Sexual/Performance anxiety

AsianSensation · Aug 23, 2015

So throughout my short life, Im only 21, Ive had sex with plenty of women and on and off I would get sexual anxiety where I can't or it takes forever to get it up. I don't know why or what it is but I am guessing it is my subconscious that as an Asian man, I have to be amazing sex fiend to prove to myself and the girls that the stereotype isn't true. I put too much stress on myself even though these girls already told me that I am better and larger than they thought at 6.5 EL and about 4.5 EG which Im working on to be about 7 and 5. And even after having amazing sex, sometimes the anxiety would come back and I would not be able to get it up for an embarrassing amount of time the next time I have sex with the same girl. Does anyone know how to get rid of the anxiety forever? Sex is supposed to be about pleasure and Ive tried to meditate and think my way through that it is all for fun and to stop putting pressure on myself but the anxiety still reoccurs sometimes.

templnite · Aug 25, 2015

Hebrews 10:10
By this will we have been sanctified through the offering of the body of Jesus Christ once for all.

God came down in human form, and sacrificed himself for each, and every one of us. So everyone as a creation of god is equal in value to him even though he'll need to send some of us to hell.
Some people don't understand this; they think they are special to the point of looking down on you. This may take away your confidence, but always remember that you have your individuality. No one can love your girl the way you can, and she will always remember you for doing it; unless she's a cockslut who can't love.

DLD · Aug 25, 2015

AsianSensation;660723 said:
So throughout my short life, Im only 21, Ive had sex with plenty of women and on and off I would get sexual anxiety where I can't or it takes forever to get it up. I don't know why or what it is but I am guessing it is my subconscious that as an Asian man, I have to be amazing sex fiend to prove to myself and the girls that the stereotype isn't true. I put too much stress on myself even though these girls already told me that I am better and larger than they thought at 6.5 EL and about 4.5 EG which Im working on to be about 7 and 5. And even after having amazing sex, sometimes the anxiety would come back and I would not be able to get it up for an embarrassing amount of time the next time I have sex with the same girl. Does anyone know how to get rid of the anxiety forever? Sex is supposed to be about pleasure and Ive tried to meditate and think my way through that it is all for fun and to stop putting pressure on myself but the anxiety still reoccurs sometimes.

For me sexual anxiety can last for the first few times I am with a girl. Once I feel comfortable with her I do just fine. I have trust issues and I need to trust before I go beyond a kiss. A really good practice I use to dispel anxiety and depression is using DBT (Dialectal Behavior Therapy), DBT is the best cognitive method to deal with these things. You can read and learn it at this site: Dialectal Behavior Therapy

LONGERDICK7+ · Aug 25, 2015

doublelongdaddy;660968 said:
For me sexual anxiety can last for the first few times I am with a girl. Once I feel comfortable with her I do just fine. I have trust issues and I need to trust before I go beyond a kiss. A really good practice I use to dispel anxiety and depression is using DBT (Dialectal Behavior Therapy), DBT is the best cognitive method to deal with these things. You can read and learn it at this site: Dialectal Behavior Therapy

coincidence? DBT want to know about that

DLD · Aug 26, 2015

shortdick;660998 said:
coincidence? DBT want to know about that

Please go and read about it and learn to master it. You are a lot like me and I know it will help you.

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