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    No sensations during sex and orgasm

    Hello,


    I'm a 30 year old male. I belong to theunlucky minority, that self-discovered prone (lying down)masturbation at the age of 5. I remember the process and culminationbeing very pleasurable during first few years that I've done it. Butsomewhere along the way my penis got so desensitized,that I barely got any kick out of it, but continued to do itnonetheless, out of habit and the 'urge' I'd get as a developingyoung man. I continued with this habit until the age of 26. By thattime I had several failed relationships with girls, which fell apartmainly because our sex-life was non-existent, since my penis was soused to extreme pressure and completely different feel that pronemasturbation provides, that I just couldnt get it up/keep it upduring intercourse with a real girl. At the age of 26 realizationthat I have serious issue with my penile health finally sinked in. SoI researched different resources regarding this matter. Itimmediately became apparent how much harm prone masturbation causesto a man, so I stopped it cold-turkey. Excersized no-fap/no-PMO(porn, masturbation, orgasm). Started a natural penisenlargement/health routine (stretching, jelqing, kegels), whichseemed to make things worse (I attribute this to doing kegels, whilehaving an already tight/weak pelvic floor muscles, withoutcounter-balancing it with reverse kegels (stretching)). I had nogirlfriend during this period, so after 6 months of no masturbating Ibought Fleshlight device to both take my edge off and to startretraining my penis to sensations of vaginal sex (since so manypeople over the Internet claimed it's “100% like real vagina”).


    After a while I was able to come using Fleshlight, however – and that's thesummary of my current state and gist of my post – the stroking partfelt like nothing was going on at all, no sensations, no pleasure.And orgasm itself felt a tiny bit pleasurable but still very weak.


    Couple of years ago I started dating agirl, whom I am with to this day. At the early stages of ourrelationships I had to rely on Viagra to get it up, but even then myerections were inconsistent – sometimes my penis would be hardenough for penetrative sex and sometimes it would nоt.As our relationship developed and trust deepened and as I (and mydick) have gotten more used to vaginal sex with a real woman, I wasable to ween myself off Viagra and arrived to the point where I am attoday – I am confidentmy dick will be up and ready for the task ahead without medication,no stress, no fuss. That said, my erections are definitely notrock-hard. Also my penis tends to get soft(er) when she's on top butquickly returns to it's baseline state when I'm not lying on my back.


    Myconcern, as stated above, is severedesensitization, lack ofsensation during sex andorgasm: whenI'm thrusting I feel nothing.Zero. When she's giving meblowjob I feel almostnothing. When I come, it's avery weak feeling.


    Thesethings are hard to describe but Ibelieve there's somethingmany men can relate to, -when I was a young boy sometimes my private bits would grind againstsome surface during play(mainly whenclimbing rope or a tree or playing on a kid's playground) and it feltextremelypleasurable, to the point that I'd forgo whatever I was doing andwould try to replicate the moves that caused such great sensations,so I'd feel it again. Let's say this feeling had a strength of 10.Subjectively I'd describe the strength of my orgasms as 0.5 or 1, mythrusting as 0.


    During intercourse normally I tend tolast around 20 minutes. Around 7-10 minutes when we havent had sexfor a week or two for whatever reason and I have a lot of pent upenergy.


    Sohere I am, but no means impotent, yet clearly not 100% healthyeither. There's something big missing. Have I wrecked somethingmajorly during many years of abusing my penis with pronemasturbation? Maybe. I'mlooking for your help and advice.


    PS
    I'llbe posting this to a few penile-health related forums andcommunities. I hope this is not against the rules, because I need allthe help that I canget.

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    Re: No sensations during sex and orgasm

    ouch! this sounds truly unfortunate and I wish there was some immediate remedy to help. Fortunately, the penis is highly resilient and since you're fully functional it doesn't seem like anything permanent has occurred. Maybe have a discussion with a urologist?

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    Re: No sensations during sex and orgasm

    Quote Originally Posted by Big Schwanz Acht View Post
    ouch! this sounds truly unfortunate and I wish there was some immediate remedy to help. Fortunately, the penis is highly resilient and since you're fully functional it doesn't seem like anything permanent has occurred. Maybe have a discussion with a urologist?
    Agreed. If there is a total loss of sensation this would be nerve damage but I can not see how excessive masturbation could lead to this. I would see a urologist and I would stop masturbating completely! As Big stated, the penis is resilient and will heal under most conditions. Nerve damage does get better but it does take time.
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    Re: No sensations during sex and orgasm

    Thanks for the replies guys, appreciate it.

    And sorry for the wonky editing (missing spaces between words) your eyes had to endure I copy/pasted the text from a Word document and it seemed fine at a glance, so I posted it.

    Thing with doctors though that I believe I'd be hard-pressed to find a doctor who'd really listen and wouldnt just dismiss this case with "it's all in your head".
    Anyway I'll heed your advice and research the docs in my area and see if I am able to find a good specialist.

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    Re: No sensations during sex and orgasm

    Quote Originally Posted by maxonian View Post
    Thanks for the replies guys, appreciate it.

    And sorry for the wonky editing (missing spaces between words) your eyes had to endure I copy/pasted the text from a Word document and it seemed fine at a glance, so I posted it.

    Thing with doctors though that I believe I'd be hard-pressed to find a doctor who'd really listen and wouldnt just dismiss this case with "it's all in your head".
    Anyway I'll heed your advice and research the docs in my area and see if I am able to find a good specialist.
    Your post was fine and I am happy you got some good advice. As far as a doctor goes, you ned to find the right one for you. I hand picked my doctor and therapist. They both relate to my obsessive need for real answers, they respect my love of God, they allow me to have influence over my care and most of all they truly care for me. The right doctor can make all the difference in the world.
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