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    Re: The Mandingo Complex

    Quote Originally Posted by doublelongdaddy View Post
    I went to an all back school in DC. The shower room was one large room with like 20 shower heads. After gym we would all shower and I was just as big as every other guy there, no one stuck out more than the other and this was all black men. I never had this complex because most of my life I spent among black people, growing up, in school, after school, parties, etc. I did not fit in well with the white kids. Anyway, with all my first hand experience I would say that there is no difference between the two but in rare, extreme cases. If the myth were true we would have more than 5 black porn actors.
    Well, your experience was certainly different from mine. I still have difficulty figuring out how the only 2 black guys I saw naked had the biggest dicks I've ever seen. Maybe if one did and the other was average, I might have had a different take on the matter. But again, my sister in law insisted they were bigger, and she was a hooker. By the way, she is now in her mid-sixties and married to a black guy. Regardless, I am not going to let this "complex" ruin my life any further. What's done is done, and my focus now is to improve to the best of my ability with the tools at hand, tools which did not exist for the majority of my PE career. You, DLD, are responsible for so many of the innovations now available. Thank you for that. I just wish they had been available in my 20's or 30's. Ah well, I may still go to my grave with a 10 incher and a smile on my face
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    Re: The Mandingo Complex

    Quote Originally Posted by Big Schwanz Acht View Post
    Fillerup, I feel you my brother. Along with our fearless leader, Mike we're of similar age/demographic and our formative years were pre-internet so much of the information we had to work with was either first-hand (which was very limited) or anecdotal (which was prone to exaggeration), so our body of work (so to speak) was too narrow for an adequate representation of the truth. The fact that you've only witnessed 2 black men naked is probably more a testament of those two being 'loud and proud' and on display while the more average would be less overt (just a hunch). What I'm trying to say is that our sample-size was grossly under-represented and the only people that you heard about were either the 1% or an embellishment (often women's perceptions are skewed by expectation vs. fact).

    My entire adult sex-life has also been 'pressurized' to meet some ideal out there that I manufactured in my head, so in many ways not knowing the truth about size/race/etc. created a fictitious goal/target that I'd never be able to reach...my 3 years here at MOS has helped me be better informed, but old habits a truly tough to break.

    Thank you for trusting us and sharing what had to have been some deeply painful memories and how those events have shaped you even today...we're here to heal as well as grow
    Thanks for the kind words, Big. I didn't know there were many, if any, men on this site in my age group (assuming you and Mike are at or near 60). But you're right, old habits and self-perception die hard, and I still struggle with inadequacy, despite knowing that from all available studies, I'm considerably larger than average. As far as the two black guys I saw, I don't think they were "loud and proud" and on display. After all, the first guy was alone in the shower, and the other guy was in a change room naked with a whole bunch of white guys, none of which were close in size to him. Again, coincidence? But I'm trying to let that all be water under the bridge. Nothing I can do about it anyway. IF black men are bigger on average, then that is what is so. My ex-wife, by the way, is now married to a hispanic man and living in San Diego. She has become a born again evangelical Christian, and I suspect penis size is now totally irrelevant to her. She totally fucked up my life and sense of self worth, but she's doing fine. Nice! Maybe in the next world, she will see the effect she had on my life. Same applies to her sister, who started this whole bloody thing. Maybe if her sister had never come, things might have been totally different. But again, water under the bridge.
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    Re: The Mandingo Complex

    Quote Originally Posted by Fillerup View Post
    Well, your experience was certainly different from mine. I still have difficulty figuring out how the only 2 black guys I saw naked had the biggest dicks I've ever seen. Maybe if one did and the other was average, I might have had a different take on the matter. But again, my sister in law insisted they were bigger, and she was a hooker. By the way, she is now in her mid-sixties and married to a black guy. Regardless, I am not going to let this "complex" ruin my life any further. What's done is done, and my focus now is to improve to the best of my ability with the tools at hand, tools which did not exist for the majority of my PE career. You, DLD, are responsible for so many of the innovations now available. Thank you for that. I just wish they had been available in my 20's or 30's. Ah well, I may still go to my grave with a 10 incher and a smile on my face
    Never too old to put a smile on your face! I can understand you situation and I am sorry this affected you in this way. I just never saw a difference and it was a very large school with many students and hand to God, they were all about the same. With every race there will be anomalies but with black men it is much bigger stigma and they suffer more than their counterparts. Black men are expected to be huge and the facts are they share the same averages as their counterparts. So a white man has much less pressure than a black man in sex.
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    Re: The Mandingo Complex

    Quote Originally Posted by doublelongdaddy View Post
    So a white man has much less pressure than a black man in sex.
    I wouldn't say 'less' pressure, I'd say it's just a different kind of pressure. We're living in a Fem-centric society where we're not only in charge of our orgasm, we are also responsible for her pleasure as well (fair or not).

    I'd implore Mrs. Dread to chime-in here, but I've heard on more than a few occasions where women will actively seek-out a black man for the sole purpose 'that experience'. So in this regard, a black man would need to 'live-up' to the stereotype and thus have the pressure of his entire race on is back to perform. I've also had discussions with my black and mixed-race friends and they'll freely admit that when they're with a white girl, they'll do everything they can to perpetuate the myth.
    Back in my early 20's I dated a black girl and she mentioned that I wasn't as big as her previous BF, (I let this gnaw-away at me to the point of sabotaging the relationship). So add another scar on the path to find MOS, lol.

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    Re: The Mandingo Complex

    Quote Originally Posted by Big Schwanz Acht View Post
    I wouldn't say 'less' pressure, I'd say it's just a different kind of pressure. We're living in a Fem-centric society where we're not only in charge of our orgasm, we are also responsible for her pleasure as well (fair or not).

    I'd implore Mrs. Dread to chime-in here, but I've heard on more than a few occasions where women will actively seek-out a black man for the sole purpose 'that experience'. So in this regard, a black man would need to 'live-up' to the stereotype and thus have the pressure of his entire race on is back to perform. I've also had discussions with my black and mixed-race friends and they'll freely admit that when they're with a white girl, they'll do everything they can to perpetuate the myth.
    Back in my early 20's I dated a black girl and she mentioned that I wasn't as big as her previous BF, (I let this gnaw-away at me to the point of sabotaging the relationship). So add another scar on the path to find MOS, lol.
    What I mean to say is the a black man is expected to be huge due to legend and when he does not measure up to this legendary status he suffers more than a white man where there is no expectation. The sad part is average penis size is across the board and all men should be treated equally, but black men are not, they are expected to be huge.
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    Re: The Mandingo Complex

    This is quite true and it must play doubly so for the black man that's average or below.

    If we have any members here that have struggled w/this, I'm sure it would be helpful for you to share with The Brotherhood your experience(s).

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    Re: The Mandingo Complex

    Quote Originally Posted by doublelongdaddy View Post
    What I mean to say is the a black man is expected to be huge due to legend and when he does not measure up to this legendary status he suffers more than a white man where there is no expectation. The sad part is average penis size is across the board and all men should be treated equally, but black men are not, they are expected to be huge.
    I was a state and national calibre athlete growing up as a black teen. By the time I was 14, I was 6 foot 1 200 pounds with an 8 pack. I was around a lot of sexually curious female athletes growing up and friends would always joke about how huge I must be and how good I was in bed. To be honest this didn't really scar me but it kept me humble. I didn't want to show them how inexperienced I was so I stayed a virgin until a couple months before I turned 20. I knew I wasn't large for my size but I was OK with living with what I had. I wasn't sad or depressed.

    So I started off with below 7 inches in length and just below 5 inches girth (so like 4.9ish). Not bad right? Well I also had 28 inch thighs and my hands are 8.5 inches long. Regardless of how big I was compared to average, I felt like I was on the smaller side with my body size but again I didn't care too much. Just thought penis size was luck of the draw and lived with what I had. Lost my virginity to my GF who was also a virgin and only had sex with her until I was 24. I soon became petrified to have sex with someone who already experienced other guys when sex and penis size were on my mind more often.

    Technically my GF lost her virginity to my fingers instead of my penis. I remember after having sex for the first time expecting to see a lot of blood and have her in crazy pain. Lol she was like "that wasn't bad at all! I don't know what these girls complain about". I thought "DAMNIT, I probably didn't get the right angle....yeah that's it...". One day my GF mad a comment about my penis size feeling smaller than usual and THAT ladies and gents is how you give a man a complex single handedly.
    Started: 6.9 BPEL x 5.0 EG
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    Started: July
    (this is well above and beyond my GF's measurements...but oh well)

    This is a Turtle Race.....remember that...put the damn ruler down and relax...

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    Re: The Mandingo Complex

    I guess we should consider ourselves lucky to have found a place to explore/vent these feelings along with growing our johnsons

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    My God, I remember being convinced to use Magnum condoms and having to hold them on during sex or else they would slip right off. You guys are just bringing back all the 🍑peachy 🍑 memories huh?! 🧐
    Started: 6.9 BPEL x 5.0 EG
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    Goal: 9.5 BPEL x 6.2 EG <---Here i come!
    Started: July
    (this is well above and beyond my GF's measurements...but oh well)

    This is a Turtle Race.....remember that...put the damn ruler down and relax...

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    Re: The Mandingo Complex

    This is where the healing starts, lol

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    Lol yes I've been healing and growing. DLD is right though.
    BSA I'm not sure if you know this but your turning into an MoS monstar. I did some metrics on your stats. When your fully pumped and erect, you have enough blood between your legs to almost fill a litre bag of milk 🤣. I'm thinking about turning into an MoS monstar myself
    Started: 6.9 BPEL x 5.0 EG
    Current:8.6 BPEL x 5.2 EG x 9.0 BPFS
    Goal: 9.5 BPEL x 6.2 EG <---Here i come!
    Started: July
    (this is well above and beyond my GF's measurements...but oh well)

    This is a Turtle Race.....remember that...put the damn ruler down and relax...

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    Re: The Mandingo Complex

    Quote Originally Posted by Egghed View Post
    Lol yes I've been healing and growing. DLD is right though.
    BSA I'm not sure if you know this but your turning into an MoS monstar. I did some metrics on your stats. When your fully pumped and erect, you have enough blood between your legs to almost fill a litre bag of milk 🤣. I'm thinking about turning into an MoS monstar myself
    Is that why an erection gets me a bit light-headed? lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Egghed View Post
    Lol yes I've been healing and growing. DLD is right though.
    BSA I'm not sure if you know this but your turning into an MoS monstar. I did some metrics on your stats. When your fully pumped and erect, you have enough blood between your legs to almost fill a litre bag of milk 🤣. I'm thinking about turning into an MoS monstar myself
    Big is the bathmate king!!

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    Re: The Mandingo Complex

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    Big is the bathmate king!!
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