are you still insecure?

collosaltitan said:

The thing about PE and insecurities as a whole is that there will always be something else that arises if one insecurity is taken care of, or even so if you improve upon an existing insecurity then it will only get worse as your current standard will go up.

For example if you are insecure about your 5 inch penis and you get it to 6 inches then you may be happy for a while, but then you may hear the number 7 and think that yours is puny compared to that, now all of a sudden you are insecure about your 6 inch penis. This cycle then continoues for all eternity in some cases.

I think that no matter what size you're at you will always want more, unless of course you find a woman and don't feel the need anymore, that is the ideal scenario.

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William White said:

I still feel insecure sometimes cause my wife said she been with a guy that had 12inches I don't believe her I just think she just won't me to feel some type a way.

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Dave4139 said:

There’s a website out theee called dick calculator. And it shows the statistical probability of that etc based off number. Partners.

I know DLD is close but statistically he is such an anomaly that the likelihood of that happening is almost zero.

Especially depending on her number of partners.

Also “girl inches” are a thing too

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William White said:

Thanks, for this Dave.

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William White said:

I still feel insecure sometimes cause my wife said she been with a guy that had 12inches I don't believe her I just think she just won't me to feel some type a way.

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Dave4139 said:

My wife said she had someone who was 7-8 inches before. And at the time I was like sub6 or maybe 6.

Then I got to a decently thick 6.5 and she said it was getting big. So I can presume she would know a huge difference between that and an actual 8
I’ve struggled with similar.

My main goal is to solidify that it’s the biggest my wife has ever seen. If I hit 7.5 and she agrees it’s certainly the biggest she’s seen. I’ll be golden with that

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collosaltitan said:

Take a look at the statistics of how many guys in the world have a dick that big. I bet it's less than the number of guys who stand 7 foot and above in height.

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William White said:

I still feel insecure sometimes cause my wife said she been with a guy that had 12inches I don't believe her I just think she just won't me to feel some type a way.

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squirt_inducer_man said:

We are good as we are, our confidence as a man are not dependent on external factors. It comes from within.

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squirt_inducer_man said:

Women do use shit tests to test us men, probably it was one of those.
Because I can promise you a real 12 Inch long penis is not common. It's highly unlikely that will happen naturally. Just look at a ruler, and see how long that is. It's over 30 cm, 30.48 cm exactly.

Women often do these "shit tests" not aware of them doing them.
Men also do them (shit tests) but in a more covert way, often to see if she's promiscuous or not. Because we do not want to take care of anyone else child. We want to spread our DNA to the next generation. So why waste time with the wrong offspring? It's the basics of human evolution. Most species works this way. And out psychology/social dynamics are formed/based from this fact.

Interesting fact about chimpanzees.
For example chimpanzees have a different mating system then humans. Male chimpanzees have bigger balls and more sperm, and their females are more promiscuous then human females. So the males strategy then, is to flush away the previous man's sperm and fuck the females when they can, in order to make sure, it's their offspring that gets born.

A common shit test women use, is to see if we as a man get jealous. If we are not showing we are jealous, we will pass the test. Women do these tests to evaluate if we are the best choice for a partner. They want a strong and secure man (for protection and security).

Also a common thing they do as a "shit test", is to see how we are handling our EGO being attacked. If we are strong in ourselves we will not care so much about that. We are good as we are, our confidence as a man are not dependent on external factors. It comes from within.

If we go back in time, it was essentially a life or death situation to choose the right man. If the woman ended up with the wrong man. The wrong man would abandon her at her most vulnerable state (being pragnent), and this would mean death for her and her unborn child.
These "primative" behaviors is still there. Women will test us men, to see if we are the best man for the job.
This is just scratching the surface on this topic.

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William White said:

I did not know this I failed the shit test.

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William White said:

I did not know this I failed the shit test.

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Dave4139 said:

You only truly fail when unable to learn from a mistake. Knowledge is power and now you know more.

You’re more powerful than you were previously before this thread. It’s all about how you structure the framework

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William White said:

Thanks, Dave you made me feel better. I don't have that many men to talk to and especially about men issue like pe. Love the brotherhood on here on MOS.

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