Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Penis Enlargement: Gaining Girth


For many guys in penis enlargement, girth comes second to length. Prior to penis enlargement I really only thought about length, never put too much time into thinking about thickness. I now understand how important girth is in penis enlargement. Girth increases, according to basic physics, aid in the length process. It is also important to know that girth exercises help in total penile health due to the increase in blood flow.

Even though I worked my girth very hard in the beginning of my penis enlargement I was more focused on length and this could account for my slow, initial girth gains in penis enlargement. It was only after penis enlargement that I started to take notice of how important girth is to females. This is when I took girth as serious as length. This is when I started to make incredible girth gains. I did not change my penis enlargement routine, I only shifted my thinking...this made al the difference. Starting at 6.5 x 4.75, I gained 2" in length in my first 6 months but my girth gains were slow. I think I may have gained .25" in girth. When I saw how easy it was for me to gain length I knew there was something stalling my girth. Here are some of the ways I have made girth a fruitful part of my penis enlargement.

Preparing the penis for girth work, using hot wraps can start the flood flow before you even start your penis enlargement routine. I used a heating pad but any method of wrapping the penis in warmth will work. I would allow my penis to get warm (about 5 minutes) and then I would do some deep massage. This would get my blood flow going and I could already feel that my penis was more ready for girth than it was without using a hot wrap. I would also do a hot wrap after my girth work. FGor a lot of guys, penis enlargement can be very demanding, time wise, so I have been blessed with privacy and time so I can use a heating pad throughout the day. This keeps me post-penis enlargement in a consistent, expanded state. This not only aids in healing, it also helps the penis become larger in flaccid state.

During penis enlargement, doing girth, it is important to keep a constant state of expansion. For me, erect, girth exercise is the ticket. Although it is a bit more dangerous than say 80% erect, I still push this, using extreme care, in order to go beyond my 100% erect state. It is the constant expansion beyond the 100% erect size that promotes the fastest girth gains.

I need stimulation during my penis enlargement. With length I need more concentration but with girth I need more stimulation. I enjoy doing girth while watching porn. This also helps in lasting longer and it makes girth a lot of fun. When I way young in penis enlargement I had less privacy and needed to train in the bathroom. Using a laptop, mini-DVD player or even good ole fashion paper porn helped me stay UP for the challenge.

I also suggest that you make meditation a part of you penis enlargement in whole but in girth it is very important. While keeping myself stimulated I really picture what is happening while I am training. I imagine the size I want, I really picture it and believe it is happening. In my experience, seeing it before it comes makes all the difference. I have written many articles on this type of meditation. Use the search functions here or on the free forums: www.mattersofsize.com/forum. If you are not a member yet, I suggest you join the free forum. The help is tremendous and the support system rocks. You may also want to help support these sites by joing the Matters of Size Members Site: www.mattersofsize.com. This site has over 100 videos and is full of workouts and other great information.

Supplements in penis enlargement are getting more and more prevalent. You may want to read some of the information on this at the penis enlargement forum. I personally like VIAGRA best for keeping me up during long girth sessions. When this becomes too expensive I can use the TITAN penis enlargement pills, which serve a similar effect while being much more economical. Find them here: http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html along with many other products.

DLD


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Sunday, February 01, 2009

Finding balance in Penis Enlargement


In penis enlargement it is easy to lose focus and either take things to seriously or not enough. Finding a balance in penis enlargement is important to longevity and emotional stability. When I first realized that penis enlargement worked I was stunned. I could not believe that I could actually make my penis bigger. I was practicing penis enlargement for about 4 months with no evidence of it working size-wise as I did not measure yet. I knew I was getting better erections and things felt different but it wasn't until the first measurement that I knew penis enlargement worked. Almost immediately after seeing that I was nearly 2" longer and .5" thicker I became obsessed. Much of this obsessiveness was time wasted. I started to think so much about penis enlargement that it was not healthy. I needed to find perspective in what I was doing. Up until this point things were going well so there was no reason to change anything, but I did. Granted, much of the new exercises that are around the penis enlargement forums and sites came from me and my obsessiveness but it also started to make me feel uncomfortable. I needed to put some perspective into penis enlargement and realize the first 4 months were easy because I was not worried. Once I saw it worked my mind went crazy.

The bad thing about obsessiveness in penis enlargement is it can make other parts of your life out of balance. Sex may become completely centered on your penis instead of the actual act of sex. When I was obsessing so much over penis enlargement sex became insecure. It started to lose it's spark and it took me putting everything back in perspective to change. For me, I made a schedule of when I would do penis enlargement and after I was done doing penis enlargement I would put it away. I started to train myself to focus on why I am doing penis enlargement to begin with, better sex. Taking penis enlargement to an obsessive level can be very counteractive and in many cases the worrying effects the actual workouts. Try to keep focused and only use the time set aside for penis enlargement, keep it out of the rest of your day.

SOme men find it easy to become distracted during penis enlargement. They may find themselves thinking about bills, work, relationships, etc. during their penis enlargement session which is also counterproductive. During penis enlargement one should be very focused on what he is training. For instance, when training for length the user she pay attention to how the stretch feels, where he is getting the best stretch, listening to his body and learning what is best for him. The mind and body connection in penis enlargement is so important to making penis size gains.

You may want to incorporate a 5 minute meditation that will help you get into a good mental state before doing your penis enlargement session. I am mobile right now but as soon as I am back to my home I will post some great meditational practices that will really help you.



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Wednesday, January 07, 2009

Penis Enlargement, GIVE IT TIME: By Big Al


Recently, I've been getting requests for "quick fix" advice and "quick routines" for beginners. It seems that a lot of neophytes are impatient, and want something that they can do as an afterthought and expect to make gains. Let's go over some possible answers for these beginners...

"Is Penis Enlargement (PE) 'easy'?": Relatively speaking, yes. We've laid out most of the ground work for you in the members' area. The only thing left to do is to FOLLOW THE ROUTINES. Getting assistance and advice is important, but in the end, you're going to have to do the exercises YOURSELF.

"How long before I see results?" A lot of guys start seeing noticeable changes within a few weeks. A few genetic marvels have added up to an inch or more in less than a month! Uncommon? Yes. Impossible? No. Again, how fast you see results is entirely dependent on YOU. Here are some factors that will determine how much and how fast you gain:

- Finding a good routine- VERY IMPORTANT! Does the program offer consultation services? How's their support? How long do they take to answer emails? Is the info regularly updated? Are there various routines to choose from? Are the guidelines easy to follow?

- Your dedication to a routine- If you're constantly hoping from site to site in the hopes of a penis enlarging "Holy Grail", you're not going to make gains! Find a good, solid, and reputable Penis Enlargement program, and stick to it! Bottom line- Patience!

- Genetic ability: Simply put, some guys are born with bigger penises, and some guys are born with the ability to make gains faster than others.

- Your ability to follow instructions: This is a biggie! Some guys have trouble interpreting written exercise instructions. If you're of of these guys, find a Penis Enlargement program that offers online video instructions.

- Motivation: There are a nearly infinite number of possible reasons why a guy may want to add size to his penis. Some want to add a little more size for purely aesthetic reasons. Others feel it will make them better lovers. Others (unfortunately) have been embarrassed or humiliated by previous lovers due to their lack of size. Whatever the reason, motivation will surely influence whether or not you stick to a schedule, get the rest that you need, and add as much intensity to each exercise as (safely) possible.

A lot of the same guys that are seeking quick fixes are also complaining that the routines "take too long". Granted, there are some sites that recommend doing hours of exercises (we don't recommend those). For the sites that we DO recommend- "Do the exercises take a long time to do?" Relatively speaking, no. Unless you're VERY advanced, the exercises shouldn't take more than 30 minutes a day (hanging weights is the exception, but that doesn't require anything more than setting up a weight at the end of your penis- no actual manual exercise there) to perform.

People talk about being pressed for time. Take 20 minutes a day to devote to Penis Enlargement. Are you willing to set aside a few minutes a day for Penis Enlargement? If you REALLY desire a bigger penis, you'll MAKE the time. Take that time that you normally spend watching TV and use it for Penis Enlargement. Wake up a few minutes earlier or go to bed a few minutes later. Do it on your lunch/coffee break. Get the idea?

How badly do you want it?

Hope this helps!

Big Al


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Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Penis Enlargement, How can I speed my gains?

Whenever a man becomes involved with penis enlargement he is most concerned about how fast the penis enlargement gains will come. It is difficult to give any real estimation because of obvious factors but there are ways to speed up the penis enlargement gains you make. Most importantly, the form and intensity of your penis enlargement workout is vital and should be mastered to increase natural penis enlargement enlargement. As many of you know we sell DVD's and Memberships to our video site for those who want to learn these techniques visually. For others, be sure to read the descriptions carefully and ask questions on the forum. Understanding what you are doing in penis enlargement is important. Joining the free forum and reading up will help you understand penis enlargement with greater comprehension.

Creating progressive routines is a good move to ensure you are hitting every area while doing penis enlargement. My site has 5 levels of penis enlargement routines. Each routine is more intense to help the user continually gain. It is important to keep intensity at high levels. The penis can become used to a routine and gains will slow or stop. It is important to keep track of your penis enlargement work and notice when your routine should be changed. There are many penis enlargement exercises to choose from and putting together progressive routines will keep you gaining.

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Friday, October 31, 2008

So why do we want a bigger penis: Penis Enlargement Relativity

I know many of you are waiting for the next installment of penis enlargement justification but I think there is a time we need to stop and ask "what is penis enlargement all about?" I wonder what guys really want in penis enlargement and if they realize what they are getting themselves into.

Penis enlargement is a huge commitment and can be filled with many pitfalls physically and mentally. After working with some men in penis enlargement for quite sometime I have seen a very scary trend that could make penis enlargement hell for those that fall victim to it. Mentally penis enlargement can be challenging. The biggest mental issue with penis enlargement is what I refer to as PDD (penis dysmorphic disorder). This issue is similar to Body Dysmorphic Disorder as the way a fat person that loses weight they have trouble seeing the weight loss. Illusions of what ones body looks like to them and the real picture that the rest of the world sees. In penis enlargement this happens with the penis. Some men make genius gains but have difficulty seeing it. I dealt with this myself and this is why I become concerned about the issue often.

This is a real issue because it can cause a man to become closed off and obsessive. This effects relationships, work and free time. Many guys who allow this disorder to become a part of their penis enlargement will suffer many of the above problems. It is best to keep penis enlargement in a contained time period and when you are done doing your penis enlargement, you are done for the day. Try to think of things other than penis enlargement. Try to stay focused on the task at hand be it sex or work.

Other problems men have in penis enlargement is staying motivated as the changes in penis enlargement are not quick. It takes hard work, a good penis enlargement routine and the ability to stay motivated each day. The gains do come. The average penis enlargement person gains about .5" of length and about .25" in girth. The gains usually follow this trend as you go further into penis enlargement. So it is not an overnight proposition, penis enlargement takes effort and belief. This belief needs to stay strong and patient as penis enlargement gains happen.

Physically penis enlargement can be demanding. It can also be an adjustment to fitting penis enlargement into each day. Men must also become cautious not to progress too quickly. In penis enlargement, the basic routine can be used infinitely if you are gaining. You want your exercise to be intense but build up to this stage slowly. Pain in penis enlargement is not present even if pulling on your penis sounds painful. There is a period where it will feel strange down there but you will become used to it.

Stay motivated and keep your mind in the moment.

DLD


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Sunday, October 26, 2008

Is Everything Really What it Seems, Part 2: The Most In Depth Penis Enlargement Study Ever

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I know I promised this study a while ago but too much was happening for me to get it together. I decided to start posting the data and I think many will be impressed with the background work I have done. I have been working on this study for 3 years+ and it has helped me get a new perspective on size and the surrounding psychology. As before it will be posted in parts over the next few weeks. It is quite a large study and I want to break it up into a sort of series. This is the prologue to the study. I hope this one has as much success as the first. I will be conducting similar interviews with different nationalities as in the first and I will also be doing in depth size analysis of all of the new actors in film. I hope you enjoy:

Is Everything Really What it Seems, Part 2

Prologue:
How can you continue to see the world as reality if the self that is determining it to be real is intangible? A question all of us need to ask ourselves and the answer is as independent as our DNA makeup. So we ask ourselves; What is reality? We all have a major role in the change of our reality because reality is the actions we take, not the eventualities we ponder. Even when mathematics proves a possibility it does not become a reality until we experience it, therefore we create our own realities. The world, being possible time lines of perceptibility's, offers endless realities, endless options, endless avenues that when chosen our reality become real.

Consider this, the smallest level of consciousness is the cell therefore changes in reality can be determined on a cellular level. This is very difficult for us to grasp as we have a predisposition on what our reality should be and thinking we can change this on a cellular level becomes difficult to comprehend. We, in turn, become addicted to the way we choose to see ourselves. Just like any other addiction we need to feed the craving, a craving that makes us who we are.

When we look in the mirror are we truly seeing who we are, or is this a reflection of the way we see ourselves mentally? Consider this; We have never truly observed ourselves, yes there are mirrors, video, pictures and so forth but we have never viewed ourselves through another persons eyes. In effect, we must trust the judgments of those around us. Believe it or not our cells are influenced by our emotions and our emotions influence our cells. Emotion is simply feelings in motion. Our visual concept may already be established but we truly do not know if this is a reality.

What is our influence on the world around us? Do our thought and emotions affect the rest of the living world? When we fully understand this, enlightenment is inevitable. The only way we will ever be great to ourselves is not by what we do to our bodies but what we do to our minds and this is where reality is born. We literally can be anyone we choose, we can have any reality we want and it all comes from the depths of our thoughts. When we make up our minds that we want something we have to formulate a picture of what we want and be so concentrated on it, so focused on it, have so much of our awareness of it that we lose track of ourselves, we lose track of time, we lose track of our identity, and the moment we become so involved with that experience it becomes the only picture we are able to see as real, good or bad. When actions are finally applied to these thoughts reality is born and the physical means to accomplish our mental visions falls into place.

We manifest our reality. Science has proven that an electron can be in two places at the same time and we still struggle with accepting the true power of our minds. We are much more than we think we are, and we can do much more than even that. We are here to be creators therefore it is our duty to create. When we can acknowledge our intense power over our emotions, our accomplishments and even our future, we have become cognizant.

Life is similar to quantum physics as quantum Physics is a physics of possibilities. We are constantly faced with endless possibilities, endless choices, endless experiences but we usually choose to remain with what we have believe we deserve. Don't just take this at face value, test it out and see if it is true.

I believe a large part of why everyone does not make gains in penis enlargement is the lack of belief that it can happen. This repetitive, comfortable, safe reality prevents many from seeing what they truly want. These men do not realize how easy it is to get once we decide it to be. A positive emotional state, a controlled effort and the ability to see ourselves as we wish to be will lead us to what we truly desire. Remember, if you can't control your emotional state you are addicted to it and addiction is repetitive actions that lead to the same results or even a decline in results. Therefore, if one becomes addicted to a positive emotional state the repetitive actions that follow will drive you towards your goals.

I have strived to create the art of mental penis enlargement so men could see themselves, mentally, as they truly are. A poor visual reflection is usually one of habit, one of a skewed reality, a reflection that only shows what we believe ourselves to be. In penis enlargement this is ever present because we have a clear mental picture of our penis, one established by years and years of collective thoughts and visual reflections. Those that suffer from a negative self-view will see their penis with a skewed vision a reality created by their compounded thoughts. For instance, if a man who has had a 6" penis for 30 years pursues penis enlargement and he makes a 2" gain he may still see his penis as six inches although the reality is he really has eight inches of penis. Even though the physical changes have happened the mental changes have not, therefore he can't visually see the changes. Even though he has the capacity to change this view he still chooses to see this negative image of himself.

Penis self view is worthy of volumes but one study could never encapsulate every part. I plan on provoking your thoughts and maybe relieving some fears in this new study. So many years ago I wrote an article on Penis Dysmorphic Disorder or P.D.D. It describes an illness some men may experience about their penis. It is built on illusion after illusion, but like the victims we are we buy into each illusion with complete belief and it somehow alludes an endless cycle of thought provoking actions that leave us mentally paralyzed. P.D.D., similar Body Dysmorphic Disorder, is a pathological preoccupation with an imagined or slight physical defect of one's body to the point of causing significant stress or behavioral impairment. With men and their penis this type of pathological preoccupation leads to poor relationships, lack of confidence, suicidal thoughts, calamitous demeanor and many other destructive behavioral impairments. Even though a man may have an 8" penis he sees it as much smaller.

When you look at this illustration below it shows how easily the mind can be fooled by illusion. This is akin to the endless cycle of our own self-view and the illusions we choose to see, illusions we ultimately agree with.

From MOS


Even when we know that what we are seeing is an illusion we still find it difficult to know why it is happening. When we look at this next image of an animated dots we know it is not changing color in reality but it is impossible for us to see it any other way than changing color. If we are so easily fooled by such a simple illusion of blinking lights imagine how much false negative views influence our self-view. Thoughts that influence our life in ways science is just finding out.

From MOS


[B]Do our thoughts truly effect the world?[/B] In this next illustration we see the thought process in all it's glory. It may be difficult to comprehend or even believe but this was a real scientific study. The incredible process of Science and Psychology working hand in hand.

From MOS


Considering that our bodies are 98% water imagine what our thoughts can do to us. Illusions are everywhere, in our minds, in our vision, in our world. We spend most of our lives in a dream world. Even though we are awake we still are confused by a cloud of imaginary smoke that keeps us from truly being awake. This is not something we can change with any single study although I wish this were possible. This is not something we can change by medicine or any other scientific advancement, this is something we can only change when we decide to awaken from the dream world and take charge of our destinies. Exploring this psychological issue of penis size illusions that is are the root of our cellular make-up will be a mind blowing experience and I hope all of you become inspired to change your thoughts, change your realities and get everything in PE or life, for that matter. I hope this study ultimately brings new ideas, new hopes, new enlightenment to the minds of those who wish to excel in their lives and capture every dream they ever desired.

Before we start the formal study I would like to give some history on the penis and penis enlargement:

Penis Enlargement History...Thousands of years of obsession:

Penis Enlargement dates back many centuries. Many early cave drawings portray male figures with oversized erections. In early art we can find statues, painting, wind-chimes, dildos, monuments and temples of leaders or gods with large penises. Gods were depicted with unusually large penises. This can be found in almost every culture. The Romans and the Egyptians worshiped penis God's. Geb, a God in Egyptian history was portrayed as a statue with a huge penis pointing towards the heavens. Priapus, the Roman God who held his oversized penis with pride. King Dihythia of Senegal, was depicted of sitting on a throne with his massive penis as many women kneeled before him waiting eagerly to touch his mighty Penis.

Penis Enlargement can be found in post Christianity. Ancient men stretched their penis using rocks as weights. Many cultures would sacrificed the use of their penis as a gift to the God's. After years of hanging heavy weight off their penises they would grow to unwieldy length but this would render them completely unusable.

Penis exercises can be found in ancient times. With time honored and adamantly protected secrets, penis exercises were passed down from father to son. Some sources say the lengths of 12" or more were common. Many sources believe that enlargement originated in the Middle East. When children reached the age of 14 leaders of their tribe would teach them secret penile enlargement techniques to prepare them for sexual relationships. The earliest known penis enlargement exercise was called the Jelq, a term still used today. The jelq is a simple exercise where blood was squeezed from the base of the penis upward towards the head but the effect is uncanny. Just as in early cultures, today men still use this exercise to naturally enlarge their penis.

Many of these ancient penis enlargement exercises were lost in time. It is believed that a select few cultures still practices these exercises into the 18th and 19th century. It was not until the advent of the internet that these exercises became available to the masses. Today, if you search for the term penis enlargement, you will find more than 8 million results. It is safe to say the secret is out.

Early penis enlargement was not subject to only exercise. Herbs that are common today in many penis enlargement pills were also used thousands of years ago. Early civilizations used these herbs to enlarge their penises and to make their erections last longer. Many of the same herbs found in many sexual aides in modern times originated by our ancestors.

It was not until the 1970's that modern devices became available to men for enlargement. The penis enlargement pump, made famous by John Homes, created a new obsession from ancient times, the reality of making the penis bigger.

Throughout history men have adorned their penises with sheath coverings that mimicked the massive phallus. In almost every recorded culture the penis was at the focal point of art. Placentarius, seen in the picture below, is portrayed with a massive, uncircumcised penis. This piece of art was used as a tray for food.

From MOS


Next we see the fertility God, Priapus, with a massive penis. He appears to be weighing his penis against a basket of fruit, which was commonly depicted in art of the God.

From MOS


In this next painting we see Adam and Eve being banished from the garden of Eden. In this painting from the 1400's the penis was in plain view. In the years to follow Christian leaders demanded that the penis not be shown in art. This lead to the covering of all phalluses in Michelangelo's most famous work on the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel. Upon close inspection we see that the genatalia of each image was carefully covered with loin clothes. This was not repaired until recently during a restoration project.

From MOS


From MOS


Tomorrow, PART 1: Growing Up with a Penis



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Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Penis Enlargement and Motivation



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Penis Enlargement and Motivation
In penis enlargement there is one problem many men fall into, keeping inspired and motivated. Over time enlargement can become a drag to some. They are doing their enlargement routine each day and things begin to feel more like a pain in the ass then a motivated. With a loss of motivation your inspiration goes down the tube. Your penis enlargement soon becomes so dull that you quit and lose out on the big penis you desire. It should also be said that penis enlargement gains depend on your attitude during your penis enlargement workouts.

Keeping penis enlargement in the positive lane will take some adjustments but I am sure, in no time, you will begin to look forward to your penis enlargement efforts. There are many methods to keep penis enlargement interesting and I will try to explain a few.

CHANGING YOUR ROUTINE THROUGHOUT THE WEEK: This is a great way to keep penis enlargement more exciting and keep you in the game. This type of penis enlargement training may even benefit your gains. I do not mean changing the entire workout but liberal changes will help you develop the best penis enlargement routine for you.

BREAKING YOUR ROUTINE UP: I liked to divide my penis enlargement routine into two sessions. For me penis enlargement required strict concentration. When I made this change to my penis enlargement routines I really was able to put my all into each session. I did length in the AM and girth in the PM. Doing this for my penis enlargement efforts was allow me to give every bit of thought to the area I was training. If I was doing length in the AM I could concentrate only on length. Doing all my penis enlargement exercises at once made things difficult to keep my mind on. I would rush to get done and when I was training length all I could think about the girth I had to do directly after my penis enlargement length session. When I broke it up into 2 sessions I found that I could totally concentrate on the area I was training. Lets take length as an example, with no thoughts about having to do girth after I was able to focus on the area I was training. I could feel my ligaments stretching. I could see my penis stretch and imagine it was the length I wanted. I was able to stretch with so much more intensity that I definitely gained much faster and penis enlargement seemed so much better. When the night came I did penis enlargement again but this time it was girth. Girth in penis enlargement requires more of a sexual state of mind than the non-sexual state I would stretch in. (in penis enlargement it is best to stretch while completely flaccid (soft) The two did not go together and girth exercise required a complete change of mind state. Understanding that penis enlargement has these two different emotional needs will help you make faster gains. When I did my girth I would be in a sexual mood and keeping my penis erect enough to accomplish a good penis enlargement was crucial to getting my girth as thick as I could.

DAYS OFF: You may even want to divide you penis enlargement by the days off, if you take days off. Lets say you do your penis enlargement 5 days a week and take off the weekend. You could try to insert these days off between your entire week. Say Monday on, Tuesday on, Wednesday off, Thursday on, Friday on, Saturday off, Sunday on. This will give you breathers and penis enlargement will be much more fun, it will have you looking forward to your penis enlargement instead of the opposite.

MANTRAS and AFFIRMATIONS: Keeping your focus in penis enlargement can be difficult and it could turn into a drag. To improve concentration, focus and inspiration saying a mantra to yourself may be the key to your penis enlargement efforts. You can create anything you want but keep the penis enlargement mantra positive. You could do this right before your workouts, during your workouts and throughout the day. I guaranty your penis enlargement will stay positive and fruitful. You could try something like this:

I AM GETTING A BIGGER PENIS WITH EACH SESSION
I CAN FEEL MY GIRTH GROWING
I CAN FEEL MY PENIS GETTING LONGER AND LONGER
I LOVE TO TRAIN AND PENIS ENLARGEMENT WORKS FOR ME


This is just a quick affirmation but you could build off it and as I said you could write your own. Keep it short and sweet. Do not use words or phrases like "I DON'T WANT TO BE SMALL" or "MY WORKOUTS ARE NEVER BAD" These seemingly positive statements are actually self defeating. The thing about penis enlargement that is vital is believing it works. Penis enlargement only gets better with a positive state of mind.

KEEPING GIRTH FUN: As I stated earlier penis enlargement is divided by girth and length. Since I believe penis enlargement requires focus I made my girth sessions not only easy to concentrate on but fun. I use porn to stay up for the job. If I have the house to myself I will put on some sexy video and my girth session goes from work to play. Another thing men complain about in penis enlargement is premature ejaculation but this type of girth routine will teach you restraint and help you last much longer in bed.

If I have no privacy I will train in the bathroom. Early in my penis enlargement I had to train at my job. I would use the bathroom that no one really went to to get my penis enlargement done as I could not train at home. Since there was no video in the bathroom I would keep a folder with sexy pictures and tape them on the wall around me. I could look at them when I needed to become erect and close my eyes when I needed to be less erect. In penis enlargement there are many girth exercises and some require a more erect penis then others. This was brilliant for my penis enlargement efforts and allowed me to train mobile. Penis enlargement on the road:)

In all of these methods there are wonderful tips to keep things interesting and fun. If penis enlargement isn't enjoyable it is easy to give up but when it is something you look forward to you will find greater gains and much more motivation.

DLD


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Monday, October 20, 2008

Setting a realistic goal



I was just answering a post on my FORUM on this topic and I thought a BLOG on it would be useful to the guys just starting out and those who have become discouraged because they have not made their goals in penis enlargement. The topic hear is setting a realist penis enlargement goal and keeping you inspired about your penis enlargement journey.

Many men who become involved with penis enlargement but are slow to make their goals end up quitting. One of the mistakes men make in penis enlargement is setting some crazy goal and expecting it immediately. An example that I see time and time again on my penis enlargement forum is a guy wants to add 3" to his penis and he wants to know if he can do this in a few weeks. Penis enlargement is not like this penis enlargement requires realistic goals and time frames. It may be difficult for some men to understand but penis enlargement is a commitment of time and dedication. A quick fix like adding an inch in a week would sweep the nation and men everywhere would be doing these exercises. The reason penis enlargement is not as popular as many would think is because of the time it takes to acquire their goals. Most men want what they want NOW but penis enlargement is for the patient.

The guys who are interested in penis enlargement and want to start a program should really sit down and create a goal sheet. For that matter, all people involved with penis enlargement should do this. Recognize your ultimate goal but keep it within reason. Expecting to come in with a six incher and leaving with a fourteen incher is just not going to happen. Expecting 3 inches of girth is also nuts in penis enlargement. These are not realist penis enlargement goals. A good place to start creating your penis enlargement goal sheet would be something like this;

Starting size: 5" in length and 4.5 inches in girth
Final goal size: 8" in length by 6" in girth.
Monthly goal increase: .25" in length, .15" in girth.

This should be part of your penis enlargement journal which should also contain the current penis enlargement routine you are using. A daily log on how your penis enlargement routine is progressing. If you want you could also include a photo to refer to as you progress in your penis enlargement journey. I would suggest that you measure once per month and that you keep track of your measurements as they increase. This penis enlargement journal will also give you clues to weather you penis enlargement routine is working for you. In some cases guys need to switch up their penis enlargement routines because they simply are not working for them. A more intense penis enlargement may be needed. Plus with all the penis enlargement exercises you can choose from will help you create this more intense penis enlargement routine. Keep in mind that the Matters of Size Members Site contains 5 routines with more intense workouts as they progress. This will take all the guess work out. But the journal will give you definite, hard data on your penis enlargement goals and you can get a picture of how long it may take as you collect this data. Very helpful in penis enlargement because many men just plain forget their starting size or don't know what routine works for them as they never keep track. Start and keep a penis enlargement journal.

After you have created your realist penis enlargement goal sheet you can start your penis enlargement with more confidence. I was just talking with a member of the penis enlargement forum on this topic. I told him that gaining an inch of girth is quite remarkable but expecting is quickly may discourage him as penis enlargement takes time, patience and effort. I said that an inch of girth is very realistic in penis enlargement but getting it will take smaller steps. Setting a goal of .25 every 3 months would be a wiser approach to his penis enlargement goals. As you gain in penis enlargement with these smaller goals you will be much more motivated and will be likely to get to your penis enlargement goals faster.

Riding a wave of accomplishment has always kept me motivated to continue on my penis enlargement journey. I made a final goal 3 times over my penis enlargement quest. First it was anything I could get but once I saw that penis enlargement truly worked I started to create my final penis enlargement goal. When I finally reached this goal, one step at a time, I would feel so happy but then I would want a new goal. In each case I worked towards smaller, more realistic goals. As time progressed my gains started to slow but this is normal, especially with how much size I gained. I was always motivated to go on as I was accomplishing my penis enlargement goals. In the first half of my program I was able to reach my goals on time. When I reached this point I would plateau and a change of penis enlargement routine was necessary. As a matter of fact the members site and how the penis enlargement routines are set up is a exact mirror of the 5 routines I used. Since I was one of the biggest gainers in penis enlargement in the world many wanted to know what these routines were so I created the site. The cool thing is it takes the guess work out, you see video explaining and showing each exercise contained in the penis enlargement routine. The program is set up for men to do phase one until they reached a plateau and then they would move to the next phase. Very cool penis enlargement site. The point is penis enlargement is a process of time and change. Your penis enlargement routine should follow you as you progress in your goals.

DLD


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Saturday, October 18, 2008

How Hard or Soft you should be for different Penis Enlargement Exercises

A big question in penis enlargement is the hardness or softness in the penis doing girth and length exercises. Many guys, when jelqing (the primary girth exercise) say they get too erect to do them. In my experience, for most girth work that does not include bending like DLD Bends or any exercise like it, I train at 100% erect. I guess in my penis enlargement experience I was only able to train this way because my penis would stay erect. In the first few months of penis enlargement it is suggested that the user remain just under the erect mark, maybe 20% and if this is possible do so. With me penis enlargement exercises that include girth work I have just not been able to do it. After a few months of training most guys doing penis enlargement can move up to a erect position during jelqing but those who stay erect just need to practice and understand the exercise from that perspective. I was not going to have my penis enlargement program suffer because I could not stay at 80%, no, I just had to adapt my issue to the exercise I was performing.

In penis enlargement there are many girth exercises. I think there are close to 50 just on my free penis enlargement forum. I have invented mant penis enlargement girth exercises myself and in every case I train at 100%, I have little choice. I think that any guy who remains erect in jelqing should continue to jelq but take care in doing so. For instance, my exercise, the Slow Squash Jelq and Bend found on the forums and paysite (somewhere in the BLOG too, no idea where) I was erect doing in and the exercise require the user to make a slight arc with the penis. This exercise could be potentially dangerous to the new penis enlargement user. But, just like myself, many of us needed to adapt a complete erect penis to this exercise. It is much safer, as stated before, to either stay away from "bending" exercises or be very careful in learning them if you are 100% erect. With a little practice any penis enlargement exercise can be modified to fit the penis enlargement user. The Slow Squash Jelq has become one of the most used penis enlargement girth exercises I have ever seen aside the standard jelq and for good reason, it works. So there is no way I would not do this penis enlargement exercise because it gives incredible expansion and the girth gains are very quick in coming.


The bonus to the erect penis enlargement issue it the expansion portion. In most girth exercises the goal is to bring the penis to an expansion above it's normal "erect" size. I have always felt that someone training at 80% erect would have a tougher time getting past the 100 point of expansion then someone who started at 100%. This I feel is a huge bonus in those with erect issues. In my case, getting beyond 100% expansion is easy as I start at 100%. In most penis enlargement forums you will find warnings to training at 100%, including my sites but some of us have little choice and we need to adapt. Take your time, as you should in any penis enlargement exercise, and slowly adapt to training at such a high level but I am sure you will see girth gains far faster than those training at less.

In almost all length penis enlargement exercise we should be training at a completely limp stage as something can stretch longer when it is soft and stretchable. An erection would be difficult to manipulate during basic stretching. Although there are some erect length exercises like "Erect Stretching" used to close the gap between erect length and flaccid stretched length but in most cases softer is better.

Many guys complain about being too hard during penis enlargement length exercise but there is a simple cure, masturbation. Masturbation, unless you are a super man, gives you a completely limp penis and stretching can happen then. Some men in my penis enlargement forum, including myself, feel there is merit to doing length work directly after orgasm. We have not investigated it completely and there is much more to explore but it does give a completely different feel to length work.

I hope this helps with these issues in penis enlargement.

DLD


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Friday, August 01, 2008

Penis Enlargement: Start Before School!

It is a normal occurrence in the penis enlargement forums to see a slow down during the summer months. I have always tried to figure out why penis enlargement slows down in the summer and I guess it is because school is out and the last thing guys are thinking about is using their penis for penis enlargement. Most schoolsters are more than likely using their penis this summer for more fun:) My penis enlargement forum www.mattersofsize.com/forum sees a slow down too during the summer and I think that there may be around 50,000 18-30 year olds as members and out of those guys about half are in school.

It is strange because I never see a new school year go by where there are not at least 3 or 4 threads about how someone wishes they would have done their penis enlargement exercises over the summer. If you are going to make your penis larger it is important to stay consistent, even during holidays and summer. The point is that penis enlargement does not really take to much time to get done daily. Another thing guys can keep in mind is that their penis enlargement routines can be reduced during the breaks in the year. It is better to maintain your penis size through maintenance penis enlargement than to stop all together.

For a lot of guys who are active during the regular months I see many of them take the summer off and then really struggle to get back into their penis enlargement routines. The vacation becomes permanent and the gains they were making stop. Consistency will really help you to keep making gains and never run the risk of loosing interest in the goals you want to make through penis enlargement.

Shorten your routine instead of stopping it completely. There are many things you can do in penis enlargement to create a routine that is a fraction of the time but still keeps you growing. If you look through this BLOG you will find a few threads that give excellent, reduced time penis enlargement sessions. Penis Enlargement Exercise in 2 Sessions is a nice BLOG that gives some great tips on how to make some changes to your current penis enlargement routine to reduce the time but keep the gains.

Stay consistent so the gains stay!

DLD

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Saturday, February 16, 2008

Modern Phalloplasty: Procedures, and Results.

Most men are familiar with the concept of making their penis bigger. Usually, it�s through an unwanted email with outrageous claims such as add 3-5 inches in WEEKS!. There has been a literal explosion in the exposure to penis related advertising in the print, audio, and visual media within the last few years. T.V. commercials featuring Bob, countless pills, products, etc. Even subtle, and not so subtle size matters type advertising not even related to the penis is out there, and messes with the minds of every man exposed to it, and makes him think of his penis in one way or another. The purpose of this blog entry is not to tackle the �does size matter, or not� argument, rather to enlighten men about the advances made in the last several years in the area of Phalloplasty.

Many of us have heard the horror stories, and/or seen images of botched operations. A man goes in to have his most prized possession enlarged, only to come out smaller, or horribly disfigured. Fortunately, this is NOT the norm contrary to what the media may want you to believe. There are still a few quacks out there who for whatever the reasons are still practicing, and disfiguring men. There are also, and in greater number doctors practicing in this specialized field who know what they are doing, and care about the end result, and making their patients happy.

THIS is the focus of this blog entry. To share modern procedures that are available, and to describe them in detail. Phalloplasty is an elective procedure. Meaning, its not necessary to perform, but can be performed. It is in the category of plastic surgery, and thanks to financing options now available through companies such as Capital One (Capital One Health Care Financing) can be very affordable, and is no longer out of reach for most men with decent or better credit. Payments can be as low as $116 a month!

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First, we�ll start with the most practiced procedures:

  • Penis Widening:

Penis Widening is making the penis thicker, or more girthy. There are two procedures for doing this.

1) Allograft Dermal Matrix Grafting (using Alloderm �)

2) Autologolous Dermal Grafting

Alloderm (Borrowed from Lifecell.com):

Core technology: AlloDerm is an acellular dermal matrix derived from donated human skin tissue supplied by US AATB-compliant tissue banks utilizing the standards of the American Association of Tissue Banks (AATB) and Food and Drug Administration's (FDA) requirements. Since AlloDerm is regarded as minimally processed and not significantly changed in structure from the natural material, the FDA has classified it as banked human tissue.

In other words, donated tissue that has been sterilized, and stripped of identifying cellular compounds which would make your body reject it. What�s left is basically an empty matrix of tissue ready for implantation, or grafting. In a matter of weeks your body begins to make it your own tissue. With Alloderm widening, typical first procedure result is an increase from ?� up to 1�. That may not sound like much, but I encourage you to make a paper cylinder measuring 5� in girth, and then one measuring 6� in girth. Compare the two visually, and based on how they feel in the hand. Big difference!

The doctor makes a curvilinear incision in the infra-pubic region at the base of the penis that approximately 2 inches in length and a second incision usually made approximately 5 mm proximal to the glans (the head) of the penis. This incision in necessary in order to insert the AlloDerm/Dermal grafting below the skin inside the front part of the penis for the girth enhancement procedure. Extreme precaution is taken to avoid major blood vessels and nerves. (From Mynewsize.com)

Typical cost for Allograft Dermal Matrix Grafting: $13,000

Autologolous Dermal Grafting: This option uses the patients� own dermal tissue for the procedure. Performed the same as with Alloderm. Typical first procedure result is an increase from 1� up to 2�. Why the big difference? Alloderm comes in sheets, and requires more material to achieve a similar result to Dermal Grafting. Also, Alloderm costs more due to its processed, and patented nature.

Typical cost for Autologolous Dermal Grafting $12,000

  • Penis Lengthening:

Penis Lengthening is making the penis longer. The penis is held in place partially by the suspensory ligament. This ligament connects the upper base of the penis to the pubic bone. An incision is made in the skin of the pubic area above the base of the penis, and the ligament is severed, and the penis is allowed to advance forward of the body. Contrary to popular misconception, the penis does not flop downward, or around uncontrollably when erect post operation. Erection angle usually lowers, but not dramatically. 10-15% lower erection angle is typical. Typical result is an increase in length from 1� to 2� post operation with potential for more if proper post operation physiotherapy is followed. This includes the use of a vacuum weight hanger typically. Typical cost for lengthening $7,000

  • Glanular Enhancement:

Glanular Enhancement is making the glans (head) of the penis larger. This is done by inserting either Alloderm, or a Dermal Graft under the �ridge� area of the glans. Patients can expect up to a 30% increase in glans size from this procedure. With Alloderm the cost is typically $7,000. With Dermal Graft $6,000. Again the price difference is due to the higher cost of Alloderm.

  • Reconstruction Of Other Phalloplasty Surgeries:

As mentioned earlier, there are unfortunately some doctors practicing who should not be. Once in a while they botch a procedure, and corrective surgery is required. The smart men find another surgeon. The corrective surgery can sometimes only require repair, but most of the time complete reconstruction is required. With a widening procedure that needs correction, the tissue which was implanted is removed, and replaced. With lengthening surgery that needs correction, the suspensory ligament was usually not cut enough, and is severed more completely. Any other corrective procedure that needs to be done is assessed, and the patient is informed of what needs to be done. Cost depends on procedures required. Unfortunately, it may mean starting completely from ground zero.

I hope this blog entry has been informative, and enlightening. Maybe some misconceptions you may have had have now been resolved.

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Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Some advice of Penis Enlargement Surgery

Penis Enlargement Surgery is becoming an option many men are leaning towards. It should first be known that there are many other options to consider in penis enlargement. There are also costs and risks that should be researched before approaching a decision to have penis enlargement surgery.

The average cost of penis enlargement length surgery is about $5,000.00 Other procedures like girth enlargement or glans enlargement will cost from $2000.00 and up depending on the surgeon. Penis enlargement length surgery gives about 1/2-1" in flaccid size increase. Erect size is usually less than 1/2 inch.

When the surgery is completed, in most cases, the surgeon will send you home with an extender like the one we sell on this blog. Funny but our price is $149.00 and I have seen some of the surgeons charging in access of $800.00 for the identical product. So if you have the surgery be sure to purchase your extender elsewhere. The reason an extender is suggested to the patient is to further lengthen the penis. In the surgery the suspensory ligaments are cut and this allows the penis to hang longer. The extender is suggested to increase the erect size.

The dangers vary and I thorough research is important. There are many sites online that will tell you the risks of penis enlargement surgery. You can also find it within this BLOG. The gains, as I stated, are minimal. I think most men only consider penis enlargement surgery because they have no idea there are other options.

The other options to consider are natural penis enlargement, penis pumping, extenders, hanging and some supplements like penis enlargement pills, penis enlargement creams, etc. Again, I suggest you research these methods also. Matters of Size is a natural penis enlargement site. The forum, site and this BLOG direct men towards penis enlargement exercise. There is some very good information on the 2 other Matters of Size site (www.mattersofsize.com and www.mattersofsize.com/forum) You will also find information and opinions on the other forms of penis enlargement.

The Matters of Size penis enlargement forum contains the following sub-forums:

Penis Enlargement Forum
Penis Enlargement Discussion.

Penisvergr�sserungsforen
The German MoS Penis Enlargement Forums.

Newbie Forum
This is For The Newbies of PE

Hanging Around
This forum is for the discussion of hanging.

Foreskin Restoration
For the discussion of foreskin restoration methods and experience.


Pumpers Forum
This is the Place to Discuss Penis Pumping.

Mental Penis Enlargement
Psychological P.E. � Self-View � Confidence � Emotional Support � Hypnosis

Your Routines and Progress
Post your current routine and progress reports

Body Building, Health, Fitness, Diet & Supplements
Discuss Diet, Health, Supplements and Exercise.

Mental Health and Wellness

Clamping Forum
Clamping information & help

Alternative and Experimental PE Methods
This is the Forum for Experimental and Alternate PE Devices and Methods inspired by Supra.

Penile Products, Reviews, Links & Problems
Penis Related Information, News & Links

Getting Better with Age
The older gentleman's club

Boo Boo's and Band-Aids
Issues on PE Injuries and Remedies, Peyronies/Bent Penis, Premature Ejaculation & Impotence

Picture Proof
Pictures from the members.

MOS Rules & PE Glossary
Please Read Before Posting.

Chuck's Chill Out Spot...Porn + Sex
The World'$ Best Skin and Wetness and it is all FREE

MATTERS OF SIZE STORE
The Official Matters of Size Adult Toy Store. Penis Pumps, Cock Rings, DVDs, Toys, Books, Etc.

Dysfunctional Caf�
The Buzz from the WorldWackyWeb

Deep Thoughts
A place to discuss non-pe issues

The Dating & Seduction Center
Tips on dating, seduction and using your new penis.

Sexuality
This is the place to discuss sexual issues. � Sex Tips � Sexual Help

Pixxxture Forum
This is the place to post sexy pictures.


Erotic & Sexy Stories
Post your favorite erotic stories here.

Members Video Forum
The Spot for Video

Article Submission
This forum is only for the submission of articles relating to penis enlargement.

So there are many resources on the forum to study and discuss. There are a ton of members also who will give you advice and help you with your considerations concerning penis enlargement surgery as well as every other form of penis enlargement.

Another good site is www.altpenis.com. They are one of the oldest and most trustes penis enlargement informational sites. You can find a lot of very good info on all male sexual issues.

DLD

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Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Penis Trauma and Erectile Dysfunction/The Penis Enlargement Link

So many men, or women who read this blog, may wonder what Penis Enlargement has to do with erectile dysfunction. My experience in the Penis Enlargement field has allowed me to discuss erectile dysfunction with a vast group of men. As I stated in the last thread, most of these men did not have any physical impotence, their lack of erections (or quality of) was more of a psychological issue.

Negative thoughts plague us from all directions. We fall victim to these negative thoughts and they prevent us from accomplishing many goals or hopes as we allow the power of the negative mind stop us from the good things in life, things we all deserve. Many men feel as though they don't deserve these good things and that is what prevents them from acquiring them. As cliche as this may sound, it is very true, if you believe you can have something you can. Whether it is a car, a house, a job, a relationship, and yes, a large penis that can become erect. These are all within the reach of those who desire them but their lack of belief keeps them inches away from our grasp.

In Penis Enlargement the mental piece is vital to making gains. The physical work is completely necessary but, in a sense, it is a result of the motivational factors of a positive outlook and a belief in the goal and ourselves. Dreaming of something is the first step but by itself things rarely manifest themselves. I have seen many men in Penis Enlargement fail because they believed this would happen even before they begin. I have also seen men come into Penis Enlargement and make insane gains because they believed they could, they believed they deserved them and they were motivated to do the work needed to make this happen.

I have often said "There is money all over the ground, all you need to do is pick it up." This has very little to do with monetary factors but more about taking what is rightfully yours. Everywhere in life there are opportunities, choices, different paths and infinite possibilities. We choose one when we make a choice. When we make a decision our choice becomes they reality we believe in. This is as scientific as it is philosophical. Read the poem I have quoted by Robert Frost, understand it and see it's application to this thread. It has helped me understand choices I have made and will make. It is a sort of anthem for those who need to believe in themselves and the choices they make.

"Two roads diverged in a yellow wood
and sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveller, long I stood
and looked down one as far as I could
to where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
and having perhaps the better claim
because it was grassy and wanted wear;
though as for that, the passing there
had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
in leaves no feet had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I --
I took the one less travelled by,
and that has made all the difference"

When we take a road less traveled, perhaps a change of attitude, we open up many wonderful revelations about ourselves. Just as in gaining in Penis Enlargement requires a positive outlook so does curing yourself from impotence. Erectile dysfunction, for many, is a choice. A decision that has created the necessary mental changes to make erections difficult. Changing this attitude is no small feat, it requires a strong, cognitive battle. A daily battle until we have become what we we want, what we deserve. The thoughts many men have about ED start pre-sex and manifest as sex progresses. A self defeatist dialogue may look like this:

I am feeling so sexual, I want to have sex with my girl.
But what if I can't get an erection?
Man, I hope I can get an erection and stay erect.
If I can't she will think I am such a loser.
Oh my goodness it is time for sex.
Come on, please work!
WHy is it not working *the hot flashes begin
What the fuck? Why is this happening?
*frustration sets in
This really sucks
This always happens.
She must think I am a loser.
I bet her old boyfriend never had this problem.
Fuck this, I will just stop having sex.
I never really deserved to have sex anyway
I have always been a loser
I hate myself.
etc., etc., etc.

Sound familiar? To many who have this psychological conversation may sound just like you. First we need to recognize the origin of this thought pattern to see where it began. It may have been an off night where you were not all there. Sex did not work and perhaps an argument ensued between your mate and you. Perhaps it was an injury you sustained that convinced you that your penis was "broke" somehow. Maybe it is a psychological trauma from a girl who may have belittled you as a man in some way. The reasons are numerous but it is important to find the origin of this thought pattern. Next thing I gather from the self conversation is a extreme tendency of irrationality. There are many definitive and judgmental term used. Things like "I can't", "This always happens" or "I hate myself". These terms leave no room for options. They are self accepted agreements that you wholeheartedly believe in.

There is also a tendency to make assumptions about the thoughts of your partner as stated in the dialogue as "She must think I am a loser." or "I bet her old boyfriend never had this problem." Assumptions are an agreement you make with yourself internally. Once an assumption is made we think and act on it as if we knew it were really true. Most of us have no idea how to read minds but we still become psychic when sex is involved. Many times, assumptions also lead to outward arguments with our partner. We may think "She must think I am a loser" and while in our frustrated state blurt out a remark to the affect of that assumption. In many ways we do this to affirm the negative thoughts about ourselves, it is almost as if we are looking for confirmation from our partner. When the argument ensues it usually leads to things being said that were not meant and trust being broken. I can understand this as the dialogue predicted it.

We can also get a picture of the human psyche, a picture that displays an addition to suffering. We, as humans, can become addicted to suffering just like any other habitual problems. It is much easier for us to fail than it is to succeed. We have been taught all our lives that we are not deserving of better things, we subscribe to the negative people around us, we validate our negative outlooks by the environment around us.

There is a strange phenomenon that is present in abusive relationships. Lets say a woman is being physically abused and leaves her man. In many cases she will repeatedly return to the relationship. Even though she is beat and abused she still returns. This has a lot to do with this discussion as she too is addicted. She has made an agreement with herself that this is what she deserves therefore she makes it a reality. This type of behavior is also present in any other form of self loathing where we allow the same thing to happen over and over even though it destroys us. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing again and again and hoping for different results. Of course they never happen but we think somehow they will.

We may hope that impotence does not happen but we still follow the same line of negative thinking hoping, somehow, it will change, get better or resolve itself. The same holds true in penis enlargement when men want to make gains so desperately but have already set themselves up to be the undeserving loser they believe they are. As sad as it is, it is true. When I first started penis enlargement I never allowed my thoughts to remain negative. I was constantly working on cognitive change and positive self affirmation. Penis enlargement for me was a snap. I believed in it, I believed I could gain doing it, I was motivated with a positive outlook, I was willing to work my ass off to get it and I got it. I left no room for failure, in my mind I had already accomplished my penis enlargement goals before I even started. The mental picture was clear and I only needed to become it...I did.

In erectile dysfunction the same approach need to be applied. As fake as it may seem we need to change the self dialogue and practice this mantra, of sorts, constantly until it sticks.

Lets look at the dialogue again with a complete positive outlook:

I am feeling so sexual, I want to have sex with my girl.
I can't wait, it is going to be so good?
Man, I can see myself thrusting with such power, such stamina, such virility.
She will be so impressed.
AWESOME! It is time for sex.
Let me start with some passionate foreplay and make my girl hot!
These hot flashes are so sexy, I love sweaty sex.
This is the best sex ever!
*eroticism continues
This is really incredible.
I am such a master of sex.
I know she thinks I am the man!
She's never had sex this good.
Fuck, I love having sex.
I deserve this so much!
I am such a winner!
I love myself.
etc., etc., etc.


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