Emergency: Sos!

[slics]

Oh my fucking god.. I've hit the biggest barrier of my damn life.. I've been dating this really good looking girl (perhaps too good looking) for about 5 days now. Every single time we cuddle or even if I rub her back I begin to get a boner. This blows because then I'm trying to not show that my dick is getting hard while still cuddling. Same when we makeout.. which is really annoying since my pelvis is 80% of the time against hers. Yesterday I even masturbated before our date and 45mins later when I picked her up guess what, Well sparky kept trying to escape again. Any advice? I reeeeally like this girl and I don't want to fuck things up. Thanks for any help or advice.

EDIT: btw im 20 and she is 19. And I've recently been taking 2x Iron Vitamins a day if that effects anything idk.

 

[atlyroc]

dude its a natural action. how old are you and her. its jsut natural. i would be worried if you didnt get a boner. if she has a problem with she needs to know she turns you on. i understand it embarasing but its natural. im sure if ou guys have sex it will stop happining as bad. chill it natural jsut be happy you can get hard

 

[slics]

Yeah but i can just rub her arm and get hard and I have to constantly think about midgets eating babies and drinking shit to subside it. It really sucks. This is basically my first real relationship but she doesn't know that.

 

[atlyroc]

wel how old are you and her. it doesnt matter. she woil be happy she turns you on like that. it nautural just like taking a shit. i can be embarassing i know. the nbest thing you can do is just let her know that being aroung her arouses you. she obviously likes you or she would be wit you

 

[slics]

I'm 20 and she is 19. I know its natural but.. I hate having a boner for 90% of the whole date lol. I just keep hoping that one of these next dates it will eventually stop.. idk

 

[atlyroc]

the more your around her the less it will happen. if you guys get sexually active it will go away soon. try talkin to her about her and just learn to like her, not for how she looks. when you think nasty thought or how fine she is change subjsect till it becomes natural.

 

[samzman]

i get the same thing with my girl. i hug her and i start to stiffen up, every kiss, everything!! it's the feelings i have for her that does it. i can hug someone and feel nothing, but with her? i feel like i need to be close to her, and to me sex is the ultimate closeness....when it's with the right person....i feel your pain bro. but at least she knows that you're into her and if she feels the same way about you, the sex is going to be off the hook!!! don't be ashamed buddy, just smile and give her another kiss.

 

[Chaco]

Dude your 20 and you haven't had sex with her yet. It's very natural. One day you'll look back on this time and wish your body was so alive.

 

[slics]

i get the same thing with my girl. i hug her and i start to stiffen up, every kiss, everything!! it's the feelings i have for her that does it. i can hug someone and feel nothing, but with her? i feel like i need to be close to her, and to me sex is the ultimate closeness....when it's with the right person....i feel your pain bro. but at least she knows that you're into her and if she feels the same way about you, the sex is going to be off the hook!!! don't be ashamed buddy, just smile and give her another kiss.

Damn man exact same thing i feel ya. Maybe I am making too big of a deal out of this idk. It is the feelings rather than the looks that make me get hard. I can just think of her without any mental image whatsoever and boing. When I think about it I don't think its too big of a deal I guess I mean.. She is as perverted if not more perverted than me so idk. One of these days shes just gonna be suprised when her leg goes over my crotch and feels a stiffy tho hah. I'm about to go get some Frisches and bring some lunch to her at work. So I'll be back in like an hr or so.

 

[slics]

Is it possible to have this thread deleted? I'm paranoid this will be found. =/

Besides things are going real well now I just freaked out

 

[Wang Chung]

Yeah but i can just rub her arm and get hard and I have to constantly think about midgets eating babies and drinking shit to subside it. It really sucks. This is basically my first real relationship but she doesn't know that.

that is qoteworthy material

on a serious note, if she ever feels you boner, just bust out a joke like "I think i left a banana in my pants" or something else that will lighten the mood and made both of you feel comfortable

 

[MAXAMEYES]

Is it possible to have this thread deleted? I'm paranoid this will be found. =/

Besides things are going real well now I just freaked out

Too late: even your grandparents know who "slics" is!

Never, ever be embarassed at being aroused by a beautiful woman; the alternative is far, far worse. I suggest you try to learn dealing with it instead of suppressing it.
If this gal has any mature appreciation of human sexuality, she'll see this as the natural compliment your body is paying her beauty & sexiness that it is.

If she gets frightened and runs away, then you know that your Penis Enlargement is workin' just fine.

 

[psychotic]

Dude, if you don't appear to be aroused by her then she might just think "Let's be friends", what's wrong with getting a boner for fucks sake? How would you feel if she was dripping through her croutch when you were kissing her? Good? She'll probably feel the same.?

 

[Texasguy]

Yeah but i can just rub her arm and get hard and I have to constantly think about midgets eating babies and drinking shit to subside it. It really sucks. This is basically my first real relationship but she doesn't know that.

Lol, midgets eating babies, that is funny! Dude, relax, it's all natural. It's alot better than trying to get a boner. Tell her to touch it or something, c'mon! Its 2008!

 

[NSB503]

What the hell man, it's not a problem. If you're making out, I doubt she's worried that she's turning you on. Why? Because she is trying to turn you on.

 

[crazyed27]

Is it possible to have this thread deleted? I'm paranoid this will be found. =/

Besides things are going real well now I just freaked out

Dude pass THAT shit! Its gotta be that Dank?

 

[Wang Chung]

also try to drink a bit. it should relax you enough to stop any unintentional boners from poppin, if u must hide them.

 

[MAXAMEYES]

also try to drink a bit. it should relax you enough to stop any unintentional boners from poppin, if u must hide them.

HUH !?!?
Dude, you never got a beer dick?
Booze boner? Whiskey wood?
Dunno 'bout anybody else, but a
little
bit o drinking helps give me ragin' steel!

(A little more and I just want a nap & a sammich...and not necessarily in that order.)

 

[Wang Chung]

HUH !?!?
Dude, you never got a beer dick?
Booze boner? Whiskey wood?
Dunno 'bout anybody else, but a
little
bit o drinking helps give me ragin' steel!

(A little more and I just want a nap & a sammich...and not necessarily in that order.)

not at all

it has the opposite effect on me. While sensitivity decreases and longevity increases, quality of erections goes down somewhat. Also, more stimulation is needed than normally to get me erect at that state.

 

[10inchadvantage]

Sometimes I wish I had that problem. It'll probably go away after you start having sex with her.