (stretching)). I had nogirlfriend during this period, so after 6 months of no masturbating Ibought Fleshlight device to both take my edge off and to startretraining my penis to sensations of vaginal sex (since so manypeople over the Internet claimed it's “100% like real vagina”).


    After a while I was able to come using Fleshlight, however – and that's thesummary of my current state and gist of my post – the stroking partfelt like nothing was going on at all, no sensations, no pleasure.And orgasm itself felt a tiny bit pleasurable but still very weak.


    Couple of years ago I started dating agirl, whom I am with to this day. At the early stages of ourrelationships I had to rely on Viagra to get it up, but even then myerections were inconsistent – sometimes my penis would be hardenough for penetrative sex and sometimes it would nоt.As our relationship developed and trust deepened and as I (and mydick) have gotten more used to vaginal sex with a real woman, I wasable to ween myself off Viagra and arrived to the point where I am attoday – I am confidentmy dick will be up and ready for the task ahead without medication,no stress, no fuss. That said, my erections are definitely notrock-hard. Also my penis tends to get soft(er) when she's on top butquickly returns to it's baseline state when I'm not lying on my back.


    Myconcern, as stated above, is severedesensitization, lack ofsensation during sex andorgasm: whenI'm thrusting I feel nothing.Zero. When she's giving meblowjob I feel almostnothing. When I come, it's avery weak feeling.


    Thesethings are hard to describe but Ibelieve there's somethingmany men can relate to, -when I was a young boy sometimes my private bits would grind againstsome surface during play(mainly whenclimbing rope or a tree or playing on a kid's playground) and it feltextremelypleasurable, to the point that I'd forgo whatever I was doing andwould try to replicate the moves that caused such great sensations,so I'd feel it again. Let's say this feeling had a strength of 10.Subjectively I'd describe the strength of my orgasms as 0.5 or 1, mythrusting as 0.


    During intercourse normally I tend tolast around 20 minutes. Around 7-10 minutes when we havent had sexfor a week or two for whatever reason and I have a lot of pent upenergy.


    Sohere I am, but no means impotent, yet clearly not 100% healthyeither. There's something big missing. Have I wrecked somethingmajorly during many years of abusing my penis with pronemasturbation? Maybe. I'mlooking for your help and advice.


    PS
    I'llbe posting this to a few penile-health related forums andcommunities. I hope this is not against the rules, because I need allthe help that I canget.

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    Re: No sensations during sex and orgasm

    Welcome to MOS. I am not sure if I can be of any help on your issue, hopefully some of the experienced guys will be able to give you some guidance. Please don't take this as negative or me trying to be funny but it almost sounds like you have to rewire your brain and get it on the same page as your body. What I mean by that is that you will have to get your mind to accept the signals being sent from the area being stimulated as pleasure and be able to connect the two. I can only guess from what you described during your childhood is that you have associated certain sensations and positions with pleasure and blocked out additional stimulus. It may take a while for this to happen but it may be the solution you are looking for. I am no expert and it is only an uneducated guess but I hope this helps a little or puts you on a path that leads you to the remedy.

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    Re: No sensations during sex and orgasm

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