How Do you Feel About You GF & vibraters

So my Gf said to me the other day she wants a vibrater, so i asked why does she want one, she says all her friends have one and she feels like she is missing out, so I said yeah I dont mind you getting one, she then asked will I go with her to get one. Not sure how I feel about it, I might feel ok if she wants one that is smaller than me. How do you guys feel about your GF or wife with vibraters.

Dude go right ahead and get her one yourself. It'll enhance your sex like like you wouldn't believe...Trust me on this mate.

Just get her one that you feel confortable about. Hint - Get her one that's easy on anal and that may just be the perfect excuse for her not to want a huge one. Combine your skills in bed with a vibrator ( dildo ) and you get the WOW effect on her. Are you following me? Dildo in the "back" AT THE SAME TIME that dick is on the "front". She will love it i'm sure. Have done that many times b4 and the response is...The WOW effect.

Another HINT - LOTS OF LUBE my friend. When you think it's enough just put some more. Get one with flavour cause they seem to like it better than just plain'old vaseline which they say tastes sour.

Peace

Good luck

Mike

My wife has quite a collection that has built up over the years,a couple of plastic vibes,3 realistic dildos the biggest about the size of shane diesil,a rampant rabbit.

Bare in mind these are sex toys and they will never compare to a real cock,so don't start worrying how big they are,even if she got one that was bigger than you she wouldn't suddenly be dissatisfied with your cock.

If she is after a vibe then spend a bit of cash the cheap ones tend to be noisy as hell,as mike pointed out a smaller vibe can be more fun if she is up for some back door action,also she can rub her clit and your cock with a vibe while fucking and its a very nice experiance.

If she is wanting to penetrate herself then a dildo is better.

Are you in the uk? ann summers shops are good to buy from but pretty expensive.

Ive ordered many times from this site,very quick delivery only a day or two.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/

Highly recommend this one dildo/vibe combined,soft and flexible,quite,hits the g-spot,not to big or smallhttp://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?id=1702

I say go for it bro. Sometimes I'd rather just get a blow job then fuck and thats a good excuse if she aint into backdoor action, as prince albert put it. Just be sure to not get all insecure about her choice in a toy as they already said.

My g/f bought one that was the exact same size as me... I mean it was uncanny. It was like my cock made of some kind of pink rubber with a vibrating bullet in it. But she didn't like it. And I was kinda disappointed that she didn't, she said it was uncomfortable... weird I think, maybe we didn't use enough lube. But my g/f is a prude about sex- can't hardly talk to her about it without her getting uncomfortable... which really sucks ass. Communication is key to good sex.

Ask her if you can have a mistress then?

My girlfriend will vibrate rarely if she is lonely and horny. I don't mind at all. I just make sure she doesn't make a habit of it so she doesn't get desensitized. Also, she said there's nothing like a real cock in her, vibrating feels good, but not nearly as good as getting pounded.

8InchMIKE said:

Dude go right ahead and get her one yourself. It'll enhance your sex like like you wouldn't believe...Trust me on this mate.

Just get her one that you feel confortable about. Hint - Get her one that's easy on anal and that may just be the perfect excuse for her not to want a huge one. Combine your skills in bed with a vibrator ( dildo ) and you get the WOW effect on her. Are you following me? Dildo in the "back" AT THE SAME TIME that dick is on the "front". She will love it i'm sure. Have done that many times b4 and the response is...The WOW effect.

Another HINT - LOTS OF LUBE my friend. When you think it's enough just put some more. Get one with flavour cause they seem to like it better than just plain'old vaseline which they say tastes sour.

Peace

Good luck

Mike

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I agree with all of this. It's like a MMF 3 some without having to deal with another guy. She'll love it and associate most or all of the joy with you.

PenilePersist said:

I agree with all of this. It's like a MMF 3 some without having to deal with another guy. She'll love it and associate most or all of the joy with you.

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I have been considering trying this out as well. Sounds like fun!

10inchadvantage said:

I have been considering trying this out as well. Sounds like fun!

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The only possible downside I see is that she may eventually want a MMF 3 some and you may not want that. But, life is probably too short to worry about that and I'm sure it could be discussed and handled reasonably.

Otherwise, why stop at 1 dildo when you could have 2 and stuff all her holes at once!?!

Yes, I'm a freak.

PenilePersist said:

The only possible downside I see is that she may eventually want a MMF 3 some and you may not want that. But, life is probably too short to worry about that and I'm sure it could be discussed and handled reasonably.

Otherwise, why stop at 1 dildo when you could have 2 and stuff all her holes at once!?!

Yes, I'm a freak.

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My girlfriend doesn't even like the idea of kissing another girl, why would she want another guy to fuck her?

10inchadvantage said:

My girlfriend doesn't even like the idea of kissing another girl, why would she want another guy to fuck her?

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You probably don't like the idea of kissing another guy but you'd probably want another girl to fuck you. Challenge me next time.

PenilePersist said:

You probably don't like the idea of kissing another guy but you'd probably want another girl to fuck you. Challenge me next time.

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I wouldn't want to have a FMF threesome. It'd kill me to know I was making love with someone else. I don't care how bad she wanted me to do one, I'd still always feel bad.

say sure u can have one after you help me decide which fake vagina i want this looks better than yours,lol

I actually went with my GF to a shop. She didn't know much about it due to her location. More rural. Vibrators are healthy for her to use. It doesn't do anything special for me other than get her in the mood. A rabbit vibrator or G-Spot vibrator targets a specific location men typically miss when doing oral. So if she is using the vibrator in that specific spot, mirror it the best you can with your mouth and get feedback from her.

Dildo's try to stay away from. Luckily when she saw �naked people movies� star-type of dildo's she wasn't impressed nor would she buy it. I would NOT feel comfortable with anything or anyone inside of her in that matter, other than MY penis.

So no dildos but vibrators yes. You can suck on her breast while she is doing it. Kiss her. Tell her, I love you or how beautiful she looks. Touch her all over. Enhance her erotic thought process as she does it. She can even give you oral. Some women can simply get off giving oral sex alone if stimulated enough.

If your penis cannot reach, simply get on top of the bed as she is laying down, and position your penis over her mouth. Don't be stupid and invade her space so she cannot breath and truly enjoy herself. Let her position her mouth as you just stay in that position. When she is ready she will suck on it but don't force it!

Just my take on it from experience.

How do I feel?
Funny thing is I have a post in here with my concerns on my missus and her dildo and my ego. Well the truth is we all masturbate and if you do not you are a freak but anyway she just wants to have some fun and fun she will have with you there and with out you there.
But while you are at the sex shop have some fun I love going to the sexshop with the missus you can find all sorts of things. We are really into bored games at the moment that involve sexual things. Nothing wrong with sprusing up the ol sex life.

www.edenfantasys.com

Its a pretty legit site for sex toys. I got my girlfriend one as part of Christmas and although she SAYS shes only used it twice so far, I know its been a few more times than that Were doing the whole long distance thing so I figured this would be a good gift to get her....I got the B3 Onye. Its a pretty small vibe but got good reviews and even came in a fancy little box hehe

Check out that site, you'll find some good ones there!

i've bought a few toys in my day for women i dealt with..i see no problem at all...don't think of it like you are doing something wrong or they need something more than you...it is just to heighten the experience you already share...i use to love watching her play with herself with the jack rabbit while i watched...then she will ask me to come over and put my dick in her mouth while she came...it was a pretty good experience..any woman that is shut off to toys completely probably isn't open to a lot of things and that is not my type of woman

Man vibrators are hot i say go for it. Tell her the only thing is that she has to put on a really sexy show for you, know what i mean

I liked to watch them use their toys while I sit down with my cock out my pants wanking off in full view of them, all thick and juicy looking. I'd use the toy on them aswell and even double team with my cock in her puss and that in her anus, or rubbing her clit. while with my fingers rubbing the outside of her flaps as my cock goes in and out of her cunt ... they loved it.

Same here sex toys are SO FUN! don't compare it with your cock, it would be like your girlfriend being jaloux on your hand because you can masturbate more tightly.

and its fun as hell to do the buttplug + penis on her, and she will love it, also take her anal and let her play with a sex toy like the dolphin (which stimulate clit+ vaginal) will make her get like double orgasms, its really fun.
+if a girl masturbates her need for sex will also be improved, which means you get more lucky. Thrust me nothing bad comes out of sextoys (as long as you don't bye the pile driver and ruin her insides)