case study extremely big problem. HELP SOMEBODY PLEASE....

somehow ive ended here after battling this injury for al most 6 months. im in my 40's . i had jelqed off and on and pumped for a month or 2. nothing serious. felt better, and hung better it seemed. no real serious gains expected. just wanted better bloodflow and quality.

one day, i jelqed a bit harder than i had been, but no pain, and jsut for a minute. next day i pumped and accidentally went more than i wanted. no pain. immediately released and red along the base of the shaft. within the day it was gone. several days later i woke up with a shrunken unit and slight numbess on the shaft. had all hard flaccid symptoms.

was scared, so continued making my self have sex,. after a month or so, it seemed it was subsiding. i still woke up in the morning with a chub. but everything shrank to nothing during the day.then it started seeming like if we had sex more than once a week, it would traumatize everything and destroy my libido and size again.

very sensitive glans with burning /cooling feeling. shrunk all day. no erections. no night erections. then it would come back a week later with her, and we'd have sex again. eventually i figured out we had to quit for awhile. 6 months later, here i am. we just went a month of nothing. i still walk around all day shrunk to nothing. we had sex 2 days ago and it was great, but now it seems to be overly sensitive again. only time i hang normally , is if i lay down in bed awhile. but soon after i get up, its all gone again.

sensitivity/nerve damage, seems likely, but not sure. nothing feels like me down there unless im hard. it doesnt seem like i did anything too hard/painful to cause this, but i obviously did. not sure if this will heal ever, but i cant take any more panic attacks and anxiety. its hard to make it to bedtime every day. its the only relief i get.

it feels like i have half what i did on a normal day now, with no arousal. ive also noticed a constant pressure moreso while shrunken, in my rectum /perenium area,that tightens when i flex my penis. i get decent morning/night erections sometimes, and sometimes not as much. but im sure my anxiety day to day is effecting that . i cannot masturbate to get hard since the 2nd month of this, due to it irritating the nerves it seems on the head. actual sex doesnt irritate it as much, but it still does.

i always have the numbness/sensitivity issue to some degree, but its super bad when its shriveled up and burns. im just not sure the nerves will heal, and i dont know what to do now. im mentally exhausted and depressed. i can barely force myself to work or do anything that involves moving. it lets me know every step of every day what ive lost.
 
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B vitamins like B12, B6, B3, B1 are essential for nerve health. These vitamins can help with the healing of nerve damage and relieve nerve damage symptoms like numbness and tingling—this is why they are called 'neurotropic' vitamins.

It will heal, but takes time. Wondering how Hard your training was? Mine are intense, and I havent had these kind of problems. 🤔
 
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B vitamins like B12, B6, B3, B1 are essential for nerve health. These vitamins can help with the healing of nerve damage and relieve nerve damage symptoms like numbness and tingling—this is why they are called 'neurotropic' vitamins.

It will heal, but takes time. Wondering how Hard your training was? Mine are intense, and I havent had these kind of problems. 🤔
It was from the prolong intense clamping sessions. I wished I would have return sooner to help the brothers that still are doing crazy clamping without consideration. I've gone through it too. It can be safe if you do it correctly. Most don't and suffered. We have quite a bit of records of those who did and assisted them with neuropathy healing processes in the past. We stopped with the assist once the big box store sent out various campaigns to stop people from using the clamps after about 5 years.
 
It was from the prolong intense clamping sessions. I wished I would have return sooner to help the brothers that still are doing crazy clamping without consideration. I've gone through it too. It can be safe if you do it correctly. Most don't and suffered. We have quite a bit of records of those who did and assisted them with neuropathy healing processes in the past. We stopped with the assist once the big box store sent out various campaigns to stop people from using the clamps after about 5 years.
Clamping is murder to your penis
 
B vitamins like B12, B6, B3, B1 are essential for nerve health. These vitamins can help with the healing of nerve damage and relieve nerve damage symptoms like numbness and tingling—this is why they are called 'neurotropic' vitamins.

It will heal, but takes time. Wondering how Hard your training was? Mine are intense, and I havent had these kind of problems. 🤔
i been taking those for awhile now. i didnt really have time to even have training. just a few times for a few weeks to help blood flow until one day i did it a little more than normal. no pain,no discomfort. nothing. bam. destroyed
 
just a few times for a few weeks to help blood flow until one day i did it a little more than normal. no pain,no discomfort. nothing. bam. destroyed

This is where it happened to me too. One day, just three sessions in, even with protective paddings on both sides to protect the dorsal nerves and blood vessels, I went a tad too hard. I knew right away the pressure exceeded my upper limit, roughly around 15inHg in air. Internally, your penis should not be over 12inHg. This is a critical zone for damages. Externally, you can go as high as 20 inHg, but the internally, that's when you must pay attention at all time. The brothers here always say, "Listen to your penis." They're not kidding. When doing the SSJ, pay attention due to the pressure. When that internal pressure goes too high, the ballooned tissues will push against everything from the internal to the external. It's literally a truck runs over your legs ordeal.
 
well. i would have listened . but it didnt say anything . luckily, i thought it was a bit much and immediately let out. that or the excessive jelq i did the next day. it sure feels like the jelq did it to me, but i cant be positive. but i do know i wore my regular boxers today for the first time in quite awhile, and while im not anywhere close to normal yet, it was the most normal day ive had in a very long time. the feeling was positively going more towards normal than i can remember
 
well. i guess im feeling as good as i possibly can considering this mess. it will either get better or it wont from here i reckon. i dont really know whats to come yet. i dont know that i can ever really have good sex again or masturbate . but oh well i guess. for now, im just riding it out best i can.

one thing i cant understand or get over is what i have to walk around with now all day. its flat rediculous what ive become. i have super hard erections every night now it seems. but anytime thats not happening by itself, im not myself at all. super short and thin with no plumpness whatsoever. and i still get the tight rectum/ perennium feeling, and even pains when kegeling sometimes. its quite depressing to have a thumb as a penis now. i dont know if itll ever come out of it. i skip a lot of showers now, cause its just depressing to know what once was and isnt anymore. i guess at least it isnt cold and burning every day now. life just sucks now.
 
well. i guess im feeling as good as i possibly can considering this mess. it will either get better or it wont from here i reckon. i dont really know whats to come yet. i dont know that i can ever really have good sex again or masturbate . but oh well i guess. for now, im just riding it out best i can.

one thing i cant understand or get over is what i have to walk around with now all day. its flat rediculous what ive become. i have super hard erections every night now it seems. but anytime thats not happening by itself, im not myself at all. super short and thin with no plumpness whatsoever. and i still get the tight rectum/ perennium feeling, and even pains when kegeling sometimes. its quite depressing to have a thumb as a penis now. i dont know if itll ever come out of it. i skip a lot of showers now, cause its just depressing to know what once was and isnt anymore. i guess at least it isnt cold and burning every day now. life just sucks now.

No more kegel exercises. It's like poking the scab of a a healing wound. I can understand the kegel portion while you urinate or defecate. But no volunteered kegels exercises.

Feeling better is indeed an indicator you are going in the right direction. Keep at it. If healing takes only over night or short period, then our bodies become superhuman. Reality is no so friendly when we are injured. My ankle has yet to heal to 100% after a moderate injury 20 years ago, but I still nurture it and maintain its strength building throughout the days. Once you injured something, recover is not 100% but you can work it to return it back to 99%. Don't lose heart.
 
No more kegel exercises. It's like poking the scab of a a healing wound. I can understand the kegel portion while you urinate or defecate. But no volunteered kegels exercises.

Feeling better is indeed an indicator you are going in the right direction. Keep at it. If healing takes only over night or short period, then our bodies become superhuman. Reality is no so friendly when we are injured. My ankle has yet to heal to 100% after a moderate injury 20 years ago, but I still nurture it and maintain its strength building throughout the days. Once you injured something, recover is not 100% but you can work it to return it back to 99%. Don't lose heart.
no, not kegel excercises. i dont do that period. i just mean the random kegel like flex i subconsiously do throughout the day. i assume all guys do. i always have. maybe a few more months will help. not sure
 
thanks. theres just no replacement to fix your head when you lose everything youve ever gotten used to. by just playing around, ive pretty much canceled the rest of my lifes worth from here on out. im still just baffled to what i wake up to every day at 6 am only to be demoted to a 5 yr old the rest of the entire day and night.
 
Have some faith and know that things will get better. I continue to pray for you.
 
kinda reached a new point. not sure what to think of it just yet. overall feeling really decent. penis feeling wise has improved overall. it has changed somewhat for the better currently. doesnt tingle or anything. oversensitivity has diminished alot. only a few times a day does it seem to alert me to a sensitive feeling. feels almost normal most times in that respect.

other than that though, its just kinda like im just here to pee and thats about it. i just dont get any arousing blood whatsoever mostly. unless i try to mentally force it. and even then, it aint much. i dont know if its just mentally not allowing it, or if its physically blocked. it feels physical sometimes when i try to get an erection. just feels restricted with my tightness in the rectum and inner penis. i dont notice the inner pains(not hurtful pain,just tight pressure mostly) while im up moving, but they are there. when i sit down and quit moving is when i can really notice them. i guess my busted up nerves just shut the whole system down all day now, and thats just how it is. feels so worthless to even walk.

so, basically, i can at least live a little better than i have been. that is, if i can keep my head out of realizing what ive done to kill it. it just feels like i dont have any sexual parts anymore unless i try to force it. but here comes 6 am, and everything comes back strong until i get out of bed. then back to nothing again. very confusing and stressful.
 
I spoke to a few higher-power researchers in the fields, and I hope you allow me to offer you their insights and apply their knowledge. What they imparted to me was:
  • For pelvic nerves and tissues impacts and damages, time will heal, based on each individual. However, promoting blood flood is essential. There are pelvic region massaging equipment already in the market that focus on getting the blood to migrate, combine with warmth and low stimulation of tissues. An example is a full heating chair with shiatsu massages. By encouraging constant stimulation of warmth, massages/vibration as stimulation, and relaxation, the nerves will heal fast.
  • Using STIM/TENS units to reduce nerve misfires. I personally have a Quattro 2.5 at home for uses, but it assists with overactive nerves misfiring. This reduces the throbbing pains for the affected regions. My wife uses constantly for her neck, back, shoulders, legs, and butt. Yep. She pelvic region hurts when she have to run around 12 hours a day. Her nerves flair up and her butt literally twitches. After 60 minutes low intensity application, she becomes relaxed to the point she falls asleep. Something to think about.
  • Low budget warm oil massages. You can use warm palm/coconut oil to constantly massage the region of throbbing pain when you get a chance. Use a warm water bag and keep the muscles within the region relax as much as possible.
A few others are not replying yet, but I'll pass on the info as I receive their emails.
 
yes by all means. any insight is something to consider. im all ears. i cant give up, but yet every day pushes me to the limit of crying literally. and some days i cave. this is nothing short of horrible.

i cant really do any massages, cause the tense pains feel internal, as in bwteen the rectum(inside) and my urethra( but more inside the pelvis, not the external penis). i get really anxious every time my feelings,or pains change even a little bit. even though its usually a positive change, i think i expect it to be close to over , and its really no where near, and it really shakes me up all over again.

it just sucks when i do have an arousing thought. i feel things well up inside me down there, but all i feel is tenseness deep inside, and i never get that boiling blood rush i use to. the semi erection i do get from it, just seems like it only goes 1/2 what it should and hits a wall or something pressure wise, but yet feels tight at the same time. definitely smaller feeling. 6 am is usually a different story, and not caused by me though.

its so hard to say what i feel, but i know before this went down, cialis would definitely make a difference during the day. a lot. and at 6 am, it would almost hurt it was so hard. now i cant really tell if it does anything at all during the day. im not sure what that means, but its not good.
 
yes by all means. any insight is something to consider. im all ears. i cant give up, but yet every day pushes me to the limit of crying literally. and some days i cave. this is nothing short of horrible.

i cant really do any massages, cause the tense pains feel internal, as in bwteen the rectum(inside) and my urethra( but more inside the pelvis, not the external penis). i get really anxious every time my feelings,or pains change even a little bit. even though its usually a positive change, i think i expect it to be close to over , and its really no where near, and it really shakes me up all over again.

it just sucks when i do have an arousing thought. i feel things well up inside me down there, but all i feel is tenseness deep inside, and i never get that boiling blood rush i use to. the semi erection i do get from it, just seems like it only goes 1/2 what it should and hits a wall or something pressure wise, but yet feels tight at the same time. definitely smaller feeling. 6 am is usually a different story, and not caused by me though.
speaking of blood rush....i never remembered this till now. all through my life when i was about to have sex and almost fully hard, if i kegeled it, i would feel that good intense blood filling feeling. back in august shortly after this happened, when i was going through a short hard flaccid stage, this was still happening, but i remember a time or 2 it felt "gurgly" for lack of better words. or like it was being restricted. and after that, i kinda seem to remember just getting hard. no blood rushing feeling. everything, including size, just kinda seemed to peter out after that less and less as months go on.
its so hard to say what i feel, but i know before this went down, cialis would definitely make a difference during the day. a lot. and at 6 am, it would almost hurt it was so hard. now i cant really tell if it does anything at all during the day. im not sure what that means, but its not good.
 
I believe you're talking about the bulbospongiosus and ischiocavernosus affected region. Yep, happens so often to extreme off-road motorcyclist, mountain cyclists, and gymnasts. Direct traumas to this specific region caused so much griefs and exact the pains and suffering you described. This is where time will heal. Let me reach out to one of the acquaintances I know that suffered this in the past due to off-roading incidents. He couldn't have good sex for over a year because of the extensive trauma at the described region. Just peeing alone was a challenge.
 
i appreciate it. i just donnt kow how i would have caused that cause this had nothing to do with off roading. lol. i used to get super awesome feelings of somethig flowing to my groin from pelvic stretches, which i still try to do, but that has faded in effect as well. now it just doesnt seem to help much anymore
 
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