All I see are videos of women laughing about cheating, talking about how men are useless without money. This all makes me less likely to approach women but any advice as to
finding the good ones?
I have become somewhat the same. It feels like you need to prioritize yourself for a while, so you will be in a better position to choose the good and right woman for you. This is by the way the best approach you can do as a man. No man should focus on a woman, and forget what he wants to do with his life.
For example:
I read comments from women about a dildo (Name of it: King Cock Realistisk Dildo 23 cm). The dildo's dimensions are 9"x6.6" and the comments was like this, one example:
Best dildo!
Got this from my partner, was skeptical at first because of the large size but now I don't want to use anything else. First dildo that I even sometimes prefer over my partner's real thing! Gives nice orgasms every single time, a little lubricant on top and it slides in perfectly.
She prefers it over her man's penis...
And this man must be stupid or something. Now she will probably look for a man with a big penis instead.
All the comments about this dildo was like this. It was big but it was extremely good for pleasure. So what to do? Make your penis big, and you have the advantage over all the other men out there.
This is also true: Dependent on the man, the woman will behave differently and treat the man differently. If you do not have any boundaries as a man a woman can walk all over you, and this is the worst place to be in, as a man. She will not respect you, and will look elsewhere.
Social media are brainwashing us, that's not good since you can't control the flow of information, and the information is probably not 100% objective.
That is: The confirmation bias theory.
There is probably a tendency to cheat by some woman but who are them? You can learn to spot the "red-flags" 🚩, if you are after a serious relationship. But you also need to look at your own behaviors. Are you a man she would respect? Can you end the relationship if she do not respect you?
These videos on social media can help you to learn about "red-flags", but do not let this discourage you from meeting women. This is only an angled view of the reality.
Further questions about this;
The men they are sleeping with, they find for example at the club, or the gym or elsewhere, are they even any good at sex? Can they even make her orgasms? Not just one or two.
Why are these women sleeping around? If they would find a good man...that is: you..
she would stay with you. Why would she sleep around if she are satisfied (100%) with you?
You need to ask these questions, to be able to question your view of the reality. You need to be proud of yourself.
(Your view of the reality: All women cheat and are promiscuous).
What you should do is to brainwash yourself, and make your own experiences your reality. Be the one that brainwash yourself. Do not let social media distort your view of your reality.
The information I have got from social media have helped me protect myself from no good woman (not wife material or girlfriend material). Last time, I was able to discard a woman that I saw showed all possible red flags. Bitch like behaviors and lack of respect to people around her. No thanks!
But you need to be aware of that this information from social media are brainwashing you. So be careful.
