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Yup the mental piece is even more important than the physical as without believe there can be no gain. How do you get something that you do not believe you can have? You don't. Believing is essential to all gains in life! I wrote a sermon on this in one of my ministries. I will put it here for those who are interested.
You don’t ask for something you don’t believe you’re going to get.
That’s the big catch when we think of praying to the Father in Jesus name that we will ask and we will receive. The big catch is you have to believe. If you don’t believe you can attain it then it’s something you should not even ask for because you’re lacking the very ingredient to make your prayer work Belief. If you can’t believe it You can’t receive it.
If you lack belief or faith in the things that you’re praying for it’s a good idea to ask others who do have faith and believe to pray for you. Sometimes, as newbies, we have to fake it till we make it. What I mean by that is prayer takes practice and sometimes we don’t know how to pray and that is why it is good to have others pray for your faith and belief to increase! And also remember that when we can’t pray the Holy Spirit prays for us. And when we are faithless Jesus is faithful for us!
I, being a minister for many years, still sometimes lack faith. I was very ill over the past eight weeks and about a week ago I lost my hearing in my left ear. I prayed to God for healing and I also attached to that prayer “thy will be done.” I didn’t realize that I was doubting Jesus! He did not heal until somebody told me something I needed to hear (literally and figuratively 😇
this is verbatim but a women said something like “I pray that you be healed immediately in Jesus name“ I immediately doubled that and replied “ May God’s will be done”. The big Holy doubt!👶 She immediately rebuked me saying something’s along the lines of “have faith and it will be done” I returned saying “pray for my faith” and she did.
This morning when I woke up the first thing I heard was a pop, my hearing slowly came back over an hour! I praised the Lord and even tested up! I then immediately thought about the woman and how I doubted the immediate healing powers of Jesus. I realize that when I said let ‘God’s will be done’ it was a cop out on my lack of belief that Jesus could heal me immediately. Today my mind is been renewed and I now know I can ask Jesus for anything if I truly believe it will happen immediately.
We all grow daily in the renewal of our minds! I thank those who helped increase my faith!
You don’t ask for something you don’t believe you’re going to get.
That’s the big catch when we think of praying to the Father in Jesus name that we will ask and we will receive. The big catch is you have to believe. If you don’t believe you can attain it then it’s something you should not even ask for because you’re lacking the very ingredient to make your prayer work Belief. If you can’t believe it You can’t receive it.
If you lack belief or faith in the things that you’re praying for it’s a good idea to ask others who do have faith and believe to pray for you. Sometimes, as newbies, we have to fake it till we make it. What I mean by that is prayer takes practice and sometimes we don’t know how to pray and that is why it is good to have others pray for your faith and belief to increase! And also remember that when we can’t pray the Holy Spirit prays for us. And when we are faithless Jesus is faithful for us!
I, being a minister for many years, still sometimes lack faith. I was very ill over the past eight weeks and about a week ago I lost my hearing in my left ear. I prayed to God for healing and I also attached to that prayer “thy will be done.” I didn’t realize that I was doubting Jesus! He did not heal until somebody told me something I needed to hear (literally and figuratively 😇
this is verbatim but a women said something like “I pray that you be healed immediately in Jesus name“ I immediately doubled that and replied “ May God’s will be done”. The big Holy doubt!👶 She immediately rebuked me saying something’s along the lines of “have faith and it will be done” I returned saying “pray for my faith” and she did.This morning when I woke up the first thing I heard was a pop, my hearing slowly came back over an hour! I praised the Lord and even tested up! I then immediately thought about the woman and how I doubted the immediate healing powers of Jesus. I realize that when I said let ‘God’s will be done’ it was a cop out on my lack of belief that Jesus could heal me immediately. Today my mind is been renewed and I now know I can ask Jesus for anything if I truly believe it will happen immediately.
We all grow daily in the renewal of our minds! I thank those who helped increase my faith!
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doublelongdaddy;750566 said:Yup the mental piece is even more important than the physical as without believe there can be no gain. How do you get something that you do not believe you can have? You don't. Believing is essential to all gains in life! I wrote a sermon on this in one of my ministries. I will put it here for those who are interested.
You don’t ask for something you don’t believe you’re going to get.
That’s the big catch when we think of praying to the Father in Jesus name that we will ask and we will receive. The big catch is you have to believe. If you don’t believe you can attain it then it’s something you should not even ask for because you’re lacking the very ingredient to make your prayer work Belief. If you can’t believe it You can’t receive it.
If you lack belief or faith in the things that you’re praying for it’s a good idea to ask others who do have faith and believe to pray for you. Sometimes, as newbies, we have to fake it till we make it. What I mean by that is prayer takes practice and sometimes we don’t know how to pray and that is why it is good to have others pray for your faith and belief to increase! And also remember that when we can’t pray the Holy Spirit prays for us. And when we are faithless Jesus is faithful for us!
I, being a minister for many years, still sometimes lack faith. I was very ill over the past eight weeks and about a week ago I lost my hearing in my left ear. I prayed to God for healing and I also attached to that prayer “thy will be done.” I didn’t realize that I was doubting Jesus! He did not heal until somebody told me something I needed to hear (literally and figuratively 😇
This morning when I woke up the first thing I heard was a pop, my hearing slowly came back over an hour! I praised the Lord and even tested up! I then immediately thought about the woman and how I doubted the immediate healing powers of Jesus. I realize that when I said let ‘God’s will be done’ it was a cop out on my lack of belief that Jesus could heal me immediately. Today my mind is been renewed and I now know I can ask Jesus for anything if I truly believe it will happen immediately.
We all grow daily in the renewal of our minds! I thank those who helped increase my faith!
Awesome to hear.
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I've been edging. No ����. My sessions have been short around 10-15min. Haven't had a ponr for 2 weeks. Saving for some equipment hopefully I can get it in couple of months
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doublelongdaddy;750701 said:
Taking the edging slow and not like a jack rabbit, focusing on my breathing, relaxing, when the point of no return starts creeping up. Reverse kegel.
I need help with my metal game!?
Now I know how strong the metal game is. When I was younger in my teens I would fap till ponr, then in a matter of 20-30mins I would force myself to get an erection by fapping when it was soft and stroking like a jack rabbit. I would tense up my stomach and when I was doing that I would kegel hard the whole time so my head would feel sensitive. I would think about the feeling of cumming. Then boom ponr. I made myself like this to cum quickly, very quick less than 3mins and I really hope I can undo this mess.
It's really frustrating. No sex life cuz being a two pump chump is not fun. Now I'm in my 30s. Hope to improve one day at a time. I got a partner but I feel for her cuz I can't last at least 5mins.
Crazy, I just was thinking today what made me like this. Trying to pin point my problem and I found the problem, so now I know I'm getting somewhere just chipping away.
Any advice by anyone is very appreciated.
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Pineapplesavage;750862 said:
The FleshLight is a very good piece of equipment that is fun to use and will bring you lasting power. It feels so much like the real thing that you can practice endurance. It was a great buy for me and helped me. There are also many manual ways to improve here. My main point was we can practice these things without ����.
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doublelongdaddy;750907 said:
I'll give that a try.
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Pineapplesavage;750925 said:
Please do! It is the smallest investment to teach men how to last as long as they like. It is better to practice on a FleshLight than the woife!
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Pineapplesavage;750862 said:
I am not sure if I can give you any advice other than to not be hard on yourself. You said that you have found the problem and this alone should put you on the path to getting it corrected. It often takes longer to fix something than it did to break it so take it one day at a time and keep a positive outlook
Man that flesh light ain't no joke y'all.Man,has anybody on here who has fuck a flesh light for 30 minutes are more without stopping are slowing down?I was like man, i am aleast going to last 10 minutes could not do it was so intense i had to bust a nut.
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rlue11;750985 said:
I wish more men with lasting issues would take advantage of the power of the FleshLight. It feels identical to the real thing giving real practice.
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doublelongdaddy;750997 said:
Have to give this a try. I had to take days off cause I was having blisters.
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Pineapplesavage;751118 said:
A great activity to practice hen you are going through an injury. The FleshLight really should be priority for anyone with premature ejac. issues.
has anyone heard about putting Colgate toothpaste on their penis for longer sex? I just herd about it today on youtube.I tried it, and man it is powerful numb feeling,going to try this with the flesh light for a double endurance training.
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rlue11;751274 said:
That will most likely cause some burning in the vagina, I would not do this. It is far better to master yourself and learn endurance. The FleshLight is the best way to practice endurance as it feels just like the real thing. If you can last in the FleshLight that will translate to lasting longer in sex.
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doublelongdaddy;751315 said:
I see the benefits of edging. What was the timeframe you, for example when you started edging to the time you noticed you could cum on command. I know everyone is different. Just want to hear some success stories. Anyone chime in.
I'm still consistent with edging 10-15mins with no ����.
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Lookn4girth;750959 said:
Thanks bro.
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