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Sometimes it's hard especially when you trap yourself from time to time, with the "character" you once where.
Psychology Obsessive Thinking and Some Theory
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I agree with everything you said here. Very wise, brother.
I do think PE can be a form of mindfulness if you actually practice being mindful when doing it. I also meditate every day which has helped me with this ability more than I can express in words. It's a superpower really, without exaggeration. It primes your brain to let go of thoughts and to come back to the present moment. Which in turn helps you tremendously with everything in life. Letting go of the need to have immediate results is a big one for me.
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Now is always going to produce a past and a future so keep your head in the now making each moment matter.
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I have the same. When I'm determined to get something I'm getting it.
Not forcefully, it's like the universe are letting it happen for me.
It have become easier for me now to fulfill my dreams, when I got rid of negative people in my life. They where draining me of my life force.
I believe in myself now.
If you don't see something or believe something is possible, how are you then supposed to get it? That is why goal setting is so fundamental in penis enlargement.
Because if you do not believe it can happen for you, you may not be consistent enough to see the changes. Penis enlargement is something all men should do, in order to learn about discipline and being consistent and accomplish goals.
Without a goal you have no timeframe or no direction, you just know a subjective want in your mind.
It may or may not be strong enough, if it's not very clearly defined for yourself.
This is the main reason my logs for penis enlargement is written daily with pen and paper. For me it becomes more real to me. Writing on computers are not the same to me.
To others:
If you don't know how to define a goal, and break it down into a process for sucess, you should read about it (learn how to do that).
You should be able to be fully open in this brotherhood. This is something most of men do not have in the real world, at least me. I have no one to talk with about these things.
This brotherhood is my sanctuary.
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We truly are a great brotherhood!
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This is our home,it's been years since I found these forums I'm so fortunate to be part of it,not only P.E.related but in so many other ways
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❤️ thanks my brother
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I'm thankful, though these times are hard for me now in so many ways.I have to see the light and so many other things for my heart,soul and my mind..Pray for me so many positive changes ahead for my life.They have to happen I have no choice but to grow up and improve.
Today I went to this art class and the teacher talked about statistics about the life of older generations ( E:G) my parents had a 50 to 60% probabilities or even more of making more money, the same whit their purchasing power as well as having a quality of life like their parents.Nowadays the probabilities of having a quality of life,a decent purchase power are only 10%..Is this real?if so how can this be changed to increase it and improve it.
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You had posted a thread a while back about Body Dysmorphia. It can completely fuck up your young life, and it takes a variety of forms. I used to think it was just for trans folks, but it applies to people who are fat, or have a small penis, or are handicapped in some way.
When I first joined up here it was after I was looking all over the internet for ANY resource that could help me enlarge my penis because I felt too small to even get into a normal relationship, and being a fat loser I had NO female friends to help me with that. I felt like the reason they didn't talk to me was not because I didn't reach out but because of my weight and sexual impotence. That was not the case, but I had no one to go to for advice to the contrary; my parents didn't give two shits and I had no mentors that really acknowledged my situation.
These days I know I have more or less all the tools I need; I just need the time and the discipline to make it happen. I'm hamming it up with fitness at the moment whenever I have time, as I'm climbing out of a hectic mess so it's not always easy to find time, and it's hard to find uniform time for PE.
What's been hard for me to get over lately is aging. I'm only 35 but it's less about my current age and more like, I feel I wasted my 20s. YEAH I KNOW EVERYONE feels they wasted their 20s but some people got to just, BE healthy and fuck girls and get into relationships and go do dumb stuff on the weekend and I never got to do anything like that, and now that I'm in my 30s everyone's taking their life in a different direction and I feel weird when I am attracted to someone only to learn they're way out of my age range. (I have a bad eye for it.) There are gals that date older men and it works for them and I know I would be a great lover, but societal stigma is a heavy evil eye to deal with.
When I first joined up here it was after I was looking all over the internet for ANY resource that could help me enlarge my penis because I felt too small to even get into a normal relationship, and being a fat loser I had NO female friends to help me with that. I felt like the reason they didn't talk to me was not because I didn't reach out but because of my weight and sexual impotence. That was not the case, but I had no one to go to for advice to the contrary; my parents didn't give two shits and I had no mentors that really acknowledged my situation.
These days I know I have more or less all the tools I need; I just need the time and the discipline to make it happen. I'm hamming it up with fitness at the moment whenever I have time, as I'm climbing out of a hectic mess so it's not always easy to find time, and it's hard to find uniform time for PE.
What's been hard for me to get over lately is aging. I'm only 35 but it's less about my current age and more like, I feel I wasted my 20s. YEAH I KNOW EVERYONE feels they wasted their 20s but some people got to just, BE healthy and fuck girls and get into relationships and go do dumb stuff on the weekend and I never got to do anything like that, and now that I'm in my 30s everyone's taking their life in a different direction and I feel weird when I am attracted to someone only to learn they're way out of my age range. (I have a bad eye for it.) There are gals that date older men and it works for them and I know I would be a great lover, but societal stigma is a heavy evil eye to deal with.
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The world is evil at this point with all the far left policies. Sex has been turned from a beautiful thing to an impossible way forward. ���� has a big part in this too
You are in your 30s imagine how I feel in my late 50s. It is sad and evil in everyday we live. Thanks for reading my article
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That's right,���� is big fucking business these fucking days.Sex is so distorted these days. ���� is basically teaching and guiding the societies about what is cool and which ways are the best ways sex related.As long as someone have internet access ���� is available..Is there any possibility society takes a step back and reconsiders where are are going as humankind?
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I would hate for Jesus to come back and I was watching that filth. 🤮
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@Shion
This is life and it will always be. You need to evolve to grow, and struggle is the best teacher.
If it helps. You are not alone in feeling this. I also felt like I wasted my 20s, depressed and not happy. But I have always been a loner and always being a little diffrent, I never fit in with the cheeps (people that do not think for themselves, and only follow other sheeps).
Don't let societal stigma prevent you from being with a younger woman, disregard everything that others think or believe. Their opinion do not matter. As long as the woman are of age you are good (legal age, and like 18).
Personally I have no attraction to older women, if the woman is 30 she's to old. A woman should have time to bring forth many children, it should never feel like she need to rush it with you, just because her biological clock is going to run out. It's a hard truth.
If I had the same mindset and drive as I have now, I would have come much further in life. Chasing women will not give you sadisfaction in life. The strength for a man, is to control women when she can get to you, she should chase you.
I have heard a phrase like this: Fear is your way into freedom, or fear is your guide into freedom. I believe this is true. Danger is a real thing, but fear is only existing in our mind. When we go through fear we are strengthening our inner self, we need to be hard on ourselves to get through struggles.
You can come to this point. When you leave a social inviroment they wonder, who was this guy? You may or may not have been talking to them, they just feel your lifeforce and energy...you are diffrent, someting is diffrent about you. This is the mindset you need as a man (not narcissistic tendencies), you just feel that people are reacting differently to you. They respect you or maybe also long for you (a woman) even when they do not know you.
Don't chase women, let them chase you. If you need to chase them, it's the wrong kind of woman.
Self improvement and suffer you will need, in order to reach your true self. But another insight as well is that you are already enough to get where you are going in life.
It takes time and commitment every singel day for years on years, to get to the point where you feel, that hardship was all worth it. There are some gray areas here that I will not cover in this text.
Resently I wrote a text, the time to write it was like 3 weeks. I wrote it in 2 days because I have a master degree in procrastination, I call this a super power. Most people have not that inner fire that tell them, I will do this and it doesn't matter what it takes.
We need hardship to be the person we are now, only hardship can teach us the way we need to go. Go deep inside your soul and find out what you really want from life. If you want to cry do that, and move forward. Throw away your TV. That thing will not help you. Be obsessed with everything you do, don't let others determine your purpose or what you want to do in life. Be very careful with the people you let into your life. If a family member is abusive to you, or disrespect you in sone way (and keeps doing it) and it have been this way for years, maybe you need to figure out a way to block them from your life? So you can follow your own path in life...and finnely be happy.
I come from a very abusive family. Love didn't exist, only abuse and violence (not always physical violence). This will mess one up real good. But we can not look on where we came from...we need to be strong and push through the pain...chasing something that we really belive in...do the impossible...do something in life that nobody had ever had belived being even possibly. Do something you didn't belived was possible for yourself. Make yourself proud. Imagine you are going to tell your past self about the wonderful future he is going to get.
Do not do this for others...do it for yourself. When you start to experience sucess you need to say to yourself, that was great, and then give yourself a hug. If we are not used to others being kind to us, there is a chance you will be extremely hard on yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be your own best friend.
Do your best to love the process, be as much as you can in this present moment. This moment in time is the only moment we have. This moment you have, but you do not have past or future. These are only concepts in our mind. Use your past to be better for yourself and propel yourself to a wonderful future. Failure do not exist, only progression. You learn from every moment in life. Don't hqve regrets, regrets will not serve you, tell yourself that you did the best you could in that time in your life. Be kind to yourself.
You will keep going no matter what happens, giving up doesn't exist.
Don't let other people kill your dreams disregard that nonsense. Most people talk about others behind their back because they have no drive or purpose in life.
If you love a younger woman brother, and she's the legal age, go for it. It's your life and your happiness. You will make her life the best life she would ever experience.
By the way, never define yourself as a looser.
You are a winner!
Listen to this. This helps me at times.
Take care brother.
This is life and it will always be. You need to evolve to grow, and struggle is the best teacher.
If it helps. You are not alone in feeling this. I also felt like I wasted my 20s, depressed and not happy. But I have always been a loner and always being a little diffrent, I never fit in with the cheeps (people that do not think for themselves, and only follow other sheeps).
Don't let societal stigma prevent you from being with a younger woman, disregard everything that others think or believe. Their opinion do not matter. As long as the woman are of age you are good (legal age, and like 18).
Personally I have no attraction to older women, if the woman is 30 she's to old. A woman should have time to bring forth many children, it should never feel like she need to rush it with you, just because her biological clock is going to run out. It's a hard truth.
If I had the same mindset and drive as I have now, I would have come much further in life. Chasing women will not give you sadisfaction in life. The strength for a man, is to control women when she can get to you, she should chase you.
I have heard a phrase like this: Fear is your way into freedom, or fear is your guide into freedom. I believe this is true. Danger is a real thing, but fear is only existing in our mind. When we go through fear we are strengthening our inner self, we need to be hard on ourselves to get through struggles.
You can come to this point. When you leave a social inviroment they wonder, who was this guy? You may or may not have been talking to them, they just feel your lifeforce and energy...you are diffrent, someting is diffrent about you. This is the mindset you need as a man (not narcissistic tendencies), you just feel that people are reacting differently to you. They respect you or maybe also long for you (a woman) even when they do not know you.
Don't chase women, let them chase you. If you need to chase them, it's the wrong kind of woman.
Self improvement and suffer you will need, in order to reach your true self. But another insight as well is that you are already enough to get where you are going in life.
It takes time and commitment every singel day for years on years, to get to the point where you feel, that hardship was all worth it. There are some gray areas here that I will not cover in this text.
Resently I wrote a text, the time to write it was like 3 weeks. I wrote it in 2 days because I have a master degree in procrastination, I call this a super power. Most people have not that inner fire that tell them, I will do this and it doesn't matter what it takes.
We need hardship to be the person we are now, only hardship can teach us the way we need to go. Go deep inside your soul and find out what you really want from life. If you want to cry do that, and move forward. Throw away your TV. That thing will not help you. Be obsessed with everything you do, don't let others determine your purpose or what you want to do in life. Be very careful with the people you let into your life. If a family member is abusive to you, or disrespect you in sone way (and keeps doing it) and it have been this way for years, maybe you need to figure out a way to block them from your life? So you can follow your own path in life...and finnely be happy.
I come from a very abusive family. Love didn't exist, only abuse and violence (not always physical violence). This will mess one up real good. But we can not look on where we came from...we need to be strong and push through the pain...chasing something that we really belive in...do the impossible...do something in life that nobody had ever had belived being even possibly. Do something you didn't belived was possible for yourself. Make yourself proud. Imagine you are going to tell your past self about the wonderful future he is going to get.
Do not do this for others...do it for yourself. When you start to experience sucess you need to say to yourself, that was great, and then give yourself a hug. If we are not used to others being kind to us, there is a chance you will be extremely hard on yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be your own best friend.
Do your best to love the process, be as much as you can in this present moment. This moment in time is the only moment we have. This moment you have, but you do not have past or future. These are only concepts in our mind. Use your past to be better for yourself and propel yourself to a wonderful future. Failure do not exist, only progression. You learn from every moment in life. Don't hqve regrets, regrets will not serve you, tell yourself that you did the best you could in that time in your life. Be kind to yourself.
You will keep going no matter what happens, giving up doesn't exist.
Don't let other people kill your dreams disregard that nonsense. Most people talk about others behind their back because they have no drive or purpose in life.
If you love a younger woman brother, and she's the legal age, go for it. It's your life and your happiness. You will make her life the best life she would ever experience.
By the way, never define yourself as a looser.
You are a winner!
Listen to this. This helps me at times.
Take care brother.
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Wasted years are my punishment nowadays I'm paying a high price for it. I never imagined how serious important and precious time is.
If I hadn't waste all of these years my life would have been completely different as it's now.Procrastination,Depression n low self esteem kept me down and away from acting.Im living a shitty life I never wanted in a place that's not the best.Among so many other unpleasant situations..
If I hadn't waste all of these years my life would have been completely different as it's now.Procrastination,Depression n low self esteem kept me down and away from acting.Im living a shitty life I never wanted in a place that's not the best.Among so many other unpleasant situations..
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That's right Mike,above everything there's a God,very few really believes in God from the heart.A better way forward awaits and not look back, I hate looking back,I hate digging out the past,it's not ok feeling my self as a failure...What Are your thoughts on the Matrix.How could you explain that?
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What do you mean matrix?
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