Cheating

REDZULU2003 said:

Its just cowardly, and not dealing with the cracks on the wall.

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Word to life!!!!!

Ok swinging can be a good relief for some couples if they can stay together after having sex Whit people that is not part of their lives, what could happen is that one of them going to fall in love Whit the "strange" member ...

Swinging is a different thing.......
Many "COUPLES" choose the swinging lifestyle because it is there decision.....

Yes, being in swing lifestyle is cheating if you are hiding this from your partner but it is not when you both are engaging in it
It is not cheating when you have the consent.

That’s the lifestyle I could never get into.

DLD said:

That’s the lifestyle I could never get into.

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Why?

Avglen61 said:

Why?

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Because I believe in monogamy and I believe that we should have a wife and that relationship should be sacred.

DLD said:

Because I believe in monogamy and I believe that we should have a wife and that relationship should be sacred.

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Me too.... DLD
Me too

Avglen61 said:

Me too.... DLD
Me too

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I need some advice.....

Recently I had seen Mr. Robot. In that series, there was a scene in which a wife was ready to have an affair with another man. The reason she was ready was because she was unsatisfied. She even opened her legs(literally) and kissed that guy.

The reason I am asking is because she had no remorse on her face......
This thing... this thing makes me uncomfortable.......

I just do not like betrayal. It makes me uneasy.....
How do I cope with it?

What do I do.....?
I just cannot think out of this.....

The reality is that get to know the person you want to be involved Whit there's a possibility that she or he could be liars or cheaters n would take the opportunity if the opportunity shows up,sooner or later a breakup could happen too.i have heard about it a few times before lol

Anytime we cheat we are cheating ourselves.

DLD said:

Anytime we cheat we are cheating ourselves.

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That's the real reality I wanted to say but it seems like...

DLD said:

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this is agape love. As you know, we had 6 types of love.

this love comes from God and returns to God. Us humans are impossible to fell this love without God.

There is this video that I want to share......


This is the video from a ted talk. I want you to listen carefully and try to imagine what happens to a person when he/she experiences infidelity

I heard a story on the internet about infidelity which is 100% true......

There was a millionaire(60 years old) who was divorced for a very long time. He has 3 kids. In the divorce he lost half his wealth and got joint custody of the kids.
One day he got sick and went to a doctor. There he was examined and he found out that he has been infertile for a very long time. Realizing that already has 3 kids, he reached out to the mother. The mother said that she had an affair for 4 years when she was with him and the kids are the result of that affair.
Realizing this he filed a lawsuit. The mother offered him quarter million dollar instead of the name of the father. He accepted the offer and won the lawsuit.

Now this story really gets me.....

1. The woman got pregnant from somebody else and somebody else had to take up the responsibility of the kids.......
2. She didn't tell her husband about the affair until after the divorce......
3. The guy cannot have a kid of his own now. If she would have told him sooner, maybe he would have a kid of his own........
4. The guy still does not know the man whose kids he has been raising......(this is kinda his fault)
5. The mother didn't lost anything. She got half a million dollars from divorce and paid the husband quarter million dollar in the lawsuit. She still made a profit of quarter million dollars.

There was another story........

A 95 year old guy had a wife 93 years old(both were japanese). Both had been married for a very long time(maybe 60 years). The wife told the husband that she had an affair for quite some time 50 years ago. It was the only affair she ever had.Listening to this, the husband divorced her. YES... THE 95 YEAR OLD HUSBAND DIVORCED HER WIFE OF 60 YEARS.

Now.... I can see the mindset of this guy. I would have done the same thing if I was him.....

1. She hid the fact that she had an affair for 50 years......
2. She told him at the very end of his life. So he kinda wasted his life with the wrong woman......

Avglen61 said:

5. The mother didn't lost anything. She got half a million dollars from divorce and paid the husband quarter million dollar in the lawsuit. She still made a profit of quarter million dollars.

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capitalism has won again

People that cheat either must be unhappy otherwise why would you? or they get some fetish turn on doing it. Either way, if you care, even love the person your with, its something that should not occur. Communicate feelings, perhaps end the relationship and shag as much as you like.

People's upbringing is another important thing to take into account, easy women are easy to find they'd look for you n have fun with you,they stay for a while if they like what they get,or they might leave too who knows,.

People lie they just want to feel the thrill of it,they have the need to be with someone etc.

You may find cheaters in your life, you're not supposed to stop looking for the person you want