Psychology Obsessive Thinking and Some Theory

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Hello, I hope to find help from you. Please I found this topic by chance, and I suffer from these symptoms not only with regard to size . but I have obsessive-compulsive disorder in many thoughts and I do not suffer from coercion only I suffer from frequent thoughts a lot I know I ignore it helps and helped me a lot, but After I read your topic above, first my English is a little bad because it is not my primary language. I understood from you that Ignorance does not work in reducing OCD well as it is a temporary solution and makes the brain insensitive to thought and the mind has no value as I explained from your sentence : If I was able to have the thought and move on without problem solving my brain would eventually become desensitized to the thought and it would no longer hold value (hence, the compulsion would no longer be necessary)
is this that your intention!!As I understood from the phrase
I hope for clarification, please,
Also, I wish to clarify this idea to me and what is the best solution. Please, is it complete disregard or answer rationally and then ignore, especially with raging ideas. I hope a solution to it from your experience

I also wish to clarify this paragraph for me

My problem is that it becomes very hard to resist the anxiety releasing compulsions because they temporarily fix the problem. But believe it or not when I give myself a strict time limit to the action and move on even if I get an answer I do not like the thoughts go away much quicker. It's called starving the obsession. If an obsession has no compulsion to feed on the obsessions become powerless.

How do you not want I do not like the thoughts go away much quicker!!

me in my case when thoughts disappear quickly and are quickly ignorant of them. This is what makes In good condition
i talk about disturbing thoughts that are not welcome. Also, you are a writer My problem is that it becomes very hard to resist the anxiety releasing compulsions because they temporarily fix the problem

Does this mean that I am completely ignorant does not help, or am I the matter different in my case with obsessive thoughts and your state of obsessive analogy in any case they share in being equal thoughts

In the end, I hope to clarify the matter and help me overcome this matter and guide me to the right steps

Because obsessive-compulsive disorder is the worst thing in my life, because I overcame it and permissible it. I will improve a lot in terms of confidence

I hope you understood me because my English is bad and it is not my first language
 
@DLD
Hello, I hope to find help from you. Please I found this topic by chance, and I suffer from these symptoms not only with regard to size . but I have obsessive-compulsive disorder in many thoughts and I do not suffer from coercion only I suffer from frequent thoughts a lot I know I ignore it helps and helped me a lot, but After I read your topic above, first my English is a little bad because it is not my primary language. I understood from you that Ignorance does not work in reducing OCD well as it is a temporary solution and makes the brain insensitive to thought and the mind has no value as I explained from your sentence : If I was able to have the thought and move on without problem solving my brain would eventually become desensitized to the thought and it would no longer hold value (hence, the compulsion would no longer be necessary)
is this that your intention!!As I understood from the phrase
I hope for clarification, please,
Also, I wish to clarify this idea to me and what is the best solution. Please, is it complete disregard or answer rationally and then ignore, especially with raging ideas. I hope a solution to it from your experience

I also wish to clarify this paragraph for me

My problem is that it becomes very hard to resist the anxiety releasing compulsions because they temporarily fix the problem. But believe it or not when I give myself a strict time limit to the action and move on even if I get an answer I do not like the thoughts go away much quicker. It's called starving the obsession. If an obsession has no compulsion to feed on the obsessions become powerless.

How do you not want I do not like the thoughts go away much quicker!!

me in my case when thoughts disappear quickly and are quickly ignorant of them. This is what makes In good condition
i talk about disturbing thoughts that are not welcome. Also, you are a writer My problem is that it becomes very hard to resist the anxiety releasing compulsions because they temporarily fix the problem

Does this mean that I am completely ignorant does not help, or am I the matter different in my case with obsessive thoughts and your state of obsessive analogy in any case they share in being equal thoughts

In the end, I hope to clarify the matter and help me overcome this matter and guide me to the right steps

Because obsessive-compulsive disorder is the worst thing in my life, because I overcame it and permissible it. I will improve a lot in terms of confidence

I hope you understood me because my English is bad and it is not my first language

I saw your message in Discord and I was going to answer you there but this is pretty in-depth so send it to my email so I can spend time reading it over before I reply. Send it to guru.dld@gmail.com
 
@DLD
I sent it check the email and thank you very much for giving some of your time and reponding to me
 
@DLD Thank you very much for giving some of your time and responding to me, and thank you for your prayers. Your response helped me a lot, especially that method. Only I have alast question
Inquire about one of the points I have sent the message in the e-mail

Is it possible to answer my last question? I will be thankful for that and will not forget your favor
 
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@DLD Thank you very much for giving some of your time and responding to me, and thank you for your prayers. Your response helped me a lot, especially that method. Only I have alast question
Inquire about one of the points I have sent the message in the e-mail

Is it possible to answer my last question? I will be thankful for that and will not forget your favor

I think I answered you in my last email if you did not get it let me know
 
I fucking hate not being able to get certain people off my head for GOOD!! I fucking hate it i think about them every ten mins or so LOL is a real torture
 
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I fucking hate not being able to get certain people off my head for GOOD!! I fucking hate it i think about them every ten mins or so LOL is a real torture

i’m going through that right now my brother and my advice is the same thing I’m doing myself. When that comes up and I think about things people have done to me and I start to be upset I simply say “Trust you God“ and the thoughts are gone. Not for good but for that moment. But as you get more experience with this it will be almost automatic. Letting people rent space in your head it ain’t worth it. And with that saying I still allow people to rent space in my head rent free. This is something everybody struggles with and I find it easier to forgive and forget and let it go! Suffering with negative thoughts is so counterproductive. I we can’t change the past and we have no idea what the future holds. So let’s stay in the moment at peace.
 
i’m going through that right now my brother and my advice is the same thing I’m doing myself. When that comes up and I think about things people have done to me and I start to be upset I simply say “Trust you God“ and the thoughts are gone. Not for good but for that moment. But as you get more experience with this it will be almost automatic. Letting people rent space in your head it ain’t worth it. And with that saying I still allow people to rent space in my head rent free. This is something everybody struggles with and I find it easier to forgive and forget and let it go! Suffering with negative thoughts is so counterproductive. I we can’t change the past and we have no idea what the future holds. So let’s stay in the moment at peace.

Yep fucking people they just can't be living inside my head rent free ever!! But yeah I have to trust the almighty he's the light ?️in this senseless world
 
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Yep fucking people they just can't be living inside my head rent free ever!! But yeah I have to trust the almighty he's the light ?in this senseless world

Amen my brother!
 
everything you said you need to see the other side of and put it into practice in memory. Our brain likes to see the negative when we say things like I have no money, I’m not making gains, my life is not changing etc. we live it out! When you can take those things and say to yourself I am OK for today. At this very moment nothing bad is happening. See yourself as making money, making gains, making the things you want happen by setting your mind on the positive aspects.

I struggle with everything you struggle with and how I deal with it is very easy. I know I’m very wealthy because of God and I know that God is going to take care of me today. I don’t need the riches of this world, I need the wealth of my savior. Money to me is simply a way of surviving. I have no desire to make more, I am content with where I am. Having a lot of money does not make a man good in many cases it makes a man bad.

The biggest thing I do is see everything that comes my way as a blessing. Even if it’s a pile of shit drops in my lap I will find the silver lining. When I’m able to feel blessed in bad situations imagine how blessed I feel to good situations.
One of the biggest wealth in my life right now is my present moment, this moment nobody can take from me. Only thoughts about past and future will take me from this moment.

The other wealth in my life is all the wonderful and beautiful people I'm meeting every day. The regrets I have is when I have not been able to be fully in the present moment, that moment have just passed by, even when that moment was one of the most beautiful moments of my life...It's like I'm fleeing from this present moment to get somewhere else. Where am I trying to go?

But I can't be somewhere else right now...I need to be here right ..... now. This is important for me to think about from time to time...since worries and thoughts about the future, are taking the present moment from me. Look people in the eyes and just relax you don't need to be hyperfocused and try to control everything right now (including trying to contol the future with my mind = worry).

I'm starting to be more present to the moment, and have it easier to be myself around people. This brotherhood and PE is a big part of that change.
 
One of my greatest strength is my ability to never look into the past and regret. I leave the past where it belongs and move forward with my life. I just learn not to repeat the same mistake.
 
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