case study extremely big problem. HELP SOMEBODY PLEASE....

somehow ive ended here after battling this injury for al most 6 months. im in my 40's . i had jelqed off and on and pumped for a month or 2. nothing serious. felt better, and hung better it seemed. no real serious gains expected. just wanted better bloodflow and quality.

one day, i jelqed a bit harder than i had been, but no pain, and jsut for a minute. next day i pumped and accidentally went more than i wanted. no pain. immediately released and red along the base of the shaft. within the day it was gone. several days later i woke up with a shrunken unit and slight numbess on the shaft. had all hard flaccid symptoms.

was scared, so continued making my self have sex,. after a month or so, it seemed it was subsiding. i still woke up in the morning with a chub. but everything shrank to nothing during the day.then it started seeming like if we had sex more than once a week, it would traumatize everything and destroy my libido and size again.

very sensitive glans with burning /cooling feeling. shrunk all day. no erections. no night erections. then it would come back a week later with her, and we'd have sex again. eventually i figured out we had to quit for awhile. 6 months later, here i am. we just went a month of nothing. i still walk around all day shrunk to nothing. we had sex 2 days ago and it was great, but now it seems to be overly sensitive again. only time i hang normally , is if i lay down in bed awhile. but soon after i get up, its all gone again.

sensitivity/nerve damage, seems likely, but not sure. nothing feels like me down there unless im hard. it doesnt seem like i did anything too hard/painful to cause this, but i obviously did. not sure if this will heal ever, but i cant take any more panic attacks and anxiety. its hard to make it to bedtime every day. its the only relief i get.

it feels like i have half what i did on a normal day now, with no arousal. ive also noticed a constant pressure moreso while shrunken, in my rectum /perenium area,that tightens when i flex my penis. i get decent morning/night erections sometimes, and sometimes not as much. but im sure my anxiety day to day is effecting that . i cannot masturbate to get hard since the 2nd month of this, due to it irritating the nerves it seems on the head. actual sex doesnt irritate it as much, but it still does.

i always have the numbness/sensitivity issue to some degree, but its super bad when its shriveled up and burns. im just not sure the nerves will heal, and i dont know what to do now. im mentally exhausted and depressed. i can barely force myself to work or do anything that involves moving. it lets me know every step of every day what ive lost.
 
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right now it seems as if i feel a wierd sensation that shoots up my penis to the tip internally when i kegel, like its not healed or something is the best way i can explain it. if i have a really intense erection during sleep and wake up flexing it, this feeling is more pronounced the next couple days, so ive been trying to abstain from anything at all hoping something will start healing. but everything seems to shrink and set me back when i do anything. ive even had good night erections trigger all the bad feelings all over again if i wake up flexing it during the erection. it just feels completely exhausted and over used. but id have thought after a month, it would show some improvement. i guess it has. sex didnt totally destroy me this time. but it for sure did not make anything remotely better. sex used to boost my libido. it does the exact opposite now. and it has faded more and more the past 4 months

You might need to go to the doctor my friend I know it’s not easy to talk about your penis to the doc but if it continues I would go and not hesitate.
 
ive already been twice. they just say it looks normal, and its too hard to hurt a penis to be anything i did. sigh.....last night was horrible. it seems it has been dying a slow death for 6 months, and just keeps declining. guess thats about allthats left of me.
 
ive already been twice. they just say it looks normal, and its too hard to hurt a penis to be anything i did. sigh.....last night was horrible. it seems it has been dying a slow death for 6 months, and just keeps declining. guess thats about allthats left of me.

Stress can kill your penis maybe focus on other things eat a bit healthier go for walks and seek other interests. You never know in time it might pop back up.

It all starts in the mind.
 
yes. stress is bad. and that does kill things. i eat really healthy actually, so nothing there. im trying to do things, its just really hard when its half the size it should be flaccid, and tender and lets me know about it every step i take all day. whats really weird, is even though its unresponsive with no drive all day long, i could almost have sex every morning if i wanted to. but its after the fact that kills it. if i have sex,it destroys any drive i had, and shrinks everything over the next week it seems before i get anything back at all. and makes it even more sensitive on the head . guess i gotta just wrap it up like i did yesterday and try to pretend its not there anymore for awhile.
 
yes. stress is bad. and that does kill things. i eat really healthy actually, so nothing there. im trying to do things, its just really hard when its half the size it should be flaccid, and tender and lets me know about it every step i take all day. whats really weird, is even though its unresponsive with no drive all day long, i could almost have sex every morning if i wanted to. but its after the fact that kills it. if i have sex,it destroys any drive i had, and shrinks everything over the next week it seems before i get anything back at all. and makes it even more sensitive on the head . guess i gotta just wrap it up like i did yesterday and try to pretend its not there anymore for awhile.
Maybe not have sex for a while and just relax?
Doing PE and having sex simultaneously I can imagine, are really hard on the penis. The penis needs recovery as well, especially when doing PE.
 
.im not doing any pe period. havent since august. nor do i want to. i just want my normal size and libido back. i waited a whole month between sex this time to see what happened. it was awesome, but at the end of ejaculation, i had a slight burning. i dont think it crushed me as bad as before when we did it about every week or so, but still really bad. maybe it needs several months? thats why i came here to get some kind of closure hopefully from somebody that did something like this. i do feel a slight uptick today in arousal, but not much. im just not touching it anymore for a long time i reckon. no idea what else to do
 
.im not doing any pe period. havent since august. nor do i want to. i just want my normal size and libido back. i waited a whole month between sex this time to see what happened. it was awesome, but at the end of ejaculation, i had a slight burning. i dont think it crushed me as bad as before when we did it about every week or so, but still really bad. maybe it needs several months? thats why i came here to get some kind of closure hopefully from somebody that did something like this. i do feel a slight uptick today in arousal, but not much. im just not touching it anymore for a long time i reckon. no idea what else to do
I wish I could help. I don't know why you are experiencing this. Have you talked to a doctor a this, maybe they can help and/or guide you in this.
 
i so wish that was true. i may agree if i didnt have sensitivity and ed issues which started just days after i was a little more aggressive. doctor is in play, but not till april. but i highly doubt ill get anywhere with that.id give anything to never have done this. this is so life ending its unreal. i dont know how ive made it this long, but its all starting to really set in hard how much this ruins everything . i hope nobody ever has to endure this period, or stops before it happens. theres literally no warning and theres not a worse helpless feeling in the world...
 
the more this goes on, the more it still seems like hard flaccid symptoms. except ive lost the hard flaccid part mostly on most days. but it does appear sometimes. its weird the fact everything kinda relaxes back to almost normal when i lay down after an hour or so.and especially in the morning. and if i keep my mind half sane, i get night erections. but daytime, is complete garbage.
 
the more this goes on, the more it still seems like hard flaccid symptoms. except ive lost the hard flaccid part mostly on most days. but it does appear sometimes. its weird the fact everything kinda relaxes back to almost normal when i lay down after an hour or so.and especially in the morning. and if i keep my mind half sane, i get night erections. but daytime, is complete garbage.
I've had this problem before. But after a few days it solves, it's definitely a fatigue issue.
 
i would love for this to be a few days. 6 months of this roller coaster has worn me down
 
i agree. ill keep praying as it goes. god has kept me strong this far.

Look into healing peptides like TB500 and BPC157.

I had a penis injury and an actual hole in my pelvic region. I had to pack it with gauze. Was an inch deep and an inch wide. Took over a year to heal. It was terrible. But there’s always light at the end of the tunnel. Long story short but I wish I would have known about these healing peptides sooner.
 
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