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    10 Ways to Fight Pornography

    10 Ways to Fight Pornography


    A recent study asked a group of kids how often their peers look at porn online. They responded that it was often. The study also asked what parental controls were in place on their devices, and almost all said none — because their parents trusted them. These parents have no idea what their children are seeing.
    Why are controls so critical? First, the average age of a child’s first exposure to pornography is 11. So if that’s the average, some children are seeing it much earlier. Furthermore, research is beginning to give us the full, frightening picture of what porn does to a brain and to a life. Much like substance abuse, it alters the brain, creating a need for a level of stimulation that a healthy, marital sex life doesn’t always provide. It sets our children up to have a distorted view of sex and suffer from a desire that can’t be satisfied.
    Why are so many dads turning a blind eye to this problem? Is it because they don’t think it’s a problem? Is it because of their own porn use? Maybe they feel hypocritical setting up boundaries for their kids that they themselves can’t hold. If this is you, we want you to know that it’s not too late to protect your children, and there is hope for you too. Here are 10 ways to fight pornography:

    1. Admit you have a problem.

    We live in a world that wants us to make allowance for justifying and tolerating almost every off-color thing we could think of. One of the best things you can do for yourself, your marriage and your children is to admit you have a problem with pornography.

    2. Invite trusted friends to encourage you and hold you accountable.

    We would also suggest bringing your wife in on your struggle. Voicing your struggle to others and admitting you have a problem is a huge step in the right direction.

    3. Online accountability.

    Use software to monitor your online activity. Covenant Eyes is a great resource for men. It allows you to receive your accountability partner’s reports weekly for the sites they visit and the searches they make. It lets you know when you need to follow up with each other on questionable activity. Finally, it allows you to celebrate with each other in putting online struggles to death.

    4. Set boundaries with your mobile device.
    Nowadays, our smartphones and tablets are even more of a gateway to pornography than a desktop computer. The same online accountability applies to your mobile device. Set boundaries and use software to monitor all online activity.

    5. If you have offline pornography at your disposal, destroy it.

    If you are wanting to fight your addiction to pornography but are hanging on to that magazine or DVD (in its secret hiding place) then your “fight” is really just a masquerade. Man up, and destroy those items. Right now.

    6. Take all forms of media seriously.

    Don’t think to yourself that TV shows or movies that emphasize sexual situations or portray women in the wrong light are harmless. Even if they are not considered “porn,” they are damaging. If you’re struggling with pornography, these types of entertainment will only make your struggle more difficult.

    7. If you are married, take a step back and think on your marriage.

    Are you satisfied and happy in your marriage? What’s awesome about your marriage? What is lacking? Are you content with the level of sexual intimacy within your marriage? These are great questions to ask yourself. They just might lead you to the root cause for your addiction.

    8. Realize that you didn’t just become addicted to porn.

    How you conduct yourself in public and where you look every day have greatly influenced where you find yourself today. That long stare at the passing woman, the double take at the lady you just walked by, the thoughts that come to mind when you see the magazines in the checkout lane at the grocery store… This is where the battle starts in the everyday scenarios and situations. Fight the good fight here too. Guard your eyes and guard your mind.

    9. Take a second and think beyond the images or videos you’re looking at.

    This is a person, a real woman, a human being created by God, just like you. She’s somebody’s daughter, sister, or even mother. Think of what her life must be like in front of the camera day after day – exploited and made insanely vulnerable. Chances are she is wrapped up in some kind of string of human sex trafficking and your addiction is helping to fund this multibillion-dollar business. She is not there for your enjoyment. She is being held captive and more than likely is crying out for help.

    10. Your pornography addiction is a heart issue first and foremost.

    You are exchanging truth for a lie. You are voluntarily placing your affections on the cheap thrills that are ultimately fleeting and leave you feeling worthless. You were created for God, by God. Ask God to help you every time you are tempted.
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    Re: 10 Ways to Fight Pornography

    Very nice post brother. Again more knowledge and wisdom for others to reflect upon. I like the vibe of this thread man. Nice work!
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    Re: 10 Ways to Fight Pornography

    Giving up porn was one of the best things I did for my mental health and perspective on Sexuality. I have an addictive personality so it was best for me to give it up.
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    Re: 10 Ways to Fight Pornography

    Just trying to help others who are suffering as I have. I really pray those who need help get it because it is a terrible addiction.
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    Re: 10 Ways to Fight Pornography

    Some very good tips to follow! Thanks for posting this!
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    Re: 10 Ways to Fight Pornography

    I would like to give a little bit different point of view to all those, who fight with porn.

    You can approach this situation comparing it with knife – should the usage of knife be regulated and limited, because some people use knives to kill themselves or other people…….? At the same time the vast majority use knives to make their everyday lives better and easier………

    Similarly with porn – you can destroy yourself and your real-life sexual relationships if you use it in abnormal amounts. But you can also use is to enrich your sexual life and look at beautiful girls doing nasty things.

    And that is the main problem in our society – brutal violence, blood, murders, dead bodies etc. are on our TV screens even in daytime, but no one cares and doesn't call all those serial fans addicted. Because society is so brainwashed that think that it is normal. Some naked girls do nasty things, that do not harm anyone, and most part of the society condemns it……..

    I’m against porn where girls are tricked in with lies, which usually ends with broken lives, but if it is her deliberate decision and she beforehand knows that she will be capable of living with this label “porn”, then it is absolutely ok.

    And porn don’t have to be beautiful…..I think that everyone's deepest sexual desires are not beautiful, when viewed from the perspective of what is in our society considered nice…… Besides……..nice sex usually is synonym to boring sex……..

    And in case of porn addiction, the situation in general is similar to alcohol addiction - there are people who can drink a glass of wine each evening and they never will get addicted to alcohol, and there are people who started just with one innocent beer and then after one week woke up in some dirty place 100 miles from home not remembering anything.

    Of course if a person easy becomes addicted to porn, then it's better for him to stay away from porn, but for all the others its just a matter of self discipline and self monitoring (and knowing when to press stop or pause buttons).....

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    Re: 10 Ways to Fight Pornography

    I am not addicted to porn - never was. I can go for days/weeks and not view it.

    Sometimes I go through a phase where I watch a lot of it for a few days, and then stop out of disinterest.

    I sympathize with the OP: he admits he has a porn addiction. And all addictions are serious! There are men from all walks of life who are addicted to sex and porn. I wish them the best of luck in conquering their addictions.

    Sex addiction and porn addiction are not the same thing: the former is worse (but the latter is destructive as well).

    @ OP: I so hope you find peace with your issue.
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    Re: 10 Ways to Fight Pornography

    Glad this is helping those in need!
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    Re: 10 Ways to Fight Pornography

    Awesome post. It's amazing how bad porn actually is for us. https://yourbrainonporn.com/your-brain-on-porn-series -- that documentary was eye-opening. Plus for guys here, I think we are all size-minded, and watching porn can make you feel small even if you are packing a monster because of angles, unrealistic reactions, fake measurements, etc.

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    Re: 10 Ways to Fight Pornography

    LIARS they are, but just cant help it sometimes yeah i do watch porn
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    Re: 10 Ways to Fight Pornography

    Quote Originally Posted by ZackD89 View Post
    Awesome post. It's amazing how bad porn actually is for us. https://yourbrainonporn.com/your-brain-on-porn-series -- that documentary was eye-opening. Plus for guys here, I think we are all size-minded, and watching porn can make you feel small even if you are packing a monster because of angles, unrealistic reactions, fake measurements, etc.
    Very smart post and very true. I can say that since I have stopped viewing porn my mind has become so much more clear and respectful of females. I rarely speak with women but when I do I have gained a greater respect for them as human beings. I also feel so much more presentable to my Lord, Jesus Christ. I knew I was doing wrong and I also knew I was sending men off into the same direction and I could no longer deal with my guilty conscious. It took a great deal of work to remove all porn from the forum and it also cost us many Brothers who no longer come due to my decision. That is fine, we are a PE site, not a porn site. I want the Brotherhood to always be a place of improvement and porn in no way improves us. Even the ones who have left I have much love for and I hope they can feel that in some way.
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